{"id":24519,"date":"2016-02-12T14:33:50","date_gmt":"2016-02-12T13:33:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=24519"},"modified":"2016-02-12T14:33:50","modified_gmt":"2016-02-12T13:33:50","slug":"spolecnymi-silami-se-pece-o-nemocne-zvladne-snaz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=24519","title":{"rendered":"Spole\u010dn\u00fdmi silami se p\u00e9\u010de o nemocn\u00e9 zvl\u00e1dne sn\u00e1z"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Spousta z n\u00e1s m\u00e1 kolem sebe lidi, kte\u0159\u00ed se o n\u011bkoho staraj\u00ed. N\u011bkdo jezd\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00fd den za sv\u00fdmi rodi\u010di. Voz\u00ed jim n\u00e1kup, pom\u00e1h\u00e1 uklidit, a kdy\u017e je pot\u0159eba, vyzvedne l\u00e9ky. Bratr se svoj\u00ed \u017eenou se staraj\u00ed o posti\u017een\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b. Nebo vid\u00edte souseda, jak \u010dasto voz\u00ed svoji man\u017eelku k doktorovi, a dozv\u00edte se, \u017ee prod\u011blala v\u00e1\u017enou nemoc.<\/strong> <!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Nov\u00e1 Paka \u2013 V\u011bt\u0161ina z n\u00e1s poci\u0165uje nad takovou situac\u00ed l\u00edtost a m\u00e1me tendenci projevit z\u00e1jem o to, co se stalo. Ale nemus\u00ed z\u016fstat pouze u projeven\u00ed spolu\u00fa\u010dasti, pe\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed osoby m\u016f\u017eeme podpo\u0159it mnoha zp\u016fsoby.<\/p>\n<p>Pokud jste sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed pe\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed rodiny, pat\u0159\u00edte do okruhu jej\u00edch p\u0159\u00e1tel anebo \u017eijete v sousedstv\u00ed a r\u00e1di byste vypomohli, p\u0159ihlaste se o sv\u016fj d\u00edl odpov\u011bdnosti. Nejlep\u0161\u00ed je v takov\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b svolat jakousi rodinnou poradu a otev\u0159en\u011b se pobavit o nastal\u00e9 situaci. \u010casto b\u00fdv\u00e1 takov\u00e9 setk\u00e1n\u00ed pln\u00e9 emoc\u00ed, proto\u017ee je to pro mnoh\u00e9 prvn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost projevit strach, obavy, l\u00edtost \u010di smutek. K \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed situace se v r\u00e1mci tohoto setk\u00e1n\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee vyj\u00e1d\u0159it ka\u017ed\u00fd, i ten, kter\u00fd se doposud na p\u00e9\u010di nepod\u00edlel. Ur\u010dit\u011b by zde nem\u011blo zazn\u00edt: &#8222;Ty se nestar\u00e1\u0161, tak nera\u010f&#8220;, proto\u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt dobr\u00fd n\u00e1pad, jak p\u00e9\u010di zajistit, uleh\u010dit \u010di zorganizovat. Nem\u011blo by v\u0161ak z\u016fstat pouze u slov.<\/p>\n<p>Ka\u017ed\u00fd by m\u011bl konkr\u00e9tn\u011b \u0159\u00edci, s \u010d\u00edm m\u016f\u017ee pomoci. Takto by si v\u0161ichni m\u011bli postupn\u011b &#8222;rozebrat&#8220; aktivity a \u00fakoly, kter\u00e9 souvis\u00ed nejenom s p\u00e9\u010d\u00ed o nemocn\u00e9ho \u010dlena rodiny, ale tak\u00e9 s podporou t\u011bch, na kter\u00fdch le\u017e\u00ed jej\u00ed nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed \u010d\u00e1st. M\u016f\u017eete pomoci s p\u00e9\u010d\u00ed o dom\u00e1cnost, m\u016f\u017eete tr\u00e1vit \u010das s nemocn\u00fdm \u010dlov\u011bkem, \u010di pomoci se zaji\u0161t\u011bn\u00edm z\u00e1kladn\u00ed ka\u017edodenn\u00ed p\u00e9\u010de. M\u016f\u017eete nab\u00eddnout odvoz a doprovod nemocn\u00e9ho k