{"id":24554,"date":"2017-02-19T11:22:39","date_gmt":"2017-02-19T10:22:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=24554"},"modified":"2017-02-19T11:22:39","modified_gmt":"2017-02-19T10:22:39","slug":"jak-poznat-ze-dite-trapi-deprese","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=24554","title":{"rendered":"Jak poznat, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b tr\u00e1p\u00ed deprese"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>S na\u0161imi v\u011bt\u0161\u00edmi d\u011btmi jsem nikdy nem\u011bla \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 velk\u00e9 probl\u00e9my. U\u010dily se dob\u0159e a zlobily \u00fapln\u011b norm\u00e1ln\u011b. Zato nejmlad\u0161\u00ed n\u00e1m v\u0161echno vynahrazuje. Jsou s n\u00edm jen starosti.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Odmala byl takov\u00fd neklidn\u00fd a ru\u0161iv\u00fd element. Je hyperaktivn\u00ed a nezvladateln\u00fd. Kdy\u017e nastoupil do \u0161koly, zjistili psychologov\u00e9, \u017ee je nav\u00edc dyslektik a dysgrafik. Se v\u0161\u00edm m\u011bl probl\u00e9my a nic mu ne\u0161lo. Neprosperoval ani ve vyrovn\u00e1vac\u00ed t\u0159\u00edd\u011b. I odsud nosil \u0161patn\u00e9 zn\u00e1mky. Bylo mi ho l\u00edto. Vid\u011bla jsem, \u017ee ho to mrz\u00ed. Vlastn\u011b za to ani nemohl.<br \/>\nMan\u017eel se s jeho diagn\u00f3zami necht\u011bl sm\u00ed\u0159it. Za\u010dal se s n\u00edm doma u\u010dit.<br \/>\nNem\u011bl s n\u00edm ale dost trp\u011blivosti.<br \/>\nKdy\u017e mu n\u011bco po\u0159\u00e1d ne\u0161lo, nad\u00e1val mu, \u017ee je nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed hlup\u00e1k rodiny. Kluk plakal a hledal \u00fato\u010di\u0161t\u011b u m\u011b. Nedok\u00e1zal se na nic soust\u0159edit. I kdy\u017e ho t\u00e1ta bil. Ten nemohl pochopit, \u017ee to syn ned\u011bl\u00e1 schv\u00e1ln\u011b. V posledn\u00ed dob\u011b se trochu zlep\u0161il, podobn\u011b jako jeho zn\u00e1mky.<br \/>\nP\u0159esto jsem ve \u0161kole pomalu v\u00edc ne\u017e doma. St\u00e1le \u0159e\u0161\u00edme jeho zloben\u00ed a k\u00e1ze\u0148sk\u00e9 proh\u0159e\u0161ky. N\u011bkdy jde o hlouposti, jindy si u\u010ditel\u00e9 st\u011b\u017euj\u00ed na to, \u017ee je agresivn\u00ed. Pr\u00fd vyvol\u00e1v\u00e1 h\u00e1dky, rva\u010dky a vyru\u0161uje p\u0159i vyu\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed. Jindy je zase apatick\u00fd a duchem nep\u0159\u00edtomn\u00fd. Kdy\u017e se ho na n\u011bco zeptaj\u00ed, tak nereaguje a dokonce p\u0159i vyu\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed us\u00edn\u00e1.<br \/>\nV\u011bt\u0161inu t\u011bch st\u00ed\u017enost\u00ed p\u0159ed mu\u017eem taj\u00edm, proto\u017ee jinak kluka okam\u017eit\u011b potrest\u00e1. Domlouv\u00e1m synovi, on sl\u00edb\u00ed, \u017ee se polep\u0161\u00ed, ale nepolep\u0161\u00ed, v\u0161echno je marn\u00e9. Znepokojuje m\u011b, \u017ee se zm\u011bnilo jeho chov\u00e1n\u00ed doma. P\u0159estaly ho bavit v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 m\u011bl d\u0159\u00edv r\u00e1d. Nechce hr\u00e1t s kluky fotbal, kytaru nevyt\u00e1hl skoro p\u016fl roku, a kdybych nenakrmila jeho milovan\u00e9 rybi\u010dky, u\u017e by mu d\u00e1vno chc\u00edply.