{"id":23886,"date":"2015-12-17T08:20:51","date_gmt":"2015-12-17T07:20:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=23886"},"modified":"2015-12-17T08:20:51","modified_gmt":"2015-12-17T07:20:51","slug":"lexpress-nutkave-nakupovani-casto-prameni-z-male-sebeucty","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=23886","title":{"rendered":"L\u00b4Express: Nutkav\u00e9 nakupov\u00e1n\u00ed \u010dasto pramen\u00ed z mal\u00e9 sebe\u00facty"},"content":{"rendered":"

Jestli\u017ee vytahujete svou platebn\u00ed kartu pon\u011bkud p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 \u010dasto, nemus\u00ed to b\u00fdt je\u0161t\u011b zn\u00e1mka poruchy chov\u00e1n\u00ed. Av\u0161ak nakupov\u00e1n\u00ed, stane-li se nutkavou pot\u0159ebou, ohro\u017euje ty, kdo j\u00ed trp\u00ed, p\u00ed\u0161e francouzsk\u00fd t\u00fdden\u00edk L\u00b4Express.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Claire nakupuje, kdy\u017e m\u00e1 chmury na du\u0161i nebo se nec\u00edt\u00ed dob\u0159e. Nakupuje tak\u00e9, kdy\u017e ji na\u0161tve man\u017eel, nebo kdy\u017e se j\u00ed \u017eivot zd\u00e1 b\u00fdt p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 t\u011b\u017ek\u00fd. Nakupuje, nakupuje, a pak…“Pak se c\u00edt\u00edm velmi \u0161patn\u011b, proto\u017ee u\u017e nem\u00e1m \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 pen\u00edze. Pak se krot\u00edm, dokud se mi m\u016fj \u00fa\u010det v bance nevyrovn\u00e1. A pak to za\u010dne znovu,“ sv\u011b\u0159uje se. P\u0159izn\u00e1v\u00e1, \u017ee jej\u00ed nutkav\u00e1 pot\u0159eba nakupovat m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt zn\u00e1mkou choroby.<\/p>\n

Nutkav\u00e9 nakupov\u00e1n\u00ed je sice na prvn\u00ed pohled m\u00e9n\u011b \u0161kodliv\u00e9 ne\u017e u\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed drog, ale m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt dramatick\u00e9 n\u00e1sledky pro ty, kdo j\u00edm trp\u00ed. Dokonce m\u016f\u017ee v\u00e9st a\u017e k tomu, \u017ee je doty\u010dn\u00e1 osoba d\u00e1na pod kuratelu.<\/p>\n

„Kompulzivn\u00ed nakupov\u00e1n\u00ed definujeme jako opakov\u00e1n\u00ed ne\u00fam\u011brn\u00fdch n\u00e1kup\u016f vedouc\u00ed k naru\u0161en\u00ed fungov\u00e1n\u00ed jedince z psychick\u00e9ho, soci\u00e1ln\u00edho i zdravotn\u00edho hlediska,“ vysv\u011btluje psychiatr Alain Dervaux. „To, co tvo\u0159\u00ed hranici mezi norm\u00e1ln\u00edm a patologick\u00fdm chov\u00e1n\u00edm v tomto sm\u011bru, jsou d\u016fsledky, kter\u00e9 m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt nakupov\u00e1n\u00ed: finan\u010dn\u00ed probl\u00e9my, kter\u00e9 mohou v\u00e9st a\u017e ke kuratele, utrpen\u00ed okol\u00ed takov\u00e9ho jedince, soudn\u00ed st\u00edh\u00e1n\u00ed, deprese. V\u011bt\u0161inou t\u00edm trp\u00ed \u017eeny a porucha se \u010dasto projevuje v dob\u011b dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed nebo na po\u010d\u00e1tku dosp\u011blosti,“ dod\u00e1v\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Nejprve je t\u0159eba prov\u011b\u0159it, zda nutkav\u00e9 nakupov\u00e1n\u00ed nen\u00ed projevem jin\u00e9 psychick\u00e9 poruchy. Pak je takov\u00e9 nakupov\u00e1n\u00ed jedn\u00edm z projev\u016f jejich choroby. N\u011bkter\u00e9 deprese se nap\u0159\u00edklad mohou projevovat t\u00edm, \u017ee pacient m\u00e1 obdob\u00ed, kdy nakupuje, ani\u017e by po\u010d\u00edtal pen\u00edze.<\/p>\n

