{"id":22462,"date":"2015-08-23T10:46:15","date_gmt":"2015-08-23T08:46:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=22462"},"modified":"2015-08-23T10:46:28","modified_gmt":"2015-08-23T08:46:28","slug":"klasik-partnerske-terapie-plzak-bral-zivot-i-manzelstvi-s-humorem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=22462","title":{"rendered":"Klasik partnersk\u00e9 terapie Plz\u00e1k bral \u017eivot i man\u017eelstv\u00ed s humorem"},"content":{"rendered":"

S probl\u00e9my partnersk\u00e9ho sou\u017eit\u00ed radil n\u011bkolika generac\u00edm, jeho metody byly sv\u00e9r\u00e1zn\u00e9, ale \u00fa\u010dinn\u00e9, a v jeho pod\u00e1n\u00ed v\u011bt\u0161inou nepostr\u00e1daly humor. Psychiatr a publicista Miroslav Plz\u00e1k, od jeho\u017e narozen\u00ed uplyne 25. srpna devades\u00e1t let, b\u00fdv\u00e1 n\u011bkdy pova\u017eov\u00e1n p\u0159\u00edmo za zakladatele matrimoniologie (v\u011bd\u011b o man\u017eelstv\u00ed). <\/strong><\/p>\n

V roce 1964 st\u00e1l tak\u00e9 u zrodu prvn\u00ed Linky d\u016fv\u011bry v tehdej\u0161\u00edm socialistick\u00e9m v\u00fdchodn\u00edm bloku.<\/p>\n

„Smyslem man\u017eelstv\u00ed nen\u00ed, aby v n\u011bm byli partne\u0159i \u0161\u0165astn\u00ed, od toho jsou tady z\u00e1liby,“ tvrdil Plz\u00e1k, podle n\u011bho\u017e je z\u00e1kladn\u00edm kamenem partnerstv\u00ed pravidlo t\u0159\u00ed „S“ – soucit, stesk a starost (rozum\u011bno strach o partnera). Za nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed rozvrace\u010de vztah\u016f naopak pova\u017eoval v\u00fd\u010ditky, oso\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed a v\u00fdhr\u016f\u017eky. \u010casto tak\u00e9 hovo\u0159il o tom, \u017ee l\u00e1ska mileneck\u00e1 a romantick\u00e1 z\u00e1konit\u011b vyprch\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Jeho zleh\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed nev\u011br mu u konzervativc\u016f vyneslo kritiku, proslul jako autor hesla: „zatloukat, zatloukat a zatloukat“, i kdy\u017e ho pr\u00fd takto \u00fadajn\u011b nikdy ne\u0159ekl. Teorii ale na to m\u011bl: „Kdy\u017e jsem man\u017eelce nev\u011brn\u00fd, je zbyte\u010dn\u00e9 se k tomu p\u0159izn\u00e1vat, jen zn\u00e1sob\u00edm jej\u00ed utrpen\u00ed.“
\n Plz\u00e1kovy rady jak naj\u00edt spr\u00e1vn\u00e9ho partnera \u010di jak „p\u0159e\u017e\u00edt“ man\u017eelstv\u00ed jsou platn\u00e9 i po p\u016flstolet\u00ed, proto\u017ee man\u017eelsk\u00e9 probl\u00e9my jsou v z\u00e1sad\u011b st\u00e1le stejn\u00e9. A tak jsou po\u0159\u00e1d velmi popul\u00e1rn\u00ed jeho publikace, i ty z p\u0159elomu 60. a 70. let – nap\u0159\u00edklad Prvn\u00ed pomoc p\u0159i nehod\u00e1ch man\u017eelsk\u00fdch \u010di Man\u017eelsk\u00e9 judo, k nov\u011bj\u0161\u00edm z n\u011bkolika des\u00edtek jeho knih pat\u0159\u00ed Othelon, aneb, Manu\u00e1l o \u017e\u00e1rlivosti, Mu\u017ee ani kv\u011btinou…, \u010di My se m\u00e1me, my si vyhov\u00edme. Psal i televizn\u00ed inscenace a divadeln\u00ed hry, z nich\u017e nejzn\u00e1m\u011bj\u0161\u00ed Z\u00e1vi\u0161 kontra B\u0159ezinov\u00e1 se v Semaforu hr\u00e1la t\u0159i roky.<\/p>\n

