{"id":26115,"date":"2017-02-01T23:06:11","date_gmt":"2017-02-01T22:06:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=26115"},"modified":"2017-02-01T23:06:11","modified_gmt":"2017-02-01T22:06:11","slug":"vitek-je-autista-pece-o-nej-je-zaprah-24-hodin-denne","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=26115","title":{"rendered":"V\u00edtek je autista! P\u00e9\u010de o n\u011bj je z\u00e1p\u0159ah 24 hodin denn\u011b"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>ZAPOME\u0147TE NA FILMY RAIN MAN NEBO MERCURY, KTER\u00c9 UKAZUJ\u00cd AUTISTY JAKO G\u00c9NIE, KTE\u0158\u00cd DOK\u00c1\u017dOU HRAV\u011a PO\u010c\u00cdTAT S OSMICIFERN\u00ddMI \u010c\u00cdSLY \u010cI ROZLU\u0160TIT TAJN\u00c9 K\u00d3DY. MIMO\u0158\u00c1DN\u011a NADAN\u00ddCH AUTIST\u016e JE VE SKUTE\u010cNOSTI VELMI M\u00c1LO A JDE OBVYKLE O LIDI, JEJICH\u017d POSTI\u017dEN\u00cd NEN\u00cd TAK ZNA\u010cN\u00c9. V\u011aT\u0160INA AUTIST\u016e ALE NEN\u00cd SCHOPNA SE SAMA ROZV\u00cdJET A UPLATNIT VE SPOLE\u010cNOSTI. JAK\u00c9 TO JE VYCHOV\u00c1VAT D\u00cdT\u011a S T\u00cdMTO POSTI\u017dEN\u00cdM, DOB\u0158E V\u00cd DANA KORY\u010cANSK\u00c1 (52), KTER\u00c1 U\u017d 18 LET PE\u010cUJE O AUTISTICK\u00c9HO SYNA V\u00cdTKA. NEN\u00cd TO PRO NI, JEJ\u00cdHO MAN\u017dELA V\u00cdTKA (52) ANI DCERU BARBORU V\u016eBEC LEHK\u00c9, P\u0158ESTO SE V\u0160ICHNI SNA\u017d\u00cd, ABY V\u00cdTK\u016eV \u017dIVOT BYL CO NEJ\u0160\u0164ASTN\u011aJ\u0160\u00cd\u2026 <!--more-->&#8222;Kdy\u017e m\u011bla dcera osm let, zatou\u017eili jsme po druh\u00e9m d\u00edt\u011bti. Ot\u011bhotn\u011bla jsem ve 34 letech, co\u017e se tehdy bralo jako t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 horn\u00ed v\u011bkov\u00e1 hranice pro graviditu. Proto jsme zva\u017eovali, zda nem\u00e1m podstoupit d\u016fkladn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed vy\u0161et\u0159en\u00ed, kter\u00e1 by mo\u017en\u00e1 rizika vylou\u010dila. Z\u00e1kladn\u00ed testy v\u0161ak dopadly dob\u0159e, tak\u017ee jsme necht\u011bli plod zat\u011b\u017eovat dal\u0161\u00edmi prohl\u00eddkami. Nav\u00edc jsem se pak dozv\u011bd\u011bla, \u017ee by se jimi autismus stejn\u011b nezjistil,&#8220; za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 l\u00ed\u010dit sv\u016fj p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh Dana. Narodil se syn, dostal po t\u00e1tovi jm\u00e9no V\u00edtek. Od za\u010d\u00e1tku byl hodn\u011b uplakan\u00fd, neklidn\u00fd a \u0161patn\u011b spal. &#8222;U\u017e tehdy to bylo n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 obdob\u00ed. U jeho hl\u00edd\u00e1n\u00ed jsme se st\u0159\u00eddali, aby si ostatn\u00ed aspo\u0148 trochu odpo\u010dinuli. N\u011bkolikr\u00e1t jsem tehdy kontaktovala neonat\u00e1ln\u00ed poradnu, jen\u017ee m\u011b poka\u017ed\u00e9 odbyli s t\u00edm, \u017ee pokud n\u00e1s k nim