{"id":19392,"date":"2015-01-16T11:51:18","date_gmt":"2015-01-16T10:51:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=19392"},"modified":"2015-01-16T11:51:18","modified_gmt":"2015-01-16T10:51:18","slug":"nedotknutelni-ne-lide-s-postizenim-potrebuji-k-zivotu-take-erotiku","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=19392","title":{"rendered":"Nedotknuteln\u00ed? Ne, lid\u00e9 s posti\u017een\u00edm pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed k \u017eivotu tak\u00e9 erotiku"},"content":{"rendered":"

V posluch\u00e1rn\u011b dopravn\u00ed fakulty pardubick\u00e9 univerzity z\u0159ejm\u011b nikdy nebyl pojem sex \u010di sexualita tak hojn\u011b frekventovan\u00fd. T\u00e9ma sex versus handicap bylo t\u00e9matem setk\u00e1n\u00ed student\u016f a pracovn\u00edk\u016f soci\u00e1ln\u00edch slu\u017eeb.<\/strong><\/p>\n

PARDUBICE Erotick\u00e1 mas\u00e1\u017e u\u0161n\u00edch lal\u016f\u010dk\u016f coby jedin\u00e9ho m\u00edsta na t\u011ble, kde je milion\u00e1\u0159 upoutan\u00fd na invalidn\u00ed voz\u00edk schopen c\u00edtit vzru\u0161en\u00ed. Tuto sc\u00e9nu z popul\u00e1rn\u00edho francouzsk\u00e9ho filmu Nedotknuteln\u00ed se mohla vybavit \u0159ad\u011b ze sto pades\u00e1ti \u00fa\u010dastn\u00edk\u016f v\u010derej\u0161\u00ed p\u0159edn\u00e1\u0161ky na t\u00e9ma Sexualita osob s t\u011b\u017ek\u00fdm zdravotn\u00edm posti\u017een\u00edm.<\/p>\n

V posluch\u00e1rn\u011b dopravn\u00ed fakulty pardubick\u00e9 univerzity se hledaly odpov\u011bdi na ot\u00e1zky, kter\u00e9 si kladou handicapovan\u00ed, jejich bl\u00edzc\u00ed a opatrovn\u00edci, ale i t\u0159eba legislativci. T\u0159eba jestli maj\u00ed v\u0161ichni pr\u00e1vo na sex.<\/p>\n

„Ano, v\u0161ichni maj\u00ed pr\u00e1vo na sex. I handicapovan\u00ed. I kdy\u017e ve skute\u010dn\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b to tak \u010dasto neplat\u00ed. Ale lep\u0161\u00ed se to,“ \u0159ekl p\u0159edn\u00e1\u0161ej\u00edc\u00ed Petr Eisner, lektor a konzultant pro oblast sexuality a vztah\u016f lid\u00ed s posti\u017een\u00edm. A zd\u016fraznil, \u017ee opatrovn\u00edci, \u010dasto z \u0159ad p\u0159\u00edbuzn\u00fdch, nech\u00e1pou snahu posti\u017een\u00fdch o dotyky, sna\u017e\u00ed se je od kontakt\u016f od\u0159\u00edznout, jednaj\u00ed s nimi jako s nepohlavn\u00edmi bytostmi. „T\u011blo v\u0161ak dosp\u00edv\u00e1, sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed pot\u0159eby vznikaj\u00ed a je dob\u0159e, aby na to mohl handicapovan\u00fd i jeho okol\u00ed reagovat,“ \u0159ekl Petr Eisner.<\/p>\n

Na jednu stranu je podle n\u011bj spole\u010dnost p\u0159esexualizov\u00e1na, ale pro sexualitu posti\u017een\u00fdch lid\u00ed to neplat\u00ed. Jako drobn\u00fd p\u0159\u00edklad uvedl, \u017ee kdy\u017e si ve sv\u00e9m pokoji v soci\u00e1ln\u00edm za\u0159\u00edzen\u00ed pov\u011bsil handicapovan\u00fd na ze\u010f by\u0165 vcelku je\u0161t\u011b m\u00edrn\u00fd kalend\u00e1\u0159 s erotickou tematikou, \u00fastav, kter\u00fd se o n\u011bj star\u00e1, mu to zak\u00e1zal. A podle v\u00fdzkumu jen 14 posti\u017een\u00fdch lid\u00ed ze sta uvedlo, \u017ee jsou se sv\u00fdm sexu\u00e1ln\u00edm \u017eivotem spokojeni.<\/p>\n

