{"id":15043,"date":"2014-03-06T09:58:19","date_gmt":"2014-03-06T08:58:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=15043"},"modified":"2014-10-20T20:02:58","modified_gmt":"2014-10-20T18:02:58","slug":"vzdyt-jsem-jen-nevidoma-copak-nemuzu-byt-dobra-matka","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=15043","title":{"rendered":"V\u017edy\u0165 jsem jen nevidom\u00e1, copak nem\u016f\u017eu b\u00fdt dobr\u00e1 matka?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pavla Kova\u0159\u00edkov\u00e1, medailistka z paralympi\u00e1d a matka t\u0159\u00edlet\u00e9 dcery, bojuje za nevidom\u00e9 matky. Vad\u00ed j\u00ed chov\u00e1n\u00ed n\u011bkter\u00fdch zdravotn\u00edk\u016f k nevidom\u00fdm. Chce to zm\u011bnit \u2013 pustila se do pr\u016fzkumu. Oslovuje \u017eeny po porodu a pt\u00e1 se jich na zku\u0161enosti.<\/strong>
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Ta vzpom\u00ednka je star\u00e1 deset let, p\u0159esto Pavle Kova\u0159\u00edkov\u00e9 uv\u00e1zla v hlav\u011b natrvalo. Kdy\u017e se tehdy l\u00e9ka\u0159i sna\u017eili zjistit p\u0159\u00ed\u010dinu jej\u00ed bolesti b\u0159icha (z n\u00ed\u017e se nakonec vyklubal akutn\u00ed z\u00e1n\u011bt ledviny), poslali ji na polikliniku v pra\u017esk\u00fdch Male\u0161ic\u00edch. Gynekolo\u017eka, kter\u00e1 ji tak\u00e9 vy\u0161et\u0159ovala, se nepokryt\u011b podivila: „Jak to, \u017ee nejste sterilizovan\u00e1?“ Z\u016fstala jako opa\u0159en\u00e1: „Co\u017ee? Jen proto, \u017ee nevid\u00edm?!“<\/p>\n

Podobn\u00fdch zku\u0161enost\u00ed se zdravotn\u00edky nasb\u00edrala Pavla od t\u00e9 doby v\u00edc. Po narozen\u00ed dcery a jej\u00edch hospitalizac\u00edch jich je\u0161t\u011b p\u0159ibylo.<\/p>\n

Vlo\u017eila se do v\u011bci s urputnost\u00ed n\u011bkdej\u0161\u00ed \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00e9 medailistky a dr\u017eitelky rekord\u016f z paralympi\u00e1d. Pavla Kova\u0159\u00edkov\u00e1, za svobodna Valn\u00ed\u010dkov\u00e1, toti\u017e nen\u00ed jen tak ledajak\u00e1 \u017eena. V roce 1993 o n\u00ed vznikl mimo jin\u00e9 dokument GEN. Krom\u011b studia tlumo\u010dnictv\u00ed a p\u0159ekladatelstv\u00ed str\u00e1vila t\u0159i roky v USA na univerzit\u011b v Pensylv\u00e1nii, kde studovala poradenstv\u00ed a psychoterapii.<\/p>\n

„V Americe jsem ocenila tamn\u00ed otev\u0159enost. Na univerzit\u011b se nikdo nepozastavoval nad t\u00edm, \u017ee nevid\u00edm, a zcela v\u011bcn\u011b jsme se bavili o zp\u016fsobu studia. U n\u00e1s je st\u00e1le je\u0161t\u011b jinakost bari\u00e9rou. Hodn\u011b \u010cech\u016f se neum\u00ed otev\u0159en\u011b zeptat, v kontaktu s posti\u017een\u00fdm znerv\u00f3zn\u00ed. Zejm\u00e9na tady na mal\u00e9m m\u011bst\u011b by pro n\u011bkoho bylo mo\u017en\u00e1 pochopiteln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, kdybych \u017eila v n\u011bjak\u00e9m \u00fastavu,“ usm\u00edv\u00e1 se dvaa\u010dty\u0159icetilet\u00e1 \u017eena.<\/p>\n

