{"id":16438,"date":"2014-06-11T09:01:00","date_gmt":"2014-06-11T07:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=16438"},"modified":"2023-06-12T04:57:16","modified_gmt":"2023-06-12T02:57:16","slug":"tri-ctvrtiny-nasilniku-vyrustaly-v-rozvracenych-rodinach","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=16438","title":{"rendered":"T\u0159i \u010dtvrtiny n\u00e1siln\u00edk\u016f vyr\u016fstaly v rozvr\u00e1cen\u00fdch rodin\u00e1ch"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u0158ada d\u011bt\u00ed, kter\u00e9 d\u011btstv\u00ed a ml\u00e1d\u00ed pro\u017eily v ne\u00fapln\u00fdch rodin\u00e1ch nebo dom\u00e1cnostech, kde se vyskytovaly konflikty a dom\u00e1c\u00ed n\u00e1sil\u00ed, si n\u00e1sledky pro\u017eit\u00fdch traumatizuj\u00edc\u00edch ud\u00e1lost\u00ed nese cel\u00fd \u017eivot.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Devastuj\u00edc\u00ed vliv za\u017eit\u00e9ho n\u00e1sil\u00ed v\u0161ak nekon\u010d\u00ed t\u00edm, \u017ee d\u011bti vyrostou \u010di z nevhodn\u00e9ho dom\u00e1c\u00edho prost\u0159ed\u00ed odejdou.
\nPozd\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ob\u011bti dom\u00e1c\u00edho n\u00e1sil\u00ed v dosp\u011bl\u00e9m v\u011bku toti\u017e poch\u00e1zej\u00ed ze 74 procent pr\u00e1v\u011b z dysfunk\u010dn\u00edch rodin, n\u00e1siln\u00ed partne\u0159i \u010di partnerky ze 77 procent z rodin, kde vid\u011bli n\u00e1sil\u00ed, m\u011bli despotick\u00e9 rodi\u010de, rodi\u010de se rozvedli \u010di se oni sami stali objekty napaden\u00ed a t\u00fdr\u00e1n\u00ed, uv\u00e1d\u00ed sociologick\u00e1 sonda poradensk\u00e9ho centra ROSA.
\n„P\u016fvodn\u00ed rodina je m\u00edsto, kde sou\u010dasn\u00ed pachatel\u00e9 a pachatelky vyr\u016fstali a kde se mohli nau\u010dit vzory chov\u00e1n\u00ed,“ \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 socioterapeutka Marie Mach\u00e1\u010dkov\u00e1.
\nPodle n\u00ed se potvrzuje, \u017ee v\u011bt\u0161ina agresivn\u00edch partner\u016f i ob\u011bt\u00ed podobn\u00e9 z\u00e1\u017eitky nejd\u0159\u00edve vid\u011bla u sv\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f, m\u011bla despotick\u00e9ho otce \u010di matku nebo jejich d\u011btstv\u00ed bylo prov\u00e1zeno v\u00e1\u017en\u00fdmi rodinn\u00fdmi konflikty, kter\u00e9 kon\u010dily rozvodem, poni\u017eov\u00e1n\u00edm, psychick\u00fdm n\u00e1sil\u00edm\u2026
\nBudouc\u00ed pachatel\u00e9 a pachatelky v d\u011btstv\u00ed toti\u017e vid\u011bli, \u017ee n\u00e1sil\u00ed je \u010dasto „efektivn\u00ed zp\u016fsob“ jedn\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00fd vede k c\u00edli, tedy spln\u011bn\u00ed p\u0159edstav n\u00e1siln\u00edka. Ob\u011b\u0165 zase doma vid\u011bla, \u017ee takov\u00e9 jedn\u00e1n\u00ed je trpn\u011b sn\u00e1\u0161eno, je to n\u011bco „norm\u00e1ln\u00edho“ v \u017eivot\u011b rodiny, s \u010d\u00edm\u017e je t\u0159eba se bez v\u011bt\u0161\u00edho odporu sm\u00ed\u0159it.<\/p>\n

Za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 to n\u00e1podobou<\/p>\n

To, co d\u011bti mus\u00ed vid\u011bt, sly\u0161et a pro\u017e\u00edvat, se projevuje dvoj\u00edm zp\u016fsobem. Vedle poruch chov\u00e1n\u00ed, z\u00e1va\u017en\u00fdch psychick\u00fdch a zdravotn\u00edch<\/span> probl\u00e9m\u016f, no\u010dn\u00edch m\u016fr a d\u011bs\u016f, se objevuje tak\u00e9 to, \u017ee d\u011bti maj\u00ed tendence chov\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00e9 vid\u011bly, opakovat.
\n„V poradn\u011b se setk\u00e1v\u00e1me i s p\u0159\u00edpady, \u017ee n\u00e1siln\u00fd partner p\u0159\u00edmo vyz\u00fdv\u00e1 d\u00edt\u011b, aby si do toho druh\u00e9ho tak\u00e9 koplo, p\u011btilet\u00e1 hol\u010di\u010dka je nav\u00e1d\u011bn\u00e1 sv\u00fdm otcem, aby plivala na matku,“ dod\u00e1v\u00e1 Mach\u00e1\u010dkov\u00e1.<\/p>\n

„T\u00e1ta mi \u0159\u00edkal, \u017ee kdy\u017e se mi n\u011bco nel\u00edb\u00ed, m\u00e1m ka\u017ed\u00e9mu d\u00e1t nejd\u0159\u00edve p\u0159es hubu,“ sv\u011b\u0159il se desetilet\u00fd Petr.
\n„\u017de je to dobr\u00fd zp\u016fsob, jak n\u011bkoho rychle p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dit. M\u00e1ma taky v\u017edycky poslechne. Kdy\u017e m\u016f\u017ee t\u00e1ta, pro\u010d ne j\u00e1?“ zd\u016fvodnil fakt, \u017ee kopl svoji spolu\u017ea\u010dku.<\/p>\n

