{"id":18650,"date":"2014-12-02T19:52:59","date_gmt":"2014-12-02T18:52:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=18650"},"modified":"2014-12-02T19:54:13","modified_gmt":"2014-12-02T18:54:13","slug":"dusevni-ci-telesna-potiz-byt-zvlastni-je-normalni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=18650","title":{"rendered":"Du\u0161evn\u00ed \u010di t\u011blesn\u00e1 pot\u00ed\u017e? B\u00fdt zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed je norm\u00e1ln\u00ed"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pat\u0159\u00edm k lidem, kte\u0159\u00ed se cel\u00fd \u017eivot museli vyrovn\u00e1vat s t\u011blesn\u00fdm hendikepem. Vrozen\u00e1 vada m\u011b \u010d\u00e1ste\u010dn\u011b omezila v pohybu a p\u0159inesla mi celo\u017eivotn\u00ed probl\u00e9m, kter\u00fd jsem musel \u0159e\u0161it od nej\u00fatlej\u0161\u00edho v\u011bku, p\u00ed\u0161e \u00favodem emeritn\u00ed u\u010ditel Old\u0159ich Suchoradsk\u00fd.<\/strong> <\/p>\n

Ve \u0161koln\u00edch letech jsem byl osvobozen od t\u011blesn\u00e9 v\u00fdchovy, pozd\u011bji jsem z\u00edskal „modrou“ vojenskou kn\u00ed\u017eku. M\u011bl jsem omezen\u00fd v\u00fdb\u011br povol\u00e1n\u00ed a n\u011bkter\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed radosti se pro mne staly nedostupn\u00fdmi. Na druh\u00e9 stran\u011b jsem pro sebe sv\u00fdm hendikepem nem\u00e1lo z\u00edskal.<\/p>\n

Nau\u010dil jsem se u\u017e v ran\u00e9m d\u011btstv\u00ed zn\u00e1t sv\u00e9 mo\u017enosti a osobn\u00ed p\u0159ednosti. Ty jsem se nau\u010dil efektivn\u011b vyu\u017e\u00edvat. Dost ne\u010dekan\u011b jsem m\u011bl v\u00fdhodu p\u0159i v\u00fdkonu u\u010ditelsk\u00e9ho povol\u00e1n\u00ed, nebo\u0165 redukce mo\u017enost\u00ed v \u017eivot\u011b mi pomohla citliv\u011bji ch\u00e1pat r\u016fzn\u00e9 vrozen\u00e9 i z\u00edskan\u00e9 obt\u00ed\u017ee u sv\u00fdch \u017e\u00e1k\u016f.<\/p>\n

Hr\u00e1t si na chud\u00e1ka b\u00fdv\u00e1 nejhor\u0161\u00ed<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u017divot posti\u017een\u00e9ho<\/span> m\u00e1 dv\u011b polohy. Jednou je pohled a jedn\u00e1n\u00ed jeho okol\u00ed k n\u011bmu sam\u00e9mu, druhou je s\u00e1m posti\u017een\u00fd<\/span>. Jak sv\u016fj hendikep vn\u00edm\u00e1 a jak se s n\u00edm dovede vyrovnat a norm\u00e1ln\u011b \u017e\u00edt.<\/p>\n

Mohu potvrdit, \u017ee hodnocen\u00ed kamar\u00e1d\u016f, spolu\u017e\u00e1k\u016f, u\u010ditel\u016f i zn\u00e1m\u00fdch v\u00fdznamn\u011b ovliv\u0148ovalo moji \u017eivotn\u00ed pozici. Chci zd\u016fraznit, \u017ee to bylo vesm\u011bs pozitivn\u00ed a vst\u0159\u00edcn\u011b ch\u00e1paj\u00edc\u00ed p\u016fsoben\u00ed. P\u0159esto chci zd\u016fraznit, \u017ee mnohem v\u00edce ne\u017e na okol\u00ed posti\u017een\u00e9ho<\/span> z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na n\u011bm sam\u00e9m. Je velmi d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, jak sv\u016fj hendikep vn\u00edm\u00e1 a jak se s\u00e1m sna\u017e\u00ed v \u017eivot\u011b za\u0159adit. On s\u00e1m v prvn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b rozhoduje o tom, jak je schopen sv\u016fj nedostatek zvl\u00e1dnout a vyrovnat se s n\u00edm.<\/p>\n

