{"id":23705,"date":"2015-12-02T07:30:07","date_gmt":"2015-12-02T06:30:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=23705"},"modified":"2015-12-02T07:30:07","modified_gmt":"2015-12-02T06:30:07","slug":"lexpress-co-delat-aby-se-deti-nebaly-terorismu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=23705","title":{"rendered":"L’Express: Co d\u011blat, aby se d\u011bti neb\u00e1ly terorismu"},"content":{"rendered":"

Jak o hrozb\u011b teroristick\u00fdch \u00fatok\u016f mluvit v rodin\u011b a s d\u011btmi v dob\u011b, kdy byl vyhl\u00e1\u0161en v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00fd stav? P\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm odpov\u00eddat na v\u0161echny ot\u00e1zky, p\u00ed\u0161e francouzsk\u00fd t\u00fdden\u00edk L’Express.<\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 rok po teroristick\u00e9m \u00fatoku na redakci \u010dasopisu Charlie Hebdo se Francie stala znovu ter\u010dem terorist\u016f. O citliv\u00e9m t\u00e9matu terorismu, o n\u011bm\u017e denn\u011b p\u00ed\u0161\u00ed m\u00e9dia, je t\u0159eba st\u00e1le znovu hovo\u0159it, sna\u017eit se potla\u010dit obavy lid\u00ed a omezit jeho dopad na francouzsk\u00e9 dom\u00e1cnosti.<\/p>\n

„Kl\u00ed\u010dov\u00fd je dialog,“ prohla\u0161uje klinick\u00e1 psycholo\u017eka Anne Bacusov\u00e1. „Zeptejte se va\u0161eho d\u00edt\u011bte, jak\u00e9 m\u00e1 pocity. Vyzv\u011bte je, aby s v\u00e1mi sd\u00edlelo sv\u00e9 emoce. Z terorismu p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm ned\u011blejte tabu,“ dod\u00e1v\u00e1.<\/p>\n

„D\u00edt\u011b je vybaveno schopnost\u00ed p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161let. Je to osobnost s vlastn\u00ed \u00farovn\u00ed zralosti, v z\u00e1vislosti na v\u011bku a na tom, co pro\u017eilo,“ p\u0159ipom\u00edn\u00e1 psycholo\u017eka Alix Foulardov\u00e1. „Mus\u00edte m\u00edt trp\u011blivost, za\u010d\u00ednat s diskus\u00ed opatrn\u011b, nezat\u011b\u017eovat ji probl\u00e9my dosp\u011bl\u00fdch a nezab\u0159ed\u00e1vat do slo\u017eit\u00fdch podrobnost\u00ed. Nesna\u017ete se v\u0161echno vysv\u011btlovat. Je zbyte\u010dn\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011bti nap\u0159\u00edklad vykl\u00e1dat rozd\u00edl mezi muslimem a islamismem. Hovo\u0159te jasn\u011b,“ dod\u00e1v\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Vyhn\u011bte se obarvov\u00e1n\u00ed skute\u010dnosti na r\u016f\u017eovo. „D\u00edt\u011b nesm\u00ed \u017e\u00edt ve sv\u011bt\u011b l\u017e\u00ed. Jestli\u017ee budete d\u011btem vykl\u00e1dat nepravdy, nebude v\u00e1m u\u017e v\u011b\u0159it a bude vyhled\u00e1vat informace u zdroj\u016f, kter\u00e9 nemusej\u00ed b\u00fdt v\u011brohodn\u00e9. Nevyh\u00fdbejte se \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 ot\u00e1zce,“ \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 psycholog Pierre Mannoni.<\/p>\n

T\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 je zamezit \u0161okov\u00e1n\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte obrazy \u010di televizn\u00edmi z\u00e1b\u011bry. Ty se mohou vtisknout do jeho du\u0161e. „Sna\u017ete se d\u011btem mlad\u0161\u00edm sedmi nebo deseti let zabr\u00e1nit ve sledov\u00e1n\u00ed televize. Obrazy maj\u00ed siln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed dopad na psychiku ne\u017e slova. Rodi\u010de musej\u00ed sv\u00e9 d\u011bti chr\u00e1nit p\u0159ed krvav\u00fdmi obrazy. T\u00edm zabr\u00e1n\u00ed tomu, aby trp\u011bly no\u010dn\u00edmi m\u016frami,“ prohla\u0161uje Bacusov\u00e1.<\/p>\n

„Dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed ml\u00e1de\u017e si je hloub\u011bji v\u011bdoma dobra a zla, \u017eivota a smrti. Nem\u016f\u017eete tedy d\u011blat, jako by se nic nestalo. Ml\u00e1de\u017e se s takov\u00fdmi obrazy rozhodn\u011b setk\u00e1. V takov\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b o tom mus\u00edte hovo\u0159it. Je t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 nemo\u017en\u00e9 zabr\u00e1nit tomu, aby mlad\u00ed lid\u00e9 ve v\u011bku od dvan\u00e1cti do osmn\u00e1cti let nevid\u011bli videa \u010di fotografie na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch,“ uv\u00e1d\u00ed Foulardov\u00e1. „Nejde v\u0161ak o nic virtu\u00e1ln\u00edho, ale zcela re\u00e1ln\u00e9ho. Znovu je t\u0159eba o tom s nimi diskutovat. Dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed maj\u00ed stejn\u011b jako dosp\u011bl\u00ed schopnost sn\u00e9st ur\u010ditou d\u00e1vku \u0161okuj\u00edc\u00edch obraz\u016f,“ prohla\u0161uje Mannoni.<\/p>\n

„Strach z terorismu \u017eije v ka\u017ed\u00e9m z n\u00e1s. Rodi\u010de se musej\u00ed velmi sna\u017eit, aby na jejich d\u011bti tento strach nep\u0159ech\u00e1zel. Na druhou stranu d\u011btem ne\u0159\u00edkejte, \u017ee se ni\u010deho neboj\u00edte. Nikdo nev\u00ed, co se m\u016f\u017ee st\u00e1t, ale je t\u0159eba pokra\u010dovat v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b. P\u0159ipome\u0148me, \u017ee s mnohem v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed pravd\u011bpodobnost\u00ed hroz\u00ed, \u017ee je sraz\u00ed p\u0159i cest\u011b do \u0161koly auto, ne\u017e \u017ee se ocitnou na m\u00edst\u011b teroristick\u00e9ho \u00fatoku! Brzd\u011bte vlastn\u00ed emoce, strach, hn\u011bv \u010di smutek, abyste je ne\u0161\u00ed\u0159ili v rodin\u011b,“ \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Bacusov\u00e1.<\/p>\n

„Vysv\u011btlete potomkovi, \u017ee na\u0161e s\u00edla spo\u010d\u00edv\u00e1 v tom, \u017ee nepodl\u00e9h\u00e1me strachu. Odvaha nen\u00ed na stran\u011b kala\u0161nikov\u016f, ale t\u011bch, kdo odm\u00edtaj\u00ed n\u00e1sil\u00ed. Diskutujte o solidarit\u011b, kter\u00e1 p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed z cel\u00e9ho sv\u011bta, a t\u011bm v\u011bt\u0161\u00edm nab\u00eddn\u011bte, aby se z\u00fa\u010dastnili manifestac\u00ed proti n\u00e1sil\u00ed,“ doporu\u010duje Bacusov\u00e1.<\/p>\n

„Sledujte, jak bude d\u00edt\u011b po diskusi s v\u00e1mi reagovat. O terorismu se nutn\u011b mluv\u00ed ve \u0161kole, a\u0165 u\u017e ve t\u0159\u00edd\u011b s u\u010diteli nebo po \u0161kole s kamar\u00e1dy. Poslechn\u011bte si, co d\u00edt\u011b po p\u0159\u00edchodu ze \u0161koly \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, a v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b pot\u0159eby to uve\u010fte na pravou m\u00edru. V\u0161\u00edmejte si, zda nedoch\u00e1z\u00ed ke zm\u011bn\u00e1m chov\u00e1n\u00ed, poruch\u00e1m sp\u00e1nku, ztr\u00e1t\u011b chuti k j\u00eddlu nebo strachu z\u016fst\u00e1vat o samot\u011b. To by mohlo nazna\u010dovat stav \u00fazkosti,“ \u0159\u00edk\u00e1.<\/p>\n

„Vysv\u011btlujte d\u011btem, \u017ee jeho kamar\u00e1di arabsk\u00e9ho p\u016fvodu nejsou potenci\u00e1ln\u00ed nep\u0159\u00e1tel\u00e9, \u017ee nep\u0159edstavuj\u00ed hrozbu. K rasistick\u00fdm postoj\u016fm lze p\u0159ej\u00edt rychle,“ varuje Mannoni.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Jak o hrozb\u011b teroristick\u00fdch \u00fatok\u016f mluvit v rodin\u011b a s d\u011btmi v dob\u011b, kdy byl vyhl\u00e1\u0161en v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00fd stav? P\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm odpov\u00eddat na v\u0161echny ot\u00e1zky, p\u00ed\u0161e francouzsk\u00fd […]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":13918,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23705","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spolecnost"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23705","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=23705"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23705\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/13918"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=23705"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=23705"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=23705"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}