D\u011bti a mladistv\u00ed svoje jedn\u00e1n\u00ed \u010dasto zd\u016fvod\u0148uj\u00ed t\u00edm, \u017ee to p\u0159ece d\u011blaj\u00ed, a bez postihu, i jejich rodi\u010de, potvrzuj\u00ed u\u010ditel\u00e9 a psychologov\u00e9. V dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed a dosp\u011blosti se za\u017eit\u00e1 skute\u010dnost projevuje pr\u00e1v\u011b v tom, \u017ee opakuj\u00ed n\u00e1siln\u00e9 vzorce chov\u00e1n\u00ed ve vlastn\u00edch partnersk\u00fdch vztaz\u00edch<\/p>\n

D\u011bti v rodin\u00e1ch, kde se vyskytuje dom\u00e1c\u00ed n\u00e1sil\u00ed, jsou sv\u011bdky ur\u00e1\u017eek, poni\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed, vulgarit, psychick\u00e9ho teroru \u010di p\u0159\u00edmo fyzick\u00e9ho n\u00e1sil\u00ed ve v\u00edce ne\u017e devades\u00e1ti procentech p\u0159\u00edpad\u016f, d\u00e1le vypl\u00fdv\u00e1 ze sondy centra ROSA, kter\u00e9 dvacet let pom\u00e1h\u00e1 ob\u011btem n\u00e1sil\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Kl\u00ed\u010dov\u00fd vliv rodiny, rodinn\u00e9ho prost\u0159ed\u00ed a atmosf\u00e9ry na \u017eivotn\u00ed postoje a chov\u00e1n\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed a mladistv\u00fdch v dal\u0161\u00edch \u017eivotn\u00edch etap\u00e1ch potvrzuj\u00ed i dal\u0161\u00ed v\u00fdzkumy.
\nNap\u0159\u00edklad studie „Vliv vybran\u00fdch charakteristik rodinn\u00e9ho prost\u0159ed\u00ed na rizikov\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed 15let\u00fdch adolescent\u016f“ Jana B. Novotn\u00e9ho a Petra Okrajka upozornila, \u017ee v rodin\u00e1ch, kde kou\u0159\u00ed oba rodi\u010de, si zap\u00e1l\u00ed 52 procent d\u011bt\u00ed ve v\u011bku 15 let.<\/p>\n

Studie upozornila i na to, \u017ee na probl\u00e9mov\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed mladistv\u00fdch m\u00e1 vliv nep\u0159\u00edtomnost matky. A\u0165 u\u017e z d\u016fvodu nemoci \u010di p\u0159\u00edli\u0161n\u00e9ho pracovn\u00edho vyt\u00ed\u017een\u00ed.
\nAbsence matky a jej\u00edho dlouhodob\u00e9ho a systematick\u00e9ho v\u00fdchovn\u00e9ho p\u016fsoben\u00ed posiluje rizika z\u00e1vadn\u00e9ho \u010di probl\u00e9mov\u00e9ho chov\u00e1n\u00ed dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edch potomk\u016f.<\/p>\n

Studie ale nepotvrdila, \u017ee alkoholismus rodi\u010d\u016f automaticky vede k n\u00e1podob\u011b u potomk\u016f. Mo\u017en\u00e1 zde podle psycholog\u016f hraje roli ur\u010dit\u00fd odstra\u0161uj\u00edc\u00ed moment, pokud d\u00edt\u011b vid\u00ed realisticky n\u00e1sledky alkoholu \u010di chov\u00e1n\u00ed a jedn\u00e1n\u00ed alkoholika.
\nPodle psycholog\u016f by si rodi\u010de m\u011bli v\u00edce uv\u011bdomit svoji odpov\u011bdnost i nezastupitelnou roli na chov\u00e1n\u00ed a tak\u00e9 na budouc\u00ed \u017eivot sv\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Podle expert\u016f by se skute\u010dn\u00fdm vlivem rodiny, jednotliv\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f, rodinnou atmosf\u00e9rou m\u011bli zab\u00fdvat v\u00edce i soudn\u00ed znalci, pracovn\u00edci odd\u011blen\u00ed p\u00e9\u010de o d\u011bti \u010di soudci p\u0159i rozhodov\u00e1n\u00ed o sv\u011b\u0159ov\u00e1n\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed do p\u00e9\u010de.
\nRozhoduj\u00edc\u00ed pro sv\u011b\u0159ov\u00e1n\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed by m\u011blo p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm b\u00fdt, zda rodi\u010d m\u00e1 na d\u00edt\u011b pozitivn\u00ed vliv a d\u00e1v\u00e1 mu dobr\u00fd p\u0159\u00edklad do \u017eivota.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u0158ada d\u011bt\u00ed, kter\u00e9 d\u011btstv\u00ed a ml\u00e1d\u00ed pro\u017eily v ne\u00fapln\u00fdch rodin\u00e1ch nebo dom\u00e1cnostech, kde se vyskytovaly konflikty a dom\u00e1c\u00ed n\u00e1sil\u00ed, si n\u00e1sledky pro\u017eit\u00fdch traumatizuj\u00edc\u00edch ud\u00e1lost\u00ed nese […]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":14702,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16438","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spolecnost"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16438","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=16438"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16438\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/14702"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=16438"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=16438"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=16438"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}