{"id":14986,"date":"2014-02-28T12:44:38","date_gmt":"2014-02-28T11:44:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=14986"},"modified":"2014-10-20T20:02:58","modified_gmt":"2014-10-20T18:02:58","slug":"k-bide-je-predurcena-vyrostla-v-decaku-ted-sotva-uzivi-sve-syny","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=14986","title":{"rendered":"K b\u00edd\u011b je p\u0159edur\u010dena. Vyrostla v d\u011bc\u00e1ku, te\u010f sotva u\u017eiv\u00ed sv\u00e9 syny"},"content":{"rendered":"

Mlad\u00e1 matka se ze v\u0161ech sil sna\u017eila v \u017eivot\u011b obst\u00e1t. M\u00e1 ale sm\u016flu a te\u010f u\u017e nev\u00ed, kudy kam.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Osmadvacetilet\u00e1 Andrea Kov\u00e1\u010dov\u00e1 pat\u0159\u00ed k t\u011bm, kdo jsou k chudob\u011b tak\u0159\u00edkaj\u00edc p\u0159edur\u010deni.\u00a0 T\u0159eba u\u017e t\u00edm, jak\u00fdm rodi\u010d\u016fm se narodili.<\/p>\n

„Kdy\u017e jsem v osmn\u00e1cti vypadla z d\u011bc\u00e1ku, nev\u011bd\u011bla jsem o sv\u011bt\u011b nic. V Praze v metru m\u011b chytil revizor a j\u00e1 na n\u011bj koukala jako zjara. Nikdo mi ne\u0159ekl, \u017ee se v MHD jezd\u00ed na l\u00edstky. V domov\u011b n\u00e1s tenkr\u00e1t neu\u010dili, \u017ee je pot\u0159eba platit n\u00e1jem, jak hospoda\u0159it s pen\u011bzi,“ l\u00ed\u010d\u00ed Andrea.<\/p>\n

Jinak na domov nevzpom\u00edn\u00e1 ve zl\u00e9m. M\u011bli tam v\u0161echno, jezdili i k mo\u0159i, do Chorvatska, It\u00e1lie… V dom\u011b Na p\u016fli cesty, kde mlad\u00e9 lidi z domov\u016f tr\u00e9nuj\u00ed v soci\u00e1ln\u00edch dovednostech, poznala Robina a brzy se vzali. Andrea cht\u011bla b\u00fdt dobrou m\u00e1mou. Odli\u0161it se od t\u00e9 sv\u00e9, kterou nikdy nepoznala a ani poznat nechce.<\/p>\n

Malou m\u00edstnost\u00ed se rozl\u00e9haj\u00ed neartikulovan\u00e9 zvuky. Mlad\u0161\u00ed ze dvou syn\u016f si hlu\u010dn\u011b a s \u00fapornost\u00ed vlastn\u00ed autist\u016fm vynucuje mat\u010dinu pozornost. Andrea ho voz\u00ed p\u0159es p\u016fl Prahy do speci\u00e1ln\u00ed mate\u0159sk\u00e9 \u0161koly pro posti\u017een\u00e9 d\u011bti. Aby toho nebylo m\u00e1lo, loni se po dev\u00edti letech man\u017eelstv\u00ed rozvedla.<\/p>\n

Kdy\u017e kluci p\u0159ed V\u00e1nocemi dostali ne\u0161tovice, musela s nimi b\u00fdt p\u0159es m\u011bs\u00edc doma. P\u0159i\u0161la tak o pr\u00e1ci sanit\u00e1\u0159ky v Nemocnici Na Bulovce.<\/p>\n

„Exman\u017eel dvakr\u00e1t nedorazil na sl\u00edben\u00e9 hl\u00edd\u00e1n\u00ed a j\u00e1 se musela omlouvat z pr\u00e1ce. Neprodlou\u017eili mi smlouvu. Ani se jim nediv\u00edm,“ vypr\u00e1v\u00ed. Po Nov\u00e9m roce se uchytila na jin\u00e9m odd\u011blen\u00ed. Pook\u0159\u00e1la, by\u0165 to byla pr\u00e1ce za jeden\u00e1ct tis\u00edc hrub\u00e9ho.<\/p>\n