Dcera v\u00ed, \u017ee na m\u00e1mu mus\u00ed jinak<\/strong><\/p>\n

P\u0159ed p\u016fl rokem se s rodinou odst\u011bhovala z pra\u017esk\u00e9ho bytu do \u010cesk\u00e9ho Brodu. Splnila si tak sen o mal\u00e9 zahr\u00e1dce. Ve star\u0161\u00edm prostorn\u00e9m rodinn\u00e9m domku se c\u00edt\u00ed svobodn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. Zato pro sv\u00e9 okol\u00ed je s b\u00edlou hol\u00ed a malou hol\u010di\u010dkou tak tro\u0161ku exot.<\/p>\n

Jej\u00ed dcera, Marta, u\u017e chod\u00ed do \u0161kolky. Nejt\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed obdob\u00ed, kdy je\u0161t\u011b nemluvila, u\u017e pominulo. D\u0159\u00edv musela matka nap\u00ednat u\u0161i a zkoumat ka\u017ed\u00fd zvuk, aby vyhodnotila, zda je dcera v bezpe\u010d\u00ed. „Vid\u00edc\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bk m\u016f\u017ee d\u00edt\u011b kontrolovat na p\u016fl oka. Ode m\u011b to cht\u011blo nep\u0159etr\u017eitou pozornost,“ l\u00ed\u010d\u00ed. Te\u010f u\u017e dcerka v\u0161echno komentuje, do slov p\u0159ev\u00e1d\u00ed v\u0161e, co d\u011bl\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Vesel\u00e9 d\u011bv\u010d\u00e1tko kouk\u00e1 na sv\u011bt p\u0159es br\u00fdle, zd\u011bdilo toti\u017e po matce o\u010dn\u00ed nemoc. Zat\u00edm v\u0161ak vid\u00ed a d\u00edky tomu, \u017ee se probl\u00e9m v\u010das podchytil, m\u00e1 po absolvovan\u00fdch operac\u00edch nad\u011bji, \u017ee se zrak nezhor\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Marta u\u017e tak\u00e9 v\u00ed, \u017ee se na m\u00e1mu mus\u00ed tro\u0161ku jinak ne\u017e na t\u00e1tu. Jemu uk\u00e1\u017ee namalovan\u00fd obr\u00e1zek zd\u00e1lky, zat\u00edmco mamince ho d\u00e1 do ruky. Chce, aby si na n\u011bj s\u00e1hla.<\/p>\n

Ruce jsou pro nevidomou m\u00e1mu z\u00e1kladn\u00ed n\u00e1stroj. Mus\u00ed je m\u00edt st\u00e1le v pohotovosti a \u010dist\u00e9. Jinak ne\u017e hmatem nepozn\u00e1, \u017ee m\u00e1 potomek po j\u00eddle umazanou pusu. Kdy\u017e chce zjistit, zda hol\u010di\u010dka p\u0159ikyvuje nebo vrt\u00ed hlavou, mus\u00ed j\u00ed na tu hlavu s\u00e1hnout.<\/p>\n

D\u011bl\u00e1 si pr\u016fzkum mezi rodi\u010di<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pavla Kova\u0159\u00edkov\u00e1 vystihuje z\u00e1sadn\u00ed probl\u00e9m: Pokud se rodi\u010d\u016fm narod\u00ed posti\u017een\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b, existuje pro n\u011b \u0159ada podp\u016frn\u00fdch organizac\u00ed a asociac\u00ed. Ale nikoliv naopak. Paradoxn\u011b tu chyb\u00ed slu\u017eba pro nevidom\u00e9 rodi\u010de.<\/p>\n

