{"id":15191,"date":"2023-05-03T07:03:40","date_gmt":"2023-05-03T05:03:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=15191"},"modified":"2023-05-03T07:03:40","modified_gmt":"2023-05-03T05:03:40","slug":"kdyz-matka-nenavidi-dite","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=15191","title":{"rendered":"Kdy\u017e matka nen\u00e1vid\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Radost z novorozen\u00e9ho potomka n\u011bkdy nep\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed. T\u00fdk\u00e1 se to podle odhadu psychiatr\u016f ka\u017ed\u00e9 des\u00e1t\u00e9 \u017eeny. Jenom m\u00e1lokter\u00e1 matka by v\u0161ak p\u0159iznala, \u017ee sv\u00e9ho pr\u00e1v\u011b narozen\u00e9ho potomka nemiluje. P\u0159esto se nejedn\u00e1 o ojedin\u011blou v\u011bc. Jsou matky, kter\u00e9 v\u016f\u010di sv\u00e9mu potomkovi poci\u0165uj\u00ed a\u017e nen\u00e1vist.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 by to v\u0161ak nep\u0159iznala ani nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00ed kamar\u00e1dce. A partnerovi? Tomu u\u017e v\u016fbec ne. &#8222;Styd\u011bla jsem se za to, ale nemohla jsem si pomoct. V\u016fbec jsem nem\u011bla radost, \u017ee m\u00e1m syna. Starala jsem se o n\u011bj jenom z nutnosti, ale net\u011b\u0161ilo m\u011b to. Byla jsem stra\u0161n\u011b unaven\u00e1. Na druhou stranu jsem se o n\u011bj velmi b\u00e1la,&#8230;&#8220; to jsou slova Martiny, kter\u00e1 po porodu za\u017eila velmi t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 chv\u00edle.<\/p>\n<p>N\u011bkter\u00e9 matky, kter\u00e9 se musely pot\u00fdkat s poporodn\u00ed depres\u00ed, se odhodlaj\u00ed sv\u011b\u0159it v l\u00e9ka\u0159sk\u00e9 ordinaci. To je tak\u00e9 asi jedin\u00e9 m\u00edsto, kde jim dok\u00e1\u017e\u00ed pomoci. Jde toti\u017e \u010dasto o v\u00e1\u017en\u00fd stav, kter\u00fd l\u00e9\u010dbu vy\u017eaduje. Hormon\u00e1ln\u00ed bou\u0159e, kter\u00e1 se b\u011bhem t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed a po porodu v t\u011ble \u017eeny odehr\u00e1v\u00e1, bohu\u017eel m\u016f\u017ee zp\u016fsobit depresivn\u00ed stavy. To n\u00e1sledn\u011b vyvol\u00e1 pocity provin\u011bn\u00ed a zmatku.<\/p>\n<p>Matka i d\u00edt\u011b pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed stabiln\u00ed uspo\u0159\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed, co\u017e znamen\u00e1 p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm podporu sv\u00fdch nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00edch. Nejistota v n\u00e1stupu instinktivn\u00edho rodi\u010dovsk\u00e9ho chov\u00e1n\u00ed nebo kolize dvou rozd\u00edln\u00fdch v\u00fdchovn\u00fdch styl\u016f m\u016f\u017ee v dob\u011b po porodu v\u00e9st k rozkol\u00eds\u00e1n\u00ed psychiky, k \u010demu\u017e p\u0159isp\u00edv\u00e1 vy\u010derp\u00e1n\u00ed a hormon\u00e1ln\u00ed zm\u011bny v t\u011ble matky. Z to\u00ad &#8218;ho vypl\u00fdv\u00e1, \u017ee v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed riziko m\u016f\u017eeme \u010dekat u matek s destabilizovan\u00fdm rodinn\u00fdm prost\u0159ed\u00edm.&#8220;<\/p>\n<p>Existuj\u00ed t\u0159i formy poporodn\u00ed deprese. Ta nejleh\u010d\u00ed je z\u00e1rove\u0148 nej\u010dast\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. \u0158\u00edk\u00e1 se j\u00ed poporodn\u00ed blues a m\u016f\u017ee se dostavit n\u011bkolik hodin a\u017e dn\u00ed po porodu. Novope\u010den\u00e1 matka m\u00e1 obavy, \u017ee se nebude um\u011bt o potomka postarat a \u017ee ho nem\u00e1 dostate\u010dn\u011b r\u00e1da. Krom\u011b skl\u00ed\u010denosti a nespavosti ji prov\u00e1z\u00ed i bezd\u016fvodn\u00e9 v\u00fdbuchy pl\u00e1\u010de nebo vzteku.<\/p>\n<p>Nejlep\u0161\u00edm zp\u016fsobem, jak se s t\u00edmto stavem poprat, je z\u00edskat alespo\u0148 trochu \u010dasu na sebe. Jestli\u017ee poporodn\u00ed blues trv\u00e1 d\u00e9le ne\u017e dva t\u00fddny, je nam\u00edst\u011b sv\u011b\u0159it se s probl\u00e9mem l\u00e9ka\u0159i.