nepos\u00edl\u00e1 doktor, \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd v\u00e1\u017en\u011bj\u0161\u00ed probl\u00e9m syn ur\u010dit\u011b nem\u00e1,&#8220; pokra\u010duje. Na jednu z nejz\u00e1va\u017en\u011bj\u0161\u00edch poruch d\u011btsk\u00e9ho ment\u00e1ln\u00edho v\u00fdvoje V\u00edtkovy rodi\u010de upozornil a\u017e mnohem pozd\u011bji psycholog. Kory\u010dan\u0161t\u00ed po stanoven\u00e9 diagn\u00f3ze absolvovali se synem je\u0161t\u011b dal\u0161\u00ed vy\u0161et\u0159en\u00ed &#8211; po\u010d\u00edta\u010dovou tomografii a magnetickou rezonanci, po kter\u00fdch u\u017e bylo zcela jasn\u00e9, \u017ee se jejich syn narodil s autismem. &#8222;U syna se od za\u010d\u00e1tku v\u016fbec nerozv\u00edjela \u0159e\u010d, a\u010dkoliv jsme se ho po\u0159\u00e1d sna\u017eili citliv\u011b do komunikace postrkovat. Nap\u0159ed n\u00e1s l\u00e9ka\u0159i pova\u017eovali za p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 ambici\u00f3zn\u00ed rodi\u010de, kte\u0159\u00ed cht\u011bj\u00ed m\u00edt ze sv\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte pomalu g\u00e9nia. A\u017e \u010dasem p\u0159iznali, \u017ee to m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt p\u0159ece jen jinak,&#8220; dod\u00e1v\u00e1 V\u00edtkova maminka.<\/p>\n<p>D\u011bs\u00ed ho lid\u00e9 i hluk<\/p>\n<p>Po stanoven\u00ed diagn\u00f3zy za\u010dali Kory\u010dan\u0161t\u00ed o autismu sh\u00e1n\u011bt dostupn\u00e9 informace. N\u00e1sledn\u011b se pustili do synovy speci\u00e1ln\u00ed v\u00fdchovy\u2026 V\u00edtek byl toti\u017e velk\u00fd samot\u00e1\u0159. &#8222;Kdy\u017e p\u0159i\u0161el n\u011bkdo ciz\u00ed, V\u00edtek s pl\u00e1\u010dem ut\u00edkal pry\u010d. D\u0159\u00edve jsme s n\u00edm nemohli ani do obchodu, proto\u017ee se v n\u011bm hodn\u011b vztekal. Dali jsme si opravdu moc pr\u00e1ce s t\u00edm, abychom ho zbavili mnoha absurdn\u00edch reakc\u00ed a obav, kter\u00fdmi trp\u011bl,&#8220; vzpom\u00edn\u00e1 Dana. V\u00edtkovi \u010dasem na\u0161li terapeutku a ona odjela do Anglie na kurz t\u00fdkaj\u00edc\u00ed se autismu, kter\u00fd rodin\u011b hodn\u011b pomohl pochopit, jak s d\u00edt\u011btem pracovat. V\u00edtek je dodnes, a\u010dkoliv je mu u\u017e 18 let, hodn\u011b citliv\u00fd na hluk a r\u016fzn\u00e9 zvuky, kter\u00e9 mu z\u0159ejm\u011b zp\u016fsobuj\u00ed i fyzickou bolest. Pot\u0159ebuje b\u00fdt co nejv\u00edce v klidu, m\u00edt kolem sebe lidi s pozitivn\u00edm chov\u00e1n\u00edm a sv\u016fj specifick\u00fd re\u017eim. &#8222;Ne\u017e jsme p\u0159i\u0161li na ten ide\u00e1ln\u00ed pro V\u00edtka, bylo to pro n\u00e1s nesm\u00edrn\u011b n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 obdob\u00ed, proto\u017ee r\u016fzn\u00e9 metody selh\u00e1valy, co\u017e se u n\u011bj projevovalo i zvracen\u00edm. Zlep\u0161ilo se to po n\u011bkolika letech, kdy za n\u00edm chodili dobrovoln\u00edci, studenti psychologie, se kter\u00fdmi jsme spolupracovali na jeho d\u016fv\u011b\u0159e k ciz\u00edm lidem. S\u00e1m \u010dasem vyc\u00edtil, \u017ee ostatn\u00ed pro n\u011bj nemusej\u00ed znamenat nutn\u011b nebezpe\u010d\u00ed. D\u00edky tomu pot\u00e9 sn\u00e1\u0161el spole\u010dnost daleko l\u00e9pe,&#8220;<\/p>\n<p>\u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Dana.