„Opakovan\u011b se dov\u00edd\u00e1m o p\u0159\u00edpadech, kdy po zji\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed gravidity gynekolog automaticky sm\u011b\u0159uje nevidomou \u017eenu k interrupci. Nebo se b\u011b\u017en\u011b st\u00e1v\u00e1, \u017ee pokud v porodnici zjist\u00ed, \u017ee jsou nevidom\u00ed oba rodi\u010de, pos\u00edlaj\u00ed hl\u00e1\u0161en\u00ed na odbor p\u00e9\u010de o d\u011bti a soci\u00e1ln\u00ed pracovnice p\u0159ijde k nim dom\u016f na \u0161et\u0159en\u00ed,“ popisuje \u017eena.<\/p>\n

Ve chvilk\u00e1ch volna r\u00e1da vy\u0161\u00edv\u00e1 a maluje. Do patn\u00e1cti let nepatrn\u011b vid\u011bla, a tak mohla vn\u00edmat barvy. Dom\u00e1cnost zvl\u00e1d\u00e1 s minim\u00e1ln\u00ed pomoc\u00ed man\u017eela, kter\u00fd chod\u00ed do pr\u00e1ce. Vypere a s pomoc\u00ed \u010dte\u010dky barev poskl\u00e1d\u00e1 pr\u00e1dlo. Tahle pom\u016fcka se pr\u00fd hod\u00ed t\u0159eba p\u0159i p\u0159eb\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed pono\u017eek. Pavla m\u016f\u017ee tak\u00e9 samostatn\u011b pracovat na po\u010d\u00edta\u010di. Text se j\u00ed bu\u010f zobraz\u00ed na hmatov\u00e9m displeji v Braillov\u011b p\u00edsmu, nebo pou\u017eije program na um\u011bl\u00fd hlas. P\u0159ekl\u00e1d\u00e1, p\u0159edn\u00e1\u0161\u00ed, anga\u017euje se v organizac\u00edch pro zrakov\u011b posti\u017een\u00e9.<\/p>\n

„Kdy\u017e jsme s dcerou jezdily na o\u010dn\u00ed operace, n\u011bkter\u00e9 sest\u0159i\u010dky ze m\u011b byly hodn\u011b v rozpac\u00edch. Ne\u017e se je poda\u0159ilo p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dit, nev\u011b\u0159ily, \u017ee se o dceru dok\u00e1\u017eu postarat. Jedna matka mi vypr\u00e1v\u011bla o n\u00e1cviku koup\u00e1n\u00ed po porodu. Ostatn\u00edm dali do rukou miminka, na tom jej\u00edm to sest\u0159i\u010dka ukazovala. Kdy\u017e se ta maminka zeptala, kdy se to nau\u010d\u00ed ona, sestra ji odbyla: Vy to nepot\u0159ebujete, proto\u017ee to stejn\u011b d\u011blat nebudete.“ Pavla Kova\u0159\u00edkov\u00e1 ob\u010das i pook\u0159eje. S man\u017eelem se rozhodli po\u0159\u00eddit Mart\u011b sourozence a po\u017e\u00e1dali o adopci. Tam se s \u017e\u00e1dnou diskriminac\u00ed nesetkali a hladce pro\u0161li v\u0161emi prov\u011brkami. Te\u010f jen \u010dekaj\u00ed na d\u00edt\u011b.<\/p>\n

„Neexistuje \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 \u0161ablona, jak se k sob\u011b chovat. Ale z\u00e1kladem je mluvit spolu. Pt\u00e1t se n\u00e1s. Uv\u011b\u0159it, \u017ee nevidom\u00fd si sv\u00e9 v\u011bci dok\u00e1\u017ee vy\u0159\u00eddit s\u00e1m. \u017de obvykle v\u00ed, co d\u011bl\u00e1,“ ubezpe\u010duje s \u00fasm\u011bvem Pavla Kova\u0159\u00edkov\u00e1.<\/p>\n