Jestli\u017ee nen\u00ed nutkav\u00e9 nakupov\u00e1n\u00ed spojeno s jin\u00fdmi poruchami, m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt pova\u017eov\u00e1no za z\u00e1vislost a tak tak\u00e9 l\u00e9\u010deno, \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Alain Dervaux. „M\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt t\u0159eba spole\u010dn\u00e9 body s bulimi\u00ed. P\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed stejn\u00e9 nap\u011bt\u00ed v okam\u017eiku, kdy se pacient chyst\u00e1 nakoupit, pak moment euforie a kone\u010dn\u011b siln\u00fd pocit viny,“ uv\u00e1d\u00ed. Konstatuje, \u017ee mnoho pacient\u016f, kter\u00e9 kv\u016fli nutkav\u00e9mu nakupov\u00e1n\u00ed l\u00e9\u010d\u00ed, trp\u00ed nedostatkem sebe\u00facty.<\/p>\n

„V\u017edycky jsem m\u011bla m\u00e1lo sebed\u016fv\u011bry,“ dosv\u011bd\u010duje S\u00e9verine, kter\u00e1 podle vlastn\u00edch slov trp\u00ed „n\u00e1kupn\u00ed hore\u010dkou“. „Nakupov\u00e1n\u00ed mi umo\u017e\u0148uje v obdob\u00ed pochybnost\u00ed ud\u011blat radost d\u011btem \u010di man\u017eelovi. D\u00e1 se \u0159\u00edci, \u017ee mi to dod\u00e1v\u00e1 v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed hodnoty,“ \u0159\u00edk\u00e1. „Osoby trp\u00edc\u00ed nutkav\u00fdm nakupov\u00e1n\u00edm toti\u017e v\u011bt\u0161inou nakupuj\u00ed pro sv\u00e9 okol\u00ed v\u00edce ne\u017e pro sebe. Vych\u00e1z\u00ed to z obt\u00ed\u017enosti vyj\u00e1d\u0159it city slovy. Pacienti se nap\u0159\u00edklad sv\u011b\u0159uj\u00ed, \u017ee jim rodi\u010de ne\u0159\u00edkali, \u017ee je maj\u00ed r\u00e1di, a m\u00edsto toho jim d\u00e1vali d\u00e1rky. V dosp\u011blosti takov\u00e9 sch\u00e9ma reprodukuj\u00ed, n\u011bkdy s p\u0159em\u00edrou. Abychom jim pomohli, je t\u0159eba s nimi o tom hovo\u0159it a podporovat je p\u0159i budov\u00e1n\u00ed autenti\u010dt\u011bj\u0161\u00edch vztah\u016f s ostatn\u00edmi, kter\u00e9 nebudou zalo\u017eeny na materi\u00e1ln\u00edch darech,“ vysv\u011btluje Alain Dervaux.<\/p>\n

„\u010casto je t\u0159eba n\u011bkolika n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bv u psychiatra, aby se zjistily faktory vedouc\u00ed k kompulzivn\u00edmu nakupov\u00e1n\u00ed. L\u00e9ky na to nem\u00e1me. V p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b chyb\u011bj\u00edc\u00ed sebe\u00facty nab\u00edz\u00edme cvi\u010den\u00ed k jej\u00edmu pos\u00edlen\u00ed, \u010di ke zlep\u0161en\u00ed vztah\u016f k druh\u00fdm,“ uv\u00e1d\u00ed Alain Dervaux.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9verine se l\u00e9\u010d\u00ed u\u017e n\u011bjak\u00fd \u010das a c\u00edt\u00ed, \u017ee nutkavou pot\u0159ebu nakupovat u\u017e dok\u00e1\u017ee l\u00e9pe ovl\u00e1dat. „Kdy\u017e to u\u017e nem\u016f\u017eu vydr\u017eet, sna\u017e\u00edm se meditovat nebo jdu b\u011bhat do lesa. Je v\u0161ak velmi t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 odolat,“ p\u0159izn\u00e1v\u00e1. „V takov\u00e9 chv\u00edli si pacienti mysl\u00ed, \u017ee nakupov\u00e1n\u00ed je jedin\u00fdm prost\u0159edkem k tomu, aby se c\u00edtili l\u00e9pe,“ \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Alain Dervaux.<\/p>\n

Takov\u00e9 pocity zn\u00e1 velmi dob\u0159e Martine, kter\u00e1 se ocitla u psychologa, kdy\u017e j\u00ed banka zablokovala \u00fa\u010det. „Utr\u00e1cela jsem v\u00edce, ne\u017e jsem vyd\u011bl\u00e1vala. Zakoupen\u00e9 v\u011bci jsem schov\u00e1vala do sklepa. Pak mi banka zablokovala \u00fa\u010det. Bylo jasn\u00e9, \u017ee jsem nad sebou ztratila kontrolu. Nejt\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed je to ale dnes, kdy\u017e jsem se z\u00e1vislosti zbavila. Smutn\u011b vzpom\u00edn\u00e1m na tu euforii z nakupov\u00e1n\u00ed. Dnes se mus\u00edm u\u010dit znovu \u017e\u00edt a naj\u00edt si jin\u00e9 zdroje radosti,“ \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Martine.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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