<br \/>\nTohle d\u0159\u00edv nikdy ned\u011blal. Kdy\u017e mohl hodit za hlavu \u0161koln\u00ed probl\u00e9my, byl to mil\u00fd a vesel\u00fd chlapec. D\u0159\u00edve m\u011bl po\u0159\u00e1d hlad, jako v\u0161ichni dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed kluci. Nyn\u00ed nechce j\u00edst a hubne. <\/p>\n<p>Pozoruji, \u017ee se v noci \u010dasto bud\u00ed a chod\u00ed po dom\u011b. Tak\u00e9 si st\u011b\u017euje na bolesti hlavy a b\u0159icha. Byla jsem s n\u00edm u l\u00e9ka\u0159e, ale \u017e\u00e1dnou chorobu u n\u011bj nena\u0161el. Jsem bezradn\u00e1 a nev\u00edm, jestli je mo\u017en\u00e9, aby to v\u0161echno zp\u016fsobovala jenom ta jeho puberta. Nebo by to mohlo b\u00fdt n\u011bco v\u00e1\u017en\u011bj\u0161\u00edho? Boj\u00edm se, abych n\u011bco nezanedbala.<\/p>\n<p><strong>RADA<\/strong>:<br \/>\nProbl\u00e9my va\u0161eho syna nezp\u016fsobilo jen jeho dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed. Hormon\u00e1ln\u00ed zm\u011bny v jeho organismu, kter\u00e9 jsou charakteristick\u00e9 pro tento v\u011bk, u n\u011bj podle v\u0161eho spustily depresi. Um\u00edm si p\u0159edstavit, \u017ee tomu nebudete cht\u00edt v\u011b\u0159it: &#8222;N\u00e1\u0161 kluk a deprese? Nesmysl!&#8220;<br \/>\nJen\u017ee nen\u00ed. Tato choroba je druh\u00fdm nej\u010dast\u011bj\u0161\u00edm onemocn\u011bn\u00edm po zubn\u00edm kazu. Postihuje v\u0161echny lidi, dokonce i d\u011bti. U t\u011bch se projevuje z\u00e1ludn\u011bji a jednozna\u010dn\u011bji ne\u017e u dosp\u011bl\u00fdch pacient\u016f.<br \/>\nB\u00fdv\u00e1 d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 v\u010das ji diagnostikovat a l\u00e9\u010dit. Jinak pacient velmi trp\u00ed. Ka\u017ed\u00fd \u0161est\u00fd posti\u017een\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk m\u016f\u017ee z absolutn\u00edho zoufalstv\u00ed sp\u00e1chat dokonce sebevra\u017edu.<br \/>\nNel\u00e9\u010den\u00e1 deprese se nav\u00edc neust\u00e1le vrac\u00ed a \u010dasto se st\u00e1v\u00e1 celo\u017eivotn\u00edm proklet\u00edm. V\u00e1\u0161 chlapec m\u00e1 s t\u011bmi hendikepy, kter\u00e9 dostal do v\u00ednku, u\u017e nyn\u00ed dost t\u011b\u017ek\u00fd \u017eivot. Ob\u010das mu b\u00fdv\u00e1 nepochybn\u011b velmi zle. Nutn\u011b pot\u0159ebuje va\u0161e pochopen\u00ed a pomoc.<\/p>\n<p>Deprese se projevuje hlubok\u00fdm smutkem a ztr\u00e1tou z\u00e1jmu o v\u0161e, co ho d\u0159\u00edve bavilo. Dal\u0161\u00edm p\u0159\u00edznakem je nechu\u0165 komunikovat a z\u00e1chvaty pl\u00e1\u010de, ke kter\u00fdm nen\u00ed n\u011bjak\u00fd zjevn\u00fd d\u016fvod. \u010casto se objevuje i neschopnost soust\u0159edit se na pr\u00e1ci, velk\u00e1 \u00fanava a patologick\u00e1 slabost, kter\u00e1 neodpov\u00edd\u00e1 podan\u00e9mu v\u00fdkonu. \u010clov\u011bk trp\u00ed intenzivn\u00edmi \u00fazkostmi nebo strachem. Z konkr\u00e9tn\u00edch v\u011bc\u00ed, ale i z t\u011bch nezn\u00e1m\u00fdch.