<\/p>\n<p>Komunikuje s obr\u00e1zky<\/p>\n<p>&#8222;V\u00edtek si moc s nik\u00fdm nehraje, pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 obr\u00e1zkovou komunikaci. N\u011bkter\u00e9 autistick\u00e9 d\u011bti jsou schopny pomoc\u00ed obr\u00e1zk\u016f d\u00e1t dohromady i v\u011bty. U V\u00edtka je to jin\u00e9. On je neskl\u00e1d\u00e1, uk\u00e1\u017ee pouze na jeden obr\u00e1zek a my hned v\u00edme, co chce. Pokud se jen mluv\u00ed, je pro n\u011bj slovo pouh\u00fd zvuk, pokud se v\u0161ak spoj\u00ed s obr\u00e1zkem, potom si dok\u00e1\u017ee mnoh\u00e9 d\u00e1t dohromady. V\u00edtek se nov\u00e9mu u\u010d\u00ed neust\u00e1le, jde to pomalu, ale jde. Nav\u0161t\u011bvujeme spole\u010dn\u011b muzea, chod\u00edme na hv\u011bzd\u00e1rnu. U\u017e\u00edt si to dosyta dok\u00e1\u017ee v zoologick\u00e9 zahrad\u011b a miluje kon\u011b,&#8220; prozrazuje Dana. V\u00edtek se tak\u00e9 r\u00e1d prob\u00edr\u00e1 d\u011btsk\u00fdmi encyklopediemi a popul\u00e1rn\u011bnau\u010dn\u00fdmi knihami. P\u0159i obr\u00e1zkov\u00e9 komunikaci se ale mus\u00ed v\u0161echny postavi\u010dky tv\u00e1\u0159it mile, jinak se odvrac\u00ed. Se sledov\u00e1n\u00edm televize m\u00e1 probl\u00e9m. Nau\u010dn\u00e9 po\u0159ady jsou pro n\u011bj p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 dlouh\u00e9, nedok\u00e1\u017ee z\u016fstat soust\u0159ed\u011bn\u00fd. Obl\u00edben\u00e9 m\u00e1 ve\u010dern\u00ed\u010dky s medv\u011bdy od V\u00e1clava Chaloupka. Proto\u017ee v\u00ed, \u017ee se v nich nic \u0161patn\u00e9ho nestane, koukal by na n\u011b po\u0159\u00e1d dokola. Do \u0161kolky V\u00edtek nechodil, tak\u00e9 nad jeho doch\u00e1zkou do speci\u00e1ln\u00ed z\u00e1kladn\u00ed \u0161koly visel dlouho otazn\u00edk. \u0160koln\u00ed re\u017eim ho stresoval, proto ji rad\u011bji na \u010das p\u0159eru\u0161il. Po dvou odkladech se na Kory\u010dansk\u00e9 usm\u00e1lo \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed v podob\u011b u\u010ditelky, je\u017e mu dok\u00e1zala vytvo\u0159it odpov\u00eddaj\u00edc\u00ed prost\u0159ed\u00ed. B\u011bhem zkr\u00e1cen\u00fdch vyu\u010dovac\u00edch hodin tak za\u010dal V\u00edtek z\u00edsk\u00e1vat v\u0161eobecn\u00fd rozhled. Ve vlastiv\u011bd\u011b se u\u010dil o rodn\u00e9 zemi, v matematice po\u010d\u00edtat pen\u00edze, ve va\u0159en\u00ed se zdokonaloval t\u0159eba v kr\u00e1jen\u00ed a maz\u00e1n\u00ed chleba. &#8222;Ob\u010das ho nech\u00e1v\u00e1me