Nejhor\u0161\u00ed pozic\u00ed je d\u011blat ze sebe chud\u00e1ka, objekt hodn\u00fd l\u00edtosti a soucitu. I tuto pozici jsem v jednom sv\u00e9m \u017eivotn\u00edm \u00faseku, pom\u011brn\u011b bez velk\u00e9ho \u00fasp\u011bchu, zkou\u0161el. V\u016fbec nejhor\u0161\u00ed je ze sv\u00e9ho posti\u017een\u00ed<\/span> d\u011blat zdroj v\u00fdhod a sna\u017eit se \u017e\u00edt ze sv\u00e9ho omezen\u00ed. Do takov\u00e9 pozice jsem se na\u0161t\u011bst\u00ed nikdy nedostal.<\/p>\n

Naopak. Na to jsem si d\u00e1val velk\u00fd pozor a sna\u017eil jsem se chovat tak, jako kdybych \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 posti\u017een\u00ed<\/span> nem\u011bl. Kdy\u017e se o to sam\u00e9 sna\u017eilo m\u00e9 okol\u00ed, samoz\u0159ejm\u011b jsem to poznal a vn\u00edmal jsem to jako jeho snahu co nejm\u00e9n\u011b mi ubl\u00ed\u017eit. Ocenil jsem to, ale moc mi to nepomohlo.<\/p>\n

Pomoci jsem si musel v\u011bt\u0161inou s\u00e1m. Musel jsem poznat svoje mo\u017enosti a p\u0159izp\u016fsobit jim sv\u00e9 pl\u00e1ny a o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. Na druhou stranu jsem to, co jsem cht\u011bl dok\u00e1zat, d\u011blal s mnohem v\u011bt\u0161\u00edm nasazen\u00edm ne\u017e moji spolu\u017e\u00e1ci a pozd\u011bji spolupracovn\u00edci. P\u0159es \u00fasp\u011bch ve sv\u00e9 \u010dinnosti jsem posuzoval i m\u00edru sv\u00e9ho za\u0159azen\u00ed do spole\u010dnosti. Mo\u017en\u00e1 proto jsem v\u0161e, co jsem d\u011blal, dok\u00e1zal dot\u00e1hnout a\u017e do c\u00edle a p\u0159itom jsem um\u011bl strh\u00e1vat s sebou i ty, kte\u0159\u00ed mi v\u011b\u0159ili a pracovali spole\u010dn\u011b se mnou.<\/p>\n

Mo\u017enost konfrontace zku\u0161enost\u00ed s teori\u00ed<\/strong><\/p>\n

Abych nejen svoji pozici, ale i probl\u00e9my posti\u017een\u00fdch<\/span> poznal co nejl\u00e9pe i po odborn\u00e9 str\u00e1nce, roz\u0161\u00ed\u0159il jsem si ji\u017e v pokro\u010dil\u00e9m v\u011bku svoji odbornost o speci\u00e1ln\u00ed pedagogiku. Proto\u017ee mi v t\u00e9 dob\u011b bylo ji\u017e v\u00edc ne\u017e 50 let, byl to pro mne velk\u00fd z\u00e1\u017eitek, proto\u017ee jsem mohl konfrontovat sv\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed i pedagogick\u00e9 zku\u0161enosti se zaj\u00edmavou a velmi obsa\u017enou teori\u00ed. Opravdu jsem si takov\u00e9 studium vychutnal, pro moji dal\u0161\u00ed pedagogickou pr\u00e1ci mi hodn\u011b p\u0159ineslo.<\/p>\n

Do\u0161el jsem k z\u00e1v\u011bru, \u017ee b\u00fdt zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed je v po\u0159\u00e1dku. V\u017edy\u0165 snad neexistuje \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk, kter\u00fd by nem\u011bl n\u011bjak\u00fd sv\u016fj probl\u00e9m. A\u0165 u\u017e du\u0161evn\u00ed, nebo t\u011blesn\u00fd. Tedy je\u0161t\u011b jednou na z\u00e1v\u011br \u2013 pochopil jsem, \u017ee b\u00fdt zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed znamen\u00e1 b\u00fdt norm\u00e1ln\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Old\u0159ich Suchoradsk\u00fd<\/p>\n

emeritn\u00ed u\u010ditel Z\u0160 Kopidlno<\/p>\n

foto: ardelfin \/ MorgueFile<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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