<\/p>\n<p>U d\u011bt\u00ed se v\u011bt\u0161inou st\u0159\u00edd\u00e1 apatie se stavy podr\u00e1\u017ed\u011bnosti i agrese. Po nich se op\u011bt stahuj\u00ed do sebe a odm\u00edtaj\u00ed komunikovat. Ztr\u00e1ta chuti k j\u00eddlu a hubnut\u00ed je jedn\u00edm z typick\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edznak\u016f t\u00e9to choroby. Doprov\u00e1zej\u00ed ji rovn\u011b\u017e probl\u00e9my se sp\u00e1nkem a brzk\u00e9 rann\u00ed buzen\u00ed. Neklid se st\u0159\u00edd\u00e1 s apati\u00ed a zpomalen\u00edm, v\u00fdrazn\u00e9 jsou poruchy my\u0161len\u00ed, pam\u011bti nebo soust\u0159ed\u011bn\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p> Naru\u0161en\u00e1 b\u00fdv\u00e1 tak\u00e9 schopnost jednat a cokoli rozhodnout. Posti\u017een\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk m\u00e1 pocit, \u017ee nic nezvl\u00e1d\u00e1. I b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 ka\u017edodenn\u00ed \u00fakony mu p\u0159ipadaj\u00ed nesnesiteln\u011b t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9. Trp\u00ed pocity viny, neschopnosti a bezcennosti. U n\u011bkoho se mohou objevit rovn\u011b\u017e my\u0161lenky na sebevra\u017edu.<\/p>\n<p>N\u011bkdy se deprese projevuje v takzvan\u00e9 larvovan\u00e9 podob\u011b. Tedy r\u016fzn\u00fdmi t\u011blesn\u00fdmi bolestmi (b\u0159icha, hlavy apod.). Typick\u00e9 to b\u00fdv\u00e1 pr\u00e1v\u011b t\u0159eba u d\u011bt\u00ed. L\u00e9ka\u0159i v\u0161ak p\u0159i vy\u0161et\u0159en\u00ed nenajdou \u017e\u00e1dnou t\u011blesnou p\u0159\u00ed\u010dinu.<\/p>\n<p>Pokud tyto p\u0159\u00edznaky trvaj\u00ed d\u00e9le a je zjevn\u00e9, \u017ee se pacient m\u011bn\u00ed a chov\u00e1 se divn\u011b, je nutno urychlen\u011b vyhledat psychiatra. Ten by m\u011bl nemocn\u00e9ho za\u010d\u00edt okam\u017eit\u011b l\u00e9\u010dit. Modern\u00ed antidepresiva jsou velmi \u00fa\u010dinn\u00e1 a bezpe\u010dn\u00e1. Rozhodn\u011b dok\u00e1\u017eou pomoci depresivn\u00edm lidem v jejich utrpen\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e1\u0161 syn by m\u011bl absolvovat tak\u00e9 psychoterapii u d\u011btsk\u00e9ho psychologa. Pom\u016f\u017ee mu vyrovnat se s t\u00edm, \u017ee je trochu jin\u00fd ne\u017e v\u011bt\u0161ina jeho vrstevn\u00edk\u016f. A podpo\u0159\u00ed ho v tom, aby v sob\u011b objevil dovednosti, ve kter\u00fdch je dobr\u00fd nebo i v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00fd. Na nich pak m\u016f\u017ee vybudovat sv\u00e9 sebev\u011bdom\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Deprese se u d\u011bt\u00ed \u010dasto projevuje st\u0159\u00edd\u00e1n\u00edm apatie a agrese. Ale i ztr\u00e1tou chuti k j\u00eddlu, hubnut\u00edm a probl\u00e9my se sp\u00e1nkem. Nebo tak\u00e9 zpomalen\u00edm a poruchami pam\u011bti \u010di soust\u0159ed\u011bn\u00ed<\/p>\n<p>ALICE VONDROV\u00c1<br \/>\nPr\u00e1vo<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>S na\u0161imi v\u011bt\u0161\u00edmi d\u011btmi jsem nikdy nem\u011bla \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 velk\u00e9 probl\u00e9my. U\u010dily se dob\u0159e a zlobily \u00fapln\u011b norm\u00e1ln\u011b. Zato nejmlad\u0161\u00ed n\u00e1m v\u0161echno vynahrazuje. 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