Jen\u017ee ka\u017ed\u00e9ho syna musela vyzved\u00e1vat odjinud a nest\u00edhala.<\/p>\n

„V p\u016fl \u0161est\u00e9 r\u00e1no jsem kluky budila. Byl to z\u00e1vod s \u010dasem. V\u010das dorazit do pr\u00e1ce, odpoledne pro d\u011bti, potom n\u00e1kup, va\u0159en\u00ed, s Kub\u00edkem ud\u011blat \u00fakoly.<\/p>\n

Stani\u010dn\u00ed se mi sna\u017eila vyj\u00edt vst\u0159\u00edc, ale bez hl\u00edd\u00e1n\u00ed to prost\u011b ne\u0161lo zvl\u00e1dnout,“ l\u00ed\u010d\u00ed mlad\u00e1 \u017eena.<\/p>\n

Odpracovala jeden\u00e1ct m\u011bs\u00edc\u016f. Sm\u016fla. Ten dvan\u00e1ct\u00fd j\u00ed chyb\u011bl, aby m\u011bla n\u00e1rok na podporu. Cel\u00fd leden a \u00fanor z\u016fstala bez pen\u011bz a neb\u00fdt jej\u00ed b\u00fdval\u00e9 t\u0159\u00eddn\u00ed u\u010ditelky z d\u00edv\u010d\u00ed katolick\u00e9 \u0161koly, rodina by hladov\u011bla.<\/p>\n

„Zuzka \u010cern\u00e1 se stala kmotrou m\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed, je hrozn\u011b hodn\u00e1. Jinak nem\u00e1m nikoho. \u017d\u00e1dn\u00e9 babi\u010dky.“<\/p>\n

Andrea \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u011b absolvovala dvoulet\u00e9 studium na pe\u010dovatelku v d\u00edv\u010d\u00ed c\u00edrkevn\u00ed \u0161kole.<\/p>\n

„Cht\u011bla jsem v \u017eivot\u011b d\u011blat n\u011bco u\u017eite\u010dn\u00e9ho. M\u016f\u017eu se starat o posti\u017een\u00e9 d\u011bti i o d\u016fchodce. Jen\u017ee na pohovorech se m\u011b hned zkraje zeptaj\u00ed, jestli m\u00e1m d\u011bti a jestli mi je m\u00e1 kdo pohl\u00eddat. Nem\u00e1, tak\u017ee si pr\u00e1ci nenajdu. Bez n\u00ed zase nezaplat\u00edm pan\u00ed na hl\u00edd\u00e1n\u00ed,“ popisuje s neot\u0159esitelnou logikou sv\u016fj za\u010darovan\u00fd kruh.<\/p>\n

Od st\u00e1tu dost\u00e1v\u00e1 na posti\u017een\u00e9ho syna t\u0159\u00edtis\u00edcov\u00fd p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvek.<\/p>\n

Exman\u017eelovi soud vym\u011b\u0159il v\u00fd\u017eivn\u00e9 na ka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b 1 600 korun. Doned\u00e1vna byl bez pr\u00e1ce, tak\u017ee alimenty neplatil.<\/p>\n

\u017den\u011b nav\u00edc zkomplikoval situaci t\u00edm, \u017ee si na po\u0161t\u011b je\u0161t\u011b nep\u0159evzal z\u00e1silku a rozhodnut\u00ed o rozvodu, a sv\u011b\u0159en\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed do mat\u010diny p\u00e9\u010de proto dosud nenabylo pr\u00e1vn\u00ed moci. \u00da\u0159ady kv\u016fli tomu na Andreu pohl\u00ed\u017eej\u00ed st\u00e1le jako na vdanou. Kdy\u017e spo\u010d\u00edt\u00e1 ve\u0161ker\u00e9 m\u011bs\u00ed\u010dn\u00ed n\u00e1klady, vy\u0161plhaj\u00ed se na sedmn\u00e1ct tis\u00edc.<\/p>\n