<\/p>\n<p>Druhou, t\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed podobou, je poporodn\u00ed deprese, kter\u00e1 se m\u016f\u017ee objevit a\u017e do jednoho roku v\u011bku d\u00edt\u011bte. Projevuje se podobn\u00fdmi p\u0159\u00edznaky, jako poporodn\u00ed blues, ale v o n\u011bco zes\u00edlen\u00e9 form\u011b.\u00a0Schopnost postarat se o d\u00edt\u011b je zna\u010dn\u011b sn\u00ed\u017eena a matka by rozhodn\u011b m\u011bla vyhledat odbornou l\u00e9ka\u0159skou pomoc psychiatra. Poporodn\u00ed deprese se t\u00fdk\u00e1 p\u0159ibli\u017en\u011b deseti procent matek.<\/p>\n<p>Nejsiln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed formou je pak poporodn\u00ed psych\u00f3za. Ta se projev\u00ed velmi brzy po porodu, nejpozd\u011bji do jednoho m\u011bs\u00edce. Je z\u00e1ke\u0159n\u00e1 v tom, \u017ee se dostavuje postupn\u011b, po prvn\u00edch t\u00fddnech norm\u00e1ln\u00edho \u017eivota s miminkem. V t\u011bchto p\u0159\u00edpadech je nezbytn\u00e1 okam\u017eit\u00e1 pomoc odborn\u00edka. Posti\u017een\u00e1 \u017eena toti\u017e m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt dokonce i halucinace.\u00a0Matka m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt v tomto p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b nebezpe\u010dn\u00e1 sob\u011b i sv\u00e9mu potomkovi a po ur\u010ditou dobu \u010dasto nesm\u00ed z\u016fst\u00e1vat s d\u00edt\u011btem sama, v m\u00edstnosti mus\u00ed b\u00fdt v\u017edy je\u0161t\u011b n\u011bkdo jin\u00fd. Po vyl\u00e9\u010den\u00ed v\u0161ak jsou \u017eeny, kter\u00e9 si touto diagn\u00f3zou pro\u0161ly, zcela norm\u00e1ln\u00ed, miluj\u00edc\u00ed matky: Pokud nejde o rozvoj psych\u00f3zy, kter\u00e1 byla onemocn\u011bn\u00edm matky ji\u017e p\u0159ed t\u011bhotenstv\u00edm, zpravidla dojde k \u00fapln\u00e9mu vyl\u00e9\u010den\u00ed a k rozvoji norm\u00e1ln\u00edho vztahu matky k d\u00edt\u011bti.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>\u010detnost v\u00fdskytu P Poporodn\u00ed blues postihuje a\u017e 75 procent \u017een. Je reakc\u00ed na hormon\u00e1ln\u00ed bou\u0159i, kterou t\u011blo matky proch\u00e1z\u00ed. Rozhodn\u011b se za ni nesty\u010fte, jde v podstat\u011b o relativn\u011b b\u011b\u017enou z\u00e1le\u017eitost. P Poporodn\u00ed depres\u00ed trp\u00ed asi 10 a\u017e 15 procent \u017een. Jde o stav, kter\u00fd s\u00e1m od sebe nezmiz\u00ed a vyhled\u00e1n\u00ed odborn\u00edka je nezbytn\u00e9. D\u00e1 se velmi dob\u0159e zvl\u00e1dnout, ale l\u00e9ka\u0159e je pot\u0159eba vyhledat v\u010das. P Poporodn\u00ed psych\u00f3za se t\u00fdk\u00e1 p\u0159ibli\u017en\u011b jedn\u00e9 \u017eeny z 500 a\u017e 1000. Vy\u0161\u0161\u00ed riziko v\u00fdskytu je u prvorodi\u010dek star\u0161\u00edch 35 let. Matka ztr\u00e1c\u00ed kontakt s realitou, n\u011bkdy si ani nevzpom\u00edn\u00e1, jak se jmenuje nebo jak\u00fd je den. Sv\u016fj stav si neuv\u011bdomuje a mus\u00ed b\u00fdt hospitalizov\u00e1na. Hlavn\u00ed p\u0159\u00ed\u010dinou jsou dramatick\u00e9 hormon\u00e1ln\u00ed zm\u011bny po porodu. Postihuje i du\u0161evn\u011b zcela zdrav\u00e9 \u017eeny.<\/p>\n<table>\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td><\/td>\n<td>DENISA HAVELDOV\u00c1<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>Odkaz:<\/td>\n<td><a href=\"http:\/\/www.prazsky.denik.cz\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">http:\/\/www.prazsky.denik.cz<\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>Radost z novorozen\u00e9ho potomka n\u011bkdy nep\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed. T\u00fdk\u00e1 se to podle odhadu psychiatr\u016f ka\u017ed\u00e9 des\u00e1t\u00e9 \u017eeny. 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