Jsou prav\u00fdm opakem osob trp\u00edc\u00edch nutkav\u00fdm probl\u00e9mov\u00fdm nakupov\u00e1n\u00edm. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 maj\u00ed probl\u00e9m s t\u00edm, aby si p\u0159iznali pr\u00e1vo vynalo\u017eit vlastn\u00ed pen\u00edze na to, aby si ud\u011blali radost. Tento postoj v sob\u011b skr\u00fdv\u00e1 tendenci k poni\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed vlastn\u00ed osoby a \u010dasto sv\u011bd\u010d\u00ed o intenzivn\u00ed pot\u0159eb\u011b bezpe\u010d\u00ed, p\u00ed\u0161e francouzsk\u00fd den\u00edk Le Figaro.
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„Poka\u017ed\u00e9, kdy\u017e m\u011b napadne zaj\u00edt si n\u011bco koupit, opakuje se tot\u00e9\u017e sch\u00e9ma. Vstoup\u00edm do obchodu, najdu tam n\u011bco, co se mi l\u00edb\u00ed, vyzkou\u0161\u00edm si to, jdu k pokladn\u011b a cestou si \u0159eknu: Pot\u0159ebuju to opravdu? Je to skute\u010dn\u011b hezk\u00e9? Nakonec v\u017edy dosp\u011bju k z\u00e1v\u011bru, \u017ee to je pro m\u011b p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 drah\u00e9. Odch\u00e1z\u00edm z obchodu s pr\u00e1zdn\u00fdma rukama a velmi rozmrzel\u00e1 a na\u0161tvan\u00e1,“ vysv\u011btluje dvaat\u0159icetilet\u00e1 Caroline. „V\u017edy jsem m\u011bla probl\u00e9m s t\u00edm, abych p\u0159ijala my\u0161lenku, \u017ee si mohu ud\u011blat radost,“ dod\u00e1v\u00e1.<\/p>\n
„P\u0159ed dv\u011bma roky jsem z\u016fstala bez zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed a to jsem opravdu musela obracet ka\u017ed\u00e9 euro. P\u0159edt\u00edm pro m\u011b bylo nakupov\u00e1n\u00ed \u010d\u00edmsi prost\u00fdm, snadn\u00fdm. Snadno jsem se ovl\u00e1dala. Kdy\u017e jsem m\u011bla pen\u00edze, s radost\u00ed jsem je utr\u00e1cela, kdy\u017e jsem je nem\u011bla, nic jsem nekupovala, ale nec\u00edtila jsem \u017e\u00e1dnou frustraci,“ \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Caroline.<\/p>\n
„Od t\u00e9 doby, i kdy\u017e se moje finan\u010dn\u00ed situace velmi zm\u011bnila, si nedok\u00e1\u017eu ud\u011blat radost. V\u0161echno je tak, jako kdybych d\u00e1l byla bez pen\u011bz a musela za ka\u017edou cenu \u0161et\u0159it pro p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b dal\u0161\u00ed obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e9 obdob\u00ed,“ st\u011b\u017euje si Caroline.<\/p>\n
„Nem\u00e1m naopak probl\u00e9my s nakupov\u00e1n\u00edm pro druh\u00e9, s t\u00edm, aby d\u011blala radost sv\u00fdm bl\u00edzk\u00fdm. R\u00e1da bych z\u00edskal zp\u011bt trochu tu lehkost ve vztahu k pen\u011bz\u016fm. C\u00edt\u00edm, \u017ee tento m\u016fj probl\u00e9m vyv\u011br\u00e1 ze slo\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00edch p\u0159\u00ed\u010din, kter\u00e9 bych r\u00e1da odstranila,“ \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Caroline.<\/p>\n
„P\u0159\u00edli\u0161n\u00fd strach z toho, \u017ee osoba nebude m\u00edt dost pen\u011bz, a z toho plynouc\u00ed tendence k finan\u010dn\u00ed anorexii je p\u0159\u00edzna\u010dn\u00fd pro hluboce zako\u0159en\u011bn\u00fd strach nejen z nedostatku pen\u011bz, ale p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm z nedostatku bezpe\u010d\u00ed,“ upozor\u0148uje psycholo\u017eka Marie-Claude Fran\u00e7oisov\u00e1-Laugierov\u00e1, autorka knihy Pen\u00edze v man\u017eelstv\u00ed a v rodin\u011b.<\/p>\n
