{"id":29242,"date":"2017-10-07T18:47:20","date_gmt":"2017-10-07T16:47:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=29242"},"modified":"2017-10-07T19:16:23","modified_gmt":"2017-10-07T17:16:23","slug":"lexpress-proc-se-nekteri-lide-neustale-opozduji","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=29242","title":{"rendered":"L\u00b4Express: Pro\u010d se n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 neust\u00e1le opo\u017e\u010fuj\u00ed"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hodinky v ruce, neust\u00e1le v b\u011bhu a sp\u011bchu: \u010dasto vypadaj\u00ed jako kr\u00e1l\u00edk z Alenky v \u0159\u00ed\u0161i div\u016f. Lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed maj\u00ed neust\u00e1le zpo\u017ed\u011bn\u00ed, vypadaj\u00ed, jakoby neum\u011bli vl\u00e1dnout sv\u00fdm \u010dasem. \u010casto mohou popuzovat sv\u00e9 okol\u00ed nejr\u016fzn\u011bj\u0161\u00edmi v\u00fdmluvami, z nich\u017e jedna je hor\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e druh\u00e1. Mohou v\u0161ak za to? Tak se t\u00e1\u017ee francouzsk\u00fd t\u00fdden\u00edk L\u00b4Express.<\/strong>
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Obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e9 rann\u00ed vst\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, dob\u00edh\u00e1n\u00ed rann\u00edho autobusu a dokon\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed pr\u00e1ce na posledn\u00ed chv\u00edli. Anissiny dny se n\u011bkdy podobaj\u00ed dlouh\u00e9 \u0159ad\u011b t\u011b\u017ek\u00fdch zkou\u0161ek. „Je to hrozn\u00e9,“ sv\u011b\u0159uje se mlad\u00e1 Pa\u0159\u00ed\u017eanka. „Pravideln\u011b ztr\u00e1c\u00edm drahocenn\u00fd \u010das t\u00edm, \u017ee se mus\u00edm dom\u016f pro n\u011bco vracet, pro sou\u010d\u00e1sti oble\u010den\u00ed nebo pro kl\u00ed\u010de. Sna\u017e\u00edm se proti sv\u00e9 povaze bojovat, ale nikdy se mi nepoda\u0159\u00ed p\u0159ij\u00edt nebo dokon\u010dit pr\u00e1ci v\u010das,“ st\u011b\u017euje si.<\/p>\n

Anissa pat\u0159\u00ed k t\u011bm, kter\u00e9 jejich bl\u00edzc\u00ed ozna\u010duj\u00ed za nenapraviteln\u00e9 nespolehlivce. T\u0159iadvacetilet\u00fd student Henrique vyvol\u00e1v\u00e1 neust\u00e1l\u00fdmi pozdn\u00edmi p\u0159\u00edchody hn\u011bv u sv\u00fdch profesor\u016f i u sv\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edtelkyn\u011b. „Lid\u00e9 si mysl\u00ed, \u017ee to d\u011bl\u00e1m schv\u00e1ln\u011b, z nez\u00e1jmu o n\u011b, ale to nen\u00ed v\u016fbec pravda. Asi jsem to zd\u011bdil po matce, ta tak\u00e9 nedovedla zach\u00e1zet s \u010dasem,“ \u0159\u00edk\u00e1.<\/p>\n

\u010clov\u011bk, kter\u00fd chronicky chod\u00ed v\u0161ude pozd\u011b, je pova\u017eov\u00e1n za nevyl\u00e9\u010diteln\u00e9ho sn\u00edlka a nespolehlivce a sv\u00e9 okol\u00ed pobu\u0159uje a uv\u00e1d\u00ed do rozpak\u016f. „Jsou r\u016fzn\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edpady. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 maj\u00ed jen \u0161patn\u00fd \u010dasov\u00fd odhad. Jin\u00ed spat\u0159uj\u00ed ve zpo\u017e\u010fov\u00e1n\u00ed adrenalinov\u00fd sport. M\u00edt zpo\u017ed\u011bn\u00ed znamen\u00e1 fyzicky neust\u00e1le sp\u011bchat, ale je to tak\u00e9 zp\u016fsob, jak protestovat proti pravidl\u016fm,“ vysv\u011btluje psycholo\u017eka Marie Gohinov\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Tato p\u0159edstava emotivn\u00edho st\u00e1le se opo\u017e\u010fuj\u00edc\u00edho \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00fd je ve st\u0159etu s realitou, by v n\u00e1s mohla budit l\u00edtost, a to i po \u010dtvrthodince \u010dek\u00e1n\u00ed. Nesm\u00edme v\u0161ak zapom\u00ednat, \u017ee tito lid\u00e9 neust\u00e1le vystavuj\u00ed sv\u00e9 bli\u017en\u00ed t\u011b\u017ek\u00fdm zkou\u0161k\u00e1m.<\/p>\n