l\u00e9ka\u0159i, \u010di b\u00fdt k dispozici, abyste vyst\u0159\u00eddal hlavn\u00ed pe\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed osobu v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b pot\u0159eby. I pomoc se sh\u00e1n\u011bn\u00edm u\u017eite\u010dn\u00fdch rad a informac\u00ed, zaji\u0161t\u011bn\u00edm pom\u016fcek, zdravotnick\u00e9ho materi\u00e1lu a l\u00e9k\u016f je cenn\u00e1. Pomoct lze tak\u00e9 finan\u010dn\u011b \u010di materi\u00e1ln\u011b, proto\u017ee p\u00e9\u010de n\u011bco stoj\u00ed. U n\u011bkter\u00fdch \u010dinnost\u00ed vyjde najevo, \u017ee bude pro v\u0161echny, i pro nemocn\u00e9ho, lep\u0161\u00ed, kdy\u017e je rodina zajist\u00ed s vyu\u017eit\u00edm profesion\u00e1ln\u00edch slu\u017eeb. Nakonec setk\u00e1n\u00ed si \u0159ekn\u011bte, jak si d\u00e1te v\u011bd\u011bt, kdy\u017e se n\u011bco zm\u011bn\u00ed, \u010di bude pot\u0159eba n\u011bco rychle za\u0159\u00eddit, a tak\u00e9, kdy se op\u011bt v\u0161ichni sejdete.<\/p>\n<p>A na z\u00e1v\u011br p\u00e1r rad, jak spolu vz\u00e1jemn\u011b komunikovat: Dejte najevo, \u017ee si cen\u00edte va\u0161ich bl\u00edzk\u00fdch, na kter\u00fdch le\u017e\u00ed hlavn\u00ed d\u00edl p\u00e9\u010de. \u010casto se pova\u017euje za samoz\u0159ejm\u00e9, \u017ee se nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00edbuzn\u00fd postar\u00e1, ale v\u011b\u0159te, \u017ee v mnoha rodin\u00e1ch tomu tak nen\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Nikdy nezleh\u010dujte obavy, kter\u00e9 n\u011bkdo jin\u00fd vyj\u00e1d\u0159\u00ed. Nemoc bl\u00edzk\u00e9ho a odpov\u011bdnost za p\u00e9\u010di m\u016f\u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd n\u00e9st jinak. U n\u011bkoho m\u016f\u017ee vzbuzovat \u00fazkost, n\u011bkdo je zvykl\u00fd br\u00e1t i obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e9 situace s klidem. Zaj\u00edmejte se o to, co pro\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed ostatn\u00ed, jejich pocity jim nevymlouvejte, dejte jim prostor je vyj\u00e1d\u0159it. Nepou\u010dujte, nerozd\u00e1vejte \u00fakoly, ale citliv\u011b ra\u010fte a navrhujte \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed. A hlavn\u011b, bu\u010fte p\u0159ipraveni sami pomoci. Pokud se v rodin\u011b nem\u016f\u017eete dohodnout, jak p\u00e9\u010di zorganizovat, po\u017e\u00e1dejte o pomoc n\u011bkoho zven\u010d\u00ed. Pora\u010fte se u organizac\u00ed poskytuj\u00edc\u00edch soci\u00e1ln\u00ed slu\u017eby, \u010di na soci\u00e1ln\u00edm odboru obecn\u00edho \u00fa\u0159adu, kdo by v\u00e1m s narovn\u00e1n\u00edm vztah\u016f a se vz\u00e1jemnou komunikac\u00ed mohl pomoci. Nen\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 ostuda, po\u017e\u00e1dat v tomto p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b o pomoc profesion\u00e1la. Nezapom\u00ednejte, \u017ee v\u0161em jde o spole\u010dn\u00fd c\u00edl a t\u00edm je zaji\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed co nejlep\u0161\u00ed p\u00e9\u010de o va\u0161eho bl\u00edzk\u00e9ho a vz\u00e1jemn\u00e1 podpora.<\/p>\n<p>Ji\u010d\u00ednsk\u00fd den\u00edk<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/jicinsky.denik.cz\/\">http:\/\/jicinsky.denik.cz\/<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>Spousta z n\u00e1s m\u00e1 kolem sebe lidi, kte\u0159\u00ed se o n\u011bkoho staraj\u00ed. N\u011bkdo jezd\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00fd den za sv\u00fdmi rodi\u010di. 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