spo\u010d\u00edtat pen\u00edze, jindy se mnou nakupuje. Samotn\u00e9ho j\u00edt po ulici ho ale nikdy nepust\u00edm. Mohl by vstoupit do silnice, kdyby na n\u011bj t\u0159eba za\u0161t\u011bkal pes. Pokud mu nachyst\u00e1m oble\u010den\u00ed, obl\u00e9kne se s\u00e1m. Dok\u00e1\u017ee i upozornit na to, \u017ee n\u011bco chce. Kdy\u017e se t\u0159eba cht\u011bl j\u00edt koupat, p\u0159ib\u011bhl v plavk\u00e1ch,&#8220;<\/p>\n<p>vypravuje V\u00edtkova maminka.<\/p>\n<p>Co bude d\u00e1l?<\/p>\n<p>&#8222;V\u00edtek po absolvov\u00e1n\u00ed z\u00e1kladn\u00ed \u0161koly speci\u00e1ln\u00ed bude ve studiu pokra\u010dovat je\u0161t\u011b rok na st\u0159edn\u00ed praktick\u00e9, za co\u017e jsme moc r\u00e1di. Studium je zde zam\u011b\u0159eno na obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e9 dovednosti, jak\u00fdmi jsou nap\u0159\u00edklad zap\u00edn\u00e1n\u00ed knofl\u00edk\u016f, pr\u00e1ce na zahrad\u011b nebo se nau\u010d\u00ed d\u00e1vat oble\u010den\u00ed do pra\u010dky. Autist\u00e9 b\u00fdvaj\u00ed hodn\u011b nemotorn\u00ed, tak\u017ee ur\u010dit\u00e9 v\u011bci mus\u00ed st\u00e1le dokola opakovat a procvi\u010dovat. Je ale ot\u00e1zkou, co bude, a\u017e \u0161kolu opust\u00ed. Mus\u00edme vymyslet, jak mu zorganizovat \u017eivot jako dosp\u011bl\u00e9mu \u010dlov\u011bku,&#8220; \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Dana. Vhodn\u00e9 by pro n\u011bj byly y chr\u00e1n\u011bn\u00e1 d\u00edlna nebo stacion\u00e1\u0159, kde pracuj\u00ed podobn\u00ed mlad\u00ed lid\u00e9. V\u00edtek bude v\u017edy pot\u0159ebovat n\u011bkoho, kdo na n\u011bj bude d\u00e1vat pozor. V n\u011b\u010dem by ale v\u00fdhodu p\u0159i hled\u00e1n\u00ed dal\u0161\u00edho uplatn\u011bn\u00ed p\u0159ece jen mohl m\u00edt. P\u0159esto\u017ee ho nikdo neu\u010dil zach\u00e1zet s po\u010d\u00edta\u010dem, zvl\u00e1dne si na n\u011bm s\u00e1m naj\u00edt obl\u00edben\u00e9 webov\u00e9 str\u00e1nky. A stejn\u011b jako jin\u00ed teenage\u0159i by na n\u011bm nejrad\u011bji sed\u011bl ve dne v noci.<\/p>\n<p>Nejsou zl\u00ed, ale\u2026<\/p>\n<p>S autisty si lid\u00e9 \u010dasto spojuj\u00ed zlo a agresivitu, kter\u00e9 jsou ale projevem jejich odli\u0161n\u00e9ho vn\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed okol\u00ed. &#8222;Kdy\u017e V\u00edtek n\u011bco provede, je t\u0159eba mu citliv\u011b vysv\u011btlit, co by nem\u011bl. V takov\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edpadech je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1 barva hlasu. P\u0159i chv\u00e1len\u00ed mus\u00edm b\u00fdt hodn\u011b nad\u0161en\u00e1, pokud ho k\u00e1r\u00e1m, je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1 nudn\u00e1 intonace. Mus\u00edm ho p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dit, \u017ee sice n\u011bco pokazil, ale i tak ho m\u00e1me v\u0161ichni r\u00e1di. Potom