B\u00fdval\u00fd ministr Jarom\u00edr Dr\u00e1bek v r\u00e1mci \u00faspor omezil ne\u00fapln\u00fdm rodin\u00e1m soci\u00e1ln\u00ed p\u0159\u00edplatky, co\u017e se neblaze dotklo desetitis\u00edc\u016f d\u011bt\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Nov\u00e1 ministryn\u011b pr\u00e1ce a soci\u00e1ln\u00edch v\u011bc\u00ed Michaela Marksov\u00e1-Tominov\u00e1 slibuje, \u017ee bude soci\u00e1ln\u00ed solidarit\u011b v\u011bnovat v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed pozornost. M\u00e1 na\u0161l\u00e1pnuto prosadit z\u00e1lohov\u00e1n\u00ed v\u00fd\u017eivn\u00e9ho, kdy na sebe st\u00e1t p\u0159evezme \u00fakol vymoci alimenty od neplat\u00edc\u00edho rodi\u010de.<\/p>\n

A jakou radu maj\u00ed pro Andreu na ministerstvu pr\u00e1ce a soci\u00e1ln\u00edch v\u011bc\u00ed? „Na situaci matek, kter\u00e9 se ocitly v t\u00edsni kv\u016fli nespolupr\u00e1ci druh\u00e9ho rodi\u010de, reaguje z\u00e1kon o pomoci v hmotn\u00e9 nouzi. Pokud nejsou rodi\u010de je\u0161t\u011b rozvedeni, ale prokazateln\u011b spolu ne\u017eij\u00ed, m\u016f\u017ee \u00fa\u0159ad pr\u00e1ce hodnotit pouze matku s d\u00edt\u011btem. Dal\u0161\u00ed pomoc mohou doty\u010dn\u00e9 poskytnout tak\u00e9 soci\u00e1ln\u00ed pracovn\u00edci na \u00fa\u0159ad\u011b v jej\u00ed obci,“ referuje Petr Sulek z ministerstva.<\/p>\n

B\u00fdval\u00e9 \u017e\u00e1kyni se sna\u017e\u00ed pomoci jej\u00ed u\u010ditelka z d\u00edv\u010d\u00ed c\u00edrkevn\u00ed \u0161koly Zuzana \u010cern\u00e1. „Andrea m\u00e1 ohromn\u00fd vztah k lidem. Um\u00ed to s nimi a je velik\u00e1 \u0161koda, \u017ee nem\u016f\u017ee v pe\u010dovatelstv\u00ed pracovat. P\u0159e\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 te\u010f jen d\u00edky charit\u011b. Na\u0161\u00ed \u0161kole se ob\u010das povede pro n\u011bkter\u00e9 \u017e\u00e1kyn\u011b z\u00edskat p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvek z farnosti,“ vysv\u011btluje \u010cern\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Andrea vypr\u00e1v\u00ed sv\u016fj p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh v\u011bcn\u011b, bez emoc\u00ed. Jen na ot\u00e1zku, kdy m\u011bla naposledy z n\u011b\u010deho radost, nedovede odpov\u011bd\u011bt. „\u0158\u00edk\u00e1 se, \u017ee cik\u00e1ni jen berou d\u00e1vky, j\u00e1 jsem cik\u00e1nka a nem\u00e1m nic. Mus\u00edme se uskrovnit i na j\u00eddle. Pro sebe neva\u0159\u00edm, \u0161id\u00edm se. Za posledn\u00ed m\u011bs\u00edce jsem zhubla p\u0159es deset kilo,“ l\u00ed\u010d\u00ed Andrea.<\/p>\n

Pak u\u017e j\u00ed autistick\u00fd syn nenech\u00e1 pokra\u010dovat. Nespokojen\u011b b\u011bh\u00e1 po pokoji a k\u0159i\u010d\u00ed, a\u017e zal\u00e9haj\u00ed u\u0161i. Zkou\u0161\u00ed ho zklidnit, jde to ztuha. Jak dlouho se takov\u00fd \u017eivot d\u00e1 je\u0161t\u011b vydr\u017eet?<\/p>\n

cel\u00fd \u010dl\u00e1nek je v dne\u0161n\u00edm vyd\u00e1n\u00ed MfD<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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