{"id":29816,"date":"2017-12-17T16:54:06","date_gmt":"2017-12-17T15:54:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=29816"},"modified":"2017-12-17T16:54:06","modified_gmt":"2017-12-17T15:54:06","slug":"kam-muze-vest-nezdravy-narcisismus","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=29816","title":{"rendered":"Kam m\u016f\u017ee v\u00e9st nezdrav\u00fd narcisismus"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Egoista je soust\u0159ed\u011bn na sebe, na sv\u016fj prosp\u011bch, na sv\u00e9 z\u00e1jmy. Egocentrista v\u017edy v\u0161echno vztahuje k vlastn\u00ed osob\u011b, v\u0161echny situace. Jeho m\u00edn\u011bn\u00ed je nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, r\u00e1d je st\u0159edem pozornosti, ale nem\u00e1 vlohy k tomu, aby byl milov\u00e1n. Narcisista m\u00e1 \u017eivotn\u00ed pot\u0159ebu z\u00edsk\u00e1vat pozornost druh\u00fdch. Douf\u00e1, \u017ee bude potvrzena jeho moc lidi upout\u00e1vat t\u00edm, \u017ee nap\u0159\u00edklad prohla\u0161uje, \u017ee jeho auto je nejkr\u00e1sn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed nebo \u017ee jeho d\u011bti jsou nejinteligentn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. Narcisismus ale nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt nutn\u011b negativn\u00ed.<\/strong><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>P\u0159ipome\u0148me, \u017ee Freud hovo\u0159il o schopnosti d\u00edt\u011bte milovat sama sebe a milovat ostatn\u00ed. Narcisismus je tedy z\u00e1kladem na\u0161\u00ed identity. Je tomu tak proto, \u017ee jsme byli uzn\u00e1ni jako jedine\u010dn\u00e1 osobnost, \u017ee se m\u016f\u017eeme m\u00edt r\u00e1di a \u017ee n\u00e1s lid\u00e9 respektuj\u00ed, ale tak\u00e9 m\u016f\u017eeme milovat toho druh\u00e9ho. Jak napsal francouzsk\u00fd den\u00edk Le Figaro, probl\u00e9m nast\u00e1v\u00e1 tehdy, jestli\u017ee vznikne hyponarcisismus nebo hypernarcisismus.<\/p>\n<p>Hyponarcisismus se projevuje t\u00edm, \u017ee doty\u010dn\u00e1 osoba zd\u016fraz\u0148uje, co je na n\u00ed \u0161patn\u00e9ho. Nikdy nen\u00ed dost &#8222;dobr\u00e1&#8220; a m\u00e1 zna\u010dn\u00e9 tendence se podce\u0148ovat. Slo\u017e\u00edte j\u00ed poklonu, ale ona na ni reaguje jako ob\u011b\u0165. \u010clov\u011bk trp\u00edc\u00ed hypernarcisismem se naopak st\u00e1le vychvaluje, zd\u016fraz\u0148uje sv\u00e9 p\u0159ednosti.<\/p>\n<p>P\u0159\u00ednos narcisismu tkv\u00ed v tom, \u017ee m\u00e1 \u010dlov\u011bk vyrovnan\u00fd vztah k sob\u011b sam\u00e9mu. Takov\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk se dok\u00e1\u017ee m\u00edt r\u00e1d, obohacuje sv\u00e9 citov\u00e9 vztahy, pracuje efektivn\u011b a m\u00e1 radost z \u00fakol\u016f, a to nejen proto, aby dost\u00e1val odm\u011bnu. Nav\u00edc se star\u00e1 stejn\u011b o sv\u00e9 t\u011blo jako o svou du\u0161i.<\/p>\n<p>Hypernarcisismus znamen\u00e1 intenzivn\u00ed pot\u0159ebu dosahovat uzn\u00e1n\u00ed druh\u00fdch. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed jsou na uzn\u00e1n\u00ed druh\u00fdch z\u00e1visl\u00ed. Maj\u00ed pot\u0159ebu druh\u00e9 porazit. Jejich touha po uzn\u00e1n\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee po dlouh\u00e1 l\u00e9ta slou\u017eit jako \u00fa\u010dinn\u00fd motor. Psychiatri\u010dka Patrice Huerreov\u00e1, kter\u00e1 se specializuje na chov\u00e1n\u00ed student\u016f, uv\u00e1d\u00ed, \u017ee takov\u00fd student nikdy nem\u00e1 dost dobr\u00fdch zn\u00e1mek a d\u00e1v\u00e1 v\u0161e do toho, aby m\u011bl ve \u0161kole \u00fasp\u011bchy. P\u0159ipom\u00edn\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edklad jedn\u00e9 studentky, kter\u00e1 se pokusila o sebevra\u017edu jen proto, \u017ee poprv\u00e9 za celou dobu brilantn\u00edho studia nebyla ve t\u0159\u00edd\u011b nejlep\u0161\u00ed, ale &#8222;jen&#8220; druh\u00e1. Jsou tak\u00e9 takov\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed o sob\u011b neust\u00e1le prohla\u0161uj\u00ed, \u017ee jsou nula. To v\u0161ak je jen strategie, jak se domoci pochval.<\/p>\n<p>D\u0159\u00edve \u010di pozd\u011bji p\u0159ijde izolace. Ve firm\u00e1ch a organizac\u00edch nen\u00ed nikdo hloup\u00fd. Ten, kdo se chce p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 zviditel\u0148ovat, je nakonec izolov\u00e1n. Ti skute\u010dn\u011b dob\u0159\u00ed jsou \u010dasto flexibiln\u00ed, p\u0159\u00edstupn\u00ed v\u016f\u010di druh\u00fdm. Jejich okol\u00ed se n\u011bkdy sna\u017e\u00ed postavit kolem nich ze\u010f, ale oni maj\u00ed zcela vyv\u00e1\u017een\u00fd vztah v\u016f\u010di druh\u00fdm.<\/p>\n<p>O rozporuplnosti hypernarcisistick\u00fdch osob, jim\u017e jejich ego umo\u017e\u0148uje dosahovat \u00fasp\u011bchu, ale d\u0159\u00edve \u010di pozd\u011bji se dostanou do izolace, vypr\u00e1v\u00ed film re\u017eis\u00e9ra Tate Taylora Get On Up &#8211; P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh Jamese Browna. Mal\u00fd chud\u00fd chlapec z Ji\u017en\u00ed Karoliny si mus\u00ed vytvo\u0159it siln\u00e9 &#8222;j\u00e1&#8220;, aby usp\u011bl. Tato s\u00edla jej dovede k tomu, \u017ee se stane sv\u011btov\u011b uzn\u00e1vanou hv\u011bzdou. Dlouho na n\u011bj sv\u00edt\u00ed sv\u011btla ramp. P\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed v\u0161ak chv\u00edle, kdy se jeho heslo &#8222;J\u00e1 p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm, j\u00e1 prvn\u00ed&#8220; obrac\u00ed proti n\u011bmu. Opou\u0161t\u011bj\u00ed ho nejlep\u0161\u00ed muzikanti, p\u0159\u00edtel z d\u011btstv\u00ed. \u010clov\u011bk trp\u00edc\u00ed hypernarcisismem, kter\u00fd p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 cht\u011bl b\u00fdt v pop\u0159ed\u00ed, se st\u00e1le mus\u00ed ob\u00e1vat, \u017ee se stane posledn\u00edm.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>Egoista je soust\u0159ed\u011bn na sebe, na sv\u016fj prosp\u011bch, na sv\u00e9 z\u00e1jmy. Egocentrista v\u017edy v\u0161echno vztahuje k vlastn\u00ed osob\u011b, v\u0161echny situace. Jeho m\u00edn\u011bn\u00ed je nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, r\u00e1d <a class=\"mh-excerpt-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=29816\" title=\"Kam m\u016f\u017ee v\u00e9st nezdrav\u00fd narcisismus\">[&#8230;]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29816","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-zpravy"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29816","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=29816"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29816\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=29816"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=29816"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=29816"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}