u\u017e nen\u00ed dobr\u00e9 probl\u00e9m v\u00edce rozeb\u00edrat. Kdy\u017e vyc\u00edt\u00ed, \u017ee jsem na\u0161tvan\u00e1, potom za mnou p\u0159ijde s\u00e1m od sebe a obejme m\u011b, proto\u017ee poznal, \u017ee n\u011bco provedl. Ob\u010das je to li\u0161\u00e1k, kter\u00fd na ostatn\u00ed n\u011bco zkou\u0161\u00ed. T\u0159eba u nov\u00fdch asistentek p\u0159edst\u00edr\u00e1, \u017ee se neum\u00ed ani obout,&#8220;<\/p>\n<p>usm\u011bje se Dana. Ta se nejv\u00edc ze v\u0161eho ob\u00e1v\u00e1 toho, co by se stalo, kdyby se s man\u017eelem o V\u00edtka nemohli d\u00e1l starat. &#8222;Po\u0159\u00e1d p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00edm, jak by V\u00edtek mohl dopadnout. Hlavn\u011b, aby to v\u0161e nakonec neodnesla dcera, kter\u00e1 by m\u011bla m\u00edt p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm sv\u016fj vlastn\u00ed \u017eivot,&#8220; \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Dana. Pomoc od jin\u00fdch lid\u00ed p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed m\u00e1lokdy, sp\u00ed\u0161e maj\u00ed Kory\u010dan\u0161t\u00ed \u0161patn\u00e9 zku\u0161enosti. &#8222;Mohla bych sypat smutn\u00e9 \u00bbkam\u00ednky po cest\u011b\u00ab, s \u010d\u00edm v\u0161\u00edm se setk\u00e1v\u00e1me. N\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivot je nesrovnateln\u00fd s chodem b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 rodiny. Jsme v jednom kole, o dovolen\u00e9 si m\u016f\u017eeme jen nechat zd\u00e1t. N\u011bkolik spole\u010dn\u00fdch dn\u016f s man\u017eelem tr\u00e1v\u00edme b\u011bhem V\u00edtkova rehabilita\u010dn\u00edho pobytu. Osobn\u00ed z\u00e1jmy jsme museli zredukovat na nulu,&#8220; dod\u00e1v\u00e1 z\u00e1v\u011br Dana.<\/p>\n<p>Co je autismus?<\/p>\n<p>Jde o jednu z nejz\u00e1va\u017en\u011bj\u0161\u00edch poruch d\u011btsk\u00e9ho ment\u00e1ln\u00edho v\u00fdvoje. Lid\u00e9 s autismem m\u00edvaj\u00ed v\u00fdrazn\u00e9 pot\u00ed\u017ee ve v\u00fdvoji \u0159e\u010di, ve vztaz\u00edch s lidmi a obt\u00ed\u017en\u011b zvl\u00e1daj\u00ed b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 soci\u00e1ln\u00ed dovednosti. P\u0159\u00ed\u010dinu autismu se zat\u00edm nepoda\u0159ilo odhalit. P\u0159edpokl\u00e1d\u00e1 se, \u017ee velkou roli zde hraj\u00ed r\u016fzn\u00e1 infek\u010dn\u00ed onemocn\u011bn\u00ed, chemick\u00e9 procesy v mozku nebo genetick\u00e9 faktory.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Petr PODROU\u017dEK<\/p>\n<p>Aha! pro \u017eeny<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>ZAPOME\u0147TE NA FILMY RAIN MAN NEBO MERCURY, KTER\u00c9 UKAZUJ\u00cd AUTISTY JAKO G\u00c9NIE, KTE\u0158\u00cd DOK\u00c1\u017dOU HRAV\u011a PO\u010c\u00cdTAT S OSMICIFERN\u00ddMI \u010c\u00cdSLY \u010cI ROZLU\u0160TIT TAJN\u00c9 K\u00d3DY. 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