„Odm\u00edtla jsem spolupracovat s p\u0159\u00edtelkyn\u00ed, kterou m\u00e1m r\u00e1da. Musela jsem zastavit projekt, kter\u00fd mi navrhla, proto\u017ee m\u011b jej\u00ed opo\u017e\u010fov\u00e1n\u00ed roz\u010dilovalo. Pravideln\u011b m\u011bla deset a\u017e 15 minut zpo\u017ed\u011bn\u00ed a v\u017edy dobrou v\u00fdmluvu. Nedok\u00e1zala jsem se s t\u00edm sm\u00ed\u0159it,“ \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Emilie, kter\u00e1 d\u011bla audity v Pa\u0159\u00ed\u017ei.<\/p>\n

Tento charakterov\u00fd rys je pro n\u011bkter\u00e9 lidi nesnesiteln\u00fd a jin\u00ed ho pova\u017euj\u00ed za nemoc. Profesor psychologie na Kalifornsk\u00e9 univerzit\u011b v San Diegu Jeff Conte vysv\u011btluje, \u017ee existuje skupina osob, kter\u00e9 jsou ke zpo\u017e\u010fov\u00e1n\u00ed n\u00e1chyln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e jin\u00e9. „Vych\u00e1zel jsem z pr\u00e1ce dvou l\u00e9ka\u0159\u016f ze 60. let. Jejich teorie osobnosti rozli\u0161uje osoby typu A, kter\u00e9 jsou ambici\u00f3zn\u00ed, netrp\u011bliv\u00e9 a nepokojn\u00e9, a osoby typu B, kter\u00e9 \u017eij\u00ed s lehkost\u00ed a uvoln\u011bn\u011b. Zjistil jsem, \u017ee opo\u017e\u010fov\u00e1n\u00ed je \u010dasto charakteristickou vlastnost\u00ed druh\u00e9 kategorie osob,“ uv\u00e1d\u00ed. Podle jeho studie se tyto skupiny li\u0161\u00ed v ch\u00e1p\u00e1n\u00ed \u010dasu. Typ A je motivov\u00e1n v\u00fdkonnost\u00ed a m\u00e1 p\u0159esn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed rozvrh \u010dasu. Naopak osoby ze skupiny B maj\u00ed tendenci d\u011blat n\u011bkolik v\u011bc\u00ed najednou a to vede k systematick\u00e9mu opo\u017e\u010fov\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Osoby chronicky se opo\u017e\u010fuj\u00edc\u00ed musej\u00ed tedy zjistit p\u0159\u00ed\u010diny sv\u00e9ho ne\u0161varu. Je to stres? Strach z t\u011bch, kdo je \u010dekaj\u00ed? Touha odli\u0161it se od st\u00e1da? Pak je mo\u017eno postupn\u011b zlep\u0161ovat sv\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed. „Sna\u017ete se stanovit si jednoduch\u00e9 c\u00edle,“ \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 americk\u00e1 psycholo\u017eka Jane Burkaov\u00e1. „Rozvrhn\u011bte si na mal\u00e9 etapy to, co chcete d\u011blat,“ vyb\u00edz\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Okol\u00ed osob, je\u017e se neust\u00e1le zpo\u017e\u010fuj\u00ed, mus\u00ed m\u00edt trp\u011blivost. „Je k ni\u010demu \u0159\u00edkat takov\u00e9mu \u010dlov\u011bku, pro\u010d se po\u0159\u00e1d opo\u017e\u010fuje, kdy\u017e ostatn\u00ed chod\u00ed v\u010das. Takov\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk uva\u017euje jinak a nem\u00e1 stejn\u00e9 pon\u011bt\u00ed o \u010dase. Pomozte mu sestavit rozumn\u00fd harmonogram, abyste mu pomohli zlep\u0161ovat se,“ doporu\u010duje Jane Burkaov\u00e1. Tak se krok za krokem posunou jeho hodiny na spr\u00e1vn\u00fd \u010das.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Hodinky v ruce, neust\u00e1le v b\u011bhu a sp\u011bchu: \u010dasto vypadaj\u00ed jako kr\u00e1l\u00edk z Alenky v \u0159\u00ed\u0161i div\u016f. Lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed maj\u00ed neust\u00e1le zpo\u017ed\u011bn\u00ed, vypadaj\u00ed, jakoby neum\u011bli […]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":29250,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29242","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-zpravy"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29242","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=29242"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29242\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/29250"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=29242"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=29242"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=29242"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}