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Kontrolovat nevidom\u00e9 je diskrimina\u010dn\u00ed postup<\/strong><\/p>\n

Stesky zdravotn\u011b posti\u017een\u00fdch \u017een na p\u0159\u00edstup zdravotn\u00edk\u016f registruj\u00ed i v Hnut\u00ed za aktivn\u00ed mate\u0159stv\u00ed. „Ch\u00e1pu, \u017ee person\u00e1l vede k obez\u0159etnosti neznalost a strach. N\u011bkdy to ale hrani\u010d\u00ed a\u017e se \u0161ikanou,“ m\u00edn\u00ed Petra Sovov\u00e1 ze sdru\u017een\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Podle Petra Sulka z ministerstva pr\u00e1ce a soci\u00e1ln\u00edch v\u011bc\u00ed neexistuje \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd p\u0159edpis ani sm\u011brnice, kter\u00e9 by ukl\u00e1daly povinnost prov\u00e1d\u011bt \u0161et\u0159en\u00ed v rodin\u00e1ch zdravotn\u011b posti\u017een\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f. Jak\u00e1koliv diskriminace by byla v rozporu s \u00damluvou OSN. „Zdravotnick\u00e1 za\u0159\u00edzen\u00ed maj\u00ed oznamovac\u00ed povinnost pouze v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, \u017ee se dozv\u011bd\u00ed o zanedb\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed p\u00e9\u010de \u010di o ohro\u017een\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte,“ dodal Petr Sulek.<\/p>\n

P\u0159edseda \u010cesk\u00e9 neonatologick\u00e9 spole\u010dnosti Lum\u00edr Kantor p\u0159ipou\u0161t\u00ed, \u017ee zejm\u00e9na v mal\u00fdch porodnic\u00edch m\u00e1 person\u00e1l miziv\u00e9 zku\u0161enosti s handicapovan\u00fdmi rodi\u010dkami. „Sestry jsou nav\u00edc p\u0159et\u00ed\u017een\u00e9. T\u0159eba u n\u00e1s ve Fakultn\u00ed nemocnici Olomouc jsme ale p\u0159ed \u010dasem zareagovali na po\u017eadavek nesly\u0161\u00edc\u00edch a uspo\u0159\u00e1dali \u0161kolen\u00ed v z\u00e1kladech znakov\u00e9 \u0159e\u010di,“ dod\u00e1v\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Zku\u0161enosti s nevidom\u00fdmi i hluchon\u011bm\u00fdmi matkami m\u00e1 i \u00dastav p\u00e9\u010de o matku a d\u00edt\u011b v pra\u017esk\u00e9m Podol\u00ed. Podle vedouc\u00ed porodn\u00edho s\u00e1lu Aleny M\u011bchurov\u00e9 se o n\u011b staraj\u00ed stejn\u011b jako o ostatn\u00ed. „N\u011bkolik lid\u00ed um\u00ed dokonce znakovou \u0159e\u010d. Je pravda, \u017ee m\u00e1 ob\u010das sestra tendenci p\u0159isko\u010dit a ony p\u0159itom pomoc nepot\u0159ebuj\u00ed, ale sna\u017e\u00edme se b\u00fdt vst\u0159\u00edcn\u00ed. A nikdo si zat\u00edm nest\u011b\u017eoval,“ podot\u00fdk\u00e1 docentka M\u011bchurov\u00e1.<\/p>\n

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Pavla Kova\u0159\u00edkov\u00e1, medailistka z paralympi\u00e1d a matka t\u0159\u00edlet\u00e9 dcery, bojuje za nevidom\u00e9 matky. Vad\u00ed j\u00ed chov\u00e1n\u00ed n\u011bkter\u00fdch zdravotn\u00edk\u016f k nevidom\u00fdm. Chce to zm\u011bnit \u2013 pustila […]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":11802,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15043","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spolecnost","category-zpravy"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15043","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=15043"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15043\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/11802"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=15043"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=15043"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=15043"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}