„Pro n\u011bkter\u00e9 lidi pen\u00edze p\u0159edstavuj\u00ed radost, moc, svobodu. Jsou spojov\u00e1ny s radost\u00ed. Pro jin\u00e9 jsou naopak synonymem zdr\u017eenlivosti a smutku. Tito lid\u00e9 maj\u00ed strach, \u017ee jim budou chyb\u011bt, a to proto, \u017ee budoucnost pova\u017euj\u00ed za nejistou. Nevyd\u00e1vat pen\u00edze pro n\u011b znamen\u00e1 uspokojovat pot\u0159ebu bezpe\u010d\u00ed, chr\u00e1nit se p\u0159ed nezn\u00e1mem, z n\u011bho\u017e maj\u00ed obavy. Pat\u0159\u00ed to k prad\u00e1vn\u00fdm obav\u00e1m, jako je strach ze smrti nebo nemoci: tito lid\u00e9 se boj\u00ed, \u017ee budou bez prost\u0159edk\u016f a nebudou tak moci \u010delit obt\u00ed\u017e\u00edm, je\u017e je \u010dekaj\u00ed,“ uv\u00e1d\u00ed.<\/p>\n
„Finan\u010dn\u00ed anorexie je velmi odli\u0161n\u00e1 od lakoty. \u010c\u00e1ste\u010dn\u011b ji lze vysv\u011btlit t\u00edm, jak tito lid\u00e9 pro\u017e\u00edvali d\u011btstv\u00ed. \u010clov\u011bk, kter\u00e9mu \u0159\u00edkali, \u017ee je nikdo a nic neznamen\u00e1, m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt pak p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den, \u017ee nem\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1dnou vnit\u0159n\u00ed hodnotu. Bude m\u00edt sklony d\u00e1vat d\u00e1rky sv\u00fdm bl\u00edzk\u00fdm, vyd\u00e1vat pro n\u011b pen\u00edze, ale pro sebe nikoli,“ \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Marie-Claude Fran\u00e7oisov\u00e1-Laugierov\u00e1.<\/p>\n
„Z t\u00e9to nicotn\u00e9 sebe\u00facty \u010dasto pramen\u00ed jist\u00e1 forma asketismu. Takov\u00ed lid\u00e9 si mysl\u00ed, \u017ee nemaj\u00ed pr\u00e1vo ud\u011blat si radost a koupit si v\u011bc, kter\u00e1 se jim l\u00edb\u00ed. Jakoby si \u0159\u00edkali. \u017ee si to nezaslou\u017e\u00ed,“ vysv\u011btluje.<\/p>\n
„Aby se \u010dlov\u011bk dostal z t\u00e9to slep\u00e9 uli\u010dky, m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt u\u017eite\u010dn\u00e9 o tom mluvit. Nen\u00ed nutn\u00e9 nav\u0161t\u00edvit psychologa, i rozhovor s n\u011bkter\u00fdm \u010dlenem rodiny nebo p\u0159\u00edtelem m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt ozdravn\u00fd \u00fa\u010dinek. Mohou pak za\u010d\u00edt t\u00edm, \u017ee si dovol\u00ed malou radost, nap\u0159\u00edklad l\u00edstek do kina nebo kn\u00ed\u017eku. P\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm jde o to naj\u00edt znovu chu\u0165 ud\u011blat si radost. To m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt p\u0159\u00edjemn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ve spole\u010dnosti dal\u0161\u00ed osoby. Pro\u010d si t\u0159eba nedop\u0159\u00e1t sklenku na terase s p\u0159\u00edtelkyn\u00ed?“ uv\u00e1d\u00ed Marie-Claude Fran\u00e7oisov\u00e1-Laugierov\u00e1.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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