Plz\u00e1k byl rod\u00e1kem z Libu\u0161\u00edna u Kladna, ale d\u011btstv\u00ed pro\u017eil v Praze. Maturoval rok p\u0159ed koncem v\u00e1lky a pot\u00e9 byl tot\u00e1ln\u011b nasazen v jedn\u00e9 libe\u0148sk\u00e9 fabrice. Po v\u00e1lce absolvoval medic\u00ednu na Karlov\u011b univerzit\u011b a u\u017e po druh\u00e9m ro\u010dn\u00edku ho p\u0159it\u00e1hla psychiatrie. Byl \u010dlenem \u010ceskoslovensk\u00e9 strany n\u00e1rodn\u011b socialistick\u00e9, proto po studi\u00edch coby politicky nespolehliv\u00fd l\u00e9\u010dil \u010dty\u0159i a p\u016fl roku p\u0159\u00edslu\u0161n\u00edky takzvan\u00fdch Pomocn\u00fdch technick\u00fdch prapor\u016f.<\/p>\n

Po praxi v l\u00e9\u010debn\u00e1ch v Praze-Bohnic\u00edch, Krom\u011b\u0159\u00ed\u017ei a Horn\u00edch Be\u0159kovic\u00edch nastoupil v roce 1959 na pra\u017eskou psychiatrickou kliniku v\u011bhlasn\u00e9ho profesora Vondr\u00e1\u010dka. Po \u010dty\u0159ech letech se stal prim\u00e1\u0159em a na klinice pak p\u016fsobil do roku 1989, kdy ode\u0161el do d\u016fchodu.<\/p>\n

Klinicky se Plz\u00e1k mimo jin\u00e9 zab\u00fdval depresemi. Mezi jeho pacienty bylo mnoho zn\u00e1m\u00fdch osobnost\u00ed, tak\u00e9 herc\u016f. Od 60. let byl toti\u017e „jako doma“ mezi boh\u00e9mskou spole\u010dnost\u00ed spojenou zejm\u00e9na s divadly Rokoko, Semafor \u010di Reduta. V t\u00e9to dob\u011b mu do \u017eivota nakr\u00e1tko vstoupily i dv\u011b kr\u00e1sn\u00e9 here\u010dky, Olga Schoberov\u00e1 a Marie Drahokoupilov\u00e1. Kv\u016fli styk\u016fm s um\u011bleck\u00fdm sv\u011btem a tak\u00e9 proto, \u017ee na klinice pomohl mnoha lidem, kte\u0159\u00ed m\u011bli politick\u00e9 probl\u00e9my, byl zaj\u00edmav\u00fdm objektem pro St\u00e1tn\u00ed bezpe\u010dnost. Razantn\u011b v\u0161ak pop\u0159el, \u017ee by jakkoli s StB spolupracoval.<\/p>\n

Odborn\u00edka na man\u017eelsk\u00e9 sou\u017eit\u00ed ud\u011blal z Plz\u00e1ka rostouc\u00ed po\u010det sebevra\u017ed za\u010d\u00e1tkem 60. let a p\u0159\u00edkaz n\u011bco s t\u00edm ud\u011blat. T\u00edm n\u011b\u010d\u00edm se stala prvn\u00ed Linka d\u016fv\u011bry, k n\u00ed\u017e se inspiroval u britsk\u00fdch samarit\u00e1n\u016f a kter\u00e1 slou\u017e\u00ed dodnes. A proto\u017ee v\u011bt\u0161ina klient\u016f p\u0159ich\u00e1zela s man\u017eelsk\u00fdmi konflikty, vytvo\u0159il samostatn\u00fd v\u011bdn\u00ed obor zab\u00fdvaj\u00edc\u00ed se man\u017eelstv\u00edm – matrimoniologii a jako \u00fadajn\u011b prvn\u00ed na sv\u011bt\u011b k n\u011bmu napsal vysoko\u0161kolskou u\u010debnici.<\/p>\n

O klasikovi man\u017eelsk\u00e9 terapie se tradovalo, \u017ee m\u011bl p\u011bt man\u017eelek. To ale nebyla pravda. Rozvedl se jen jednou a s druhou, o 24 let mlad\u0161\u00ed man\u017eelkou Emou \u017eil skoro 40 let. A\u010d psychiatr, ani on nedok\u00e1zal zabr\u00e1nit trag\u00e9dii ve vlastn\u00ed rodin\u011b – jeho syn si vzal \u017eivot t\u011bsn\u011b p\u0159ed maturitou. Z prvn\u00edho man\u017eelstv\u00ed m\u00e1 dceru Renatu, kter\u00e1 je rovn\u011b\u017e l\u00e9ka\u0159kou.
\n Plz\u00e1k zem\u0159el 13. listopadu 2010 ve v\u011bku 85 let. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

S probl\u00e9my partnersk\u00e9ho sou\u017eit\u00ed radil n\u011bkolika generac\u00edm, jeho metody byly sv\u00e9r\u00e1zn\u00e9, ale \u00fa\u010dinn\u00e9, a v jeho pod\u00e1n\u00ed v\u011bt\u0161inou nepostr\u00e1daly humor. Psychiatr a publicista Miroslav Plz\u00e1k, […]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":21706,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22462","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-zdravi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22462","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=22462"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22462\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/21706"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=22462"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=22462"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=22462"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}