Jedn\u00edm z hlavn\u00edch t\u00e9mat setk\u00e1n\u00ed byla sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed asistence, kter\u00e1 by mohla posti\u017een\u00fdm zv\u00fd\u0161it kvalitu \u017eivota. Tato slu\u017eba nepat\u0159\u00ed do soci\u00e1ln\u00edch slu\u017eeb, leg\u00e1ln\u011b v \u010cesk\u00e9 republice neexistuje. Praktikuje se jen jej\u00ed pas\u00edvn\u00ed podoba a ve\u0161ker\u00e9 metody mus\u00ed b\u00fdt v organizaci schv\u00e1leny a zaprotokolov\u00e1ny.<\/p>\n

Asistentky, n\u011bkdy tak\u00e9 asistenti v \u00fastavech pro handicapovan\u00e9 vzd\u011bl\u00e1vaj\u00ed klienty t\u0159eba s pomoc\u00ed obr\u00e1zk\u016f \u010di n\u00e1zorn\u00fdch pom\u016fcek, rad\u00ed a obstar\u00e1vaj\u00ed pot\u0159ebn\u00e9 vybaven\u00ed. V \u0159ad\u011b z\u00e1padn\u00edch zem\u00ed se zab\u00fdvaj\u00ed touto \u010dinnost\u00ed, ale i v mnoha dal\u0161\u00edch praktick\u00fdch form\u00e1ch, \u017eeny ze sexbyznysu.<\/p>\n

„Kr\u00e1sn\u00e1 je p\u0159edstava existence klubu, kter\u00fd by roz\u0161\u00ed\u0159il slu\u017eby i pro handicapovan\u00e9,“ \u0159ekla \u0159editelka neziskov\u00e9 organizace Rozko\u0161 bez rizika Lucie \u0160\u00eddov\u00e1. Nap\u0159\u00edklad v N\u011bmecku takov\u00e9 kluby jsou. Podle bonmotu jednoho z klient\u016f mohou posti\u017een\u00ed dokonce ud\u011blat z jin\u00fdch lid\u00ed svat\u00e9.<\/p>\n

Pardubick\u00e9 p\u0159edn\u00e1\u0161ky pozorn\u011b sledoval tak\u00e9 voz\u00ed\u010dk\u00e1\u0159 Martin Ipser. „Ka\u017ed\u00e9ho m\u016f\u017ee uspokojit n\u011bco jin\u00e9ho. N\u011bkomu sta\u010d\u00ed c\u00edtit t\u011blesn\u00e9 teplo, hlazen\u00ed a doteky, t\u00edm je jeho pot\u0159eba napln\u011bna. Pro n\u011bkoho m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e1 mas\u00e1\u017e hlavy nebo u\u0161n\u00edch lal\u016f\u010dk\u016f. Nemus\u00ed to b\u00fdt pouze klasick\u00fd sex, jak si v\u011bt\u0161ina lid\u00ed p\u0159edstavuje,“ \u0159ekl Martin Ipser. Podle n\u011bj si m\u00e1lokdo dok\u00e1\u017ee spojit sexualitu se sv\u011btem handicapovan\u00fdch lid\u00ed, rad\u011bji se o tom nemluv\u00ed. A potvrzuje, \u017ee je t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 naj\u00edt rovnocenn\u00fd vztah s posti\u017een\u00fdm. „Tak\u017ee ne ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 to \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed, \u017ee \u017eije v partnersk\u00e9m vztahu. A pak se to mus\u00ed \u0159e\u0161it jinak. J\u00e1 jsem mezi t\u011bmi \u0161\u0165astn\u00fdmi,“ dodal Martin Ipser.<\/p>\n

I dal\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00edtomn\u00ed poslucha\u010di se shodli, \u017ee se nem\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 pau\u0161alizovat a p\u0159edpokl\u00e1dat, \u017ee v\u0161ichni maj\u00ed stejn\u00e9 pot\u0159eby.<\/p>\n

„Dlouho jsem pracovala s osobami s poran\u011bn\u00edm m\u00edchy a u t\u011bch mi zrovna p\u0159i\u0161lo, \u017ee dok\u00e1\u017eou \u017e\u00edti plnohodnotn\u00fd \u017eivot. Tak\u017ee ne ka\u017ed\u00e9mu vyhovuje, kdy\u017e se mu d\u00e1v\u00e1 najevo, \u017ee lid\u00e9 s handicapem nedok\u00e1\u017eou \u017e\u00edt samostatn\u00fd intimn\u00ed \u017eivot a \u017ee k n\u011bmu pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed pomoc. Ale u lid\u00ed s v\u011bt\u0161\u00edm ment\u00e1ln\u00edm posti\u017een\u00edm, anebo pokud jsou n\u011bjak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem zohyzd\u011bni, je nab\u00eddka sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed asistence efektivn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed,“ \u0159ekla nap\u0159\u00edklad studentka soci\u00e1ln\u00edho oboru na Karlov\u011b univerzit\u011b Petra Kabrielov\u00e1 z Prahy.<\/p>\n

Jaroslav Huben\u00fd, redaktor MF DNES<\/p>\n

Mlad\u00e1 fronta DNES<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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