{"id":31989,"date":"2019-07-26T16:36:03","date_gmt":"2019-07-26T14:36:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=31989"},"modified":"2019-08-06T12:43:53","modified_gmt":"2019-08-06T10:43:53","slug":"mamy-na-voziku","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=31989","title":{"rendered":"M\u00e1my na voz\u00edku"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh Tereza Markov\u00e1. Narodila se jako zdrav\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b. Pak ji ale ve 14 letech zas\u00e1hl z\u00e1n\u011bt m\u00edchy, kter\u00fd se spustil asi kv\u016fli infekci boreli\u00f3zou. Od t\u00e9 doby je na voz\u00edku.<\/strong><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Tereza je ochrnut\u00e1 od prsou dol\u016f. Rukama h\u00fdbe, ale nedokonale, n\u011bkter\u00e9 svaly na rukou m\u00e1 bohu\u017eel tak\u00e9 nefunk\u010dn\u00ed. Podle l\u00e9ka\u0159\u016f pr\u00fd \u0161ance na zlep\u0161en\u00ed neexistuje.<\/p>\n<p>Zl\u00e1 doba temna<\/p>\n<p>Dnes u\u017e dvojn\u00e1sobn\u00e1 maminka vzpom\u00edn\u00e1 na nelehk\u00e9 dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed s hendikepem. &#8222;Po revoluci je\u0161t\u011b nebylo tak &#8222;snadn\u00e9&#8220; b\u00fdt voz\u00ed\u010dk\u00e1\u0159em jako dnes. Jak vyt\u00e1hl \u010dlov\u011bk paty ven z domu, byl za ufona. V\u0161ude schody, nikde \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd bezbari\u00e9rov\u00fd p\u0159\u00edstup. P\u00e9\u010de i pom\u016fcky byly tehdy mnohem hor\u0161\u00ed. Rodi\u010de to tak\u00e9 nenesli snadno, jsem jejich jedin\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b. Byla to pro v\u0161echny doba temna,&#8220; p\u0159izn\u00e1v\u00e1 Tereza. Cesta ke \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed Na\u0161t\u011bst\u00ed tohle t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 obdob\u00ed p\u0159ekonala a cesta ke \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed byla voln\u00e1 \u2013 ve 22 letech potkala sv\u00e9ho man\u017eela. Poznali se v centru pro voz\u00ed\u010dk\u00e1\u0159e, kde on byl tehdy na civiln\u00ed vojensk\u00e9 slu\u017eb\u011b. &#8222;M\u016fj mu\u017e je \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed m\u00e9ho \u017eivota. Bez n\u011bj by nebyly nejen na\u0161e d\u011bti, ale ani j\u00e1, takov\u00e1, jak\u00e1 jsem te\u010f,&#8220; sv\u011b\u0159uje se Tereza a p\u0159izn\u00e1v\u00e1, \u017ee hlavn\u011b on si moc p\u0159\u00e1l zalo\u017eit rodinu. Ov\u0161em Tereza tehdy dost v\u00e1hala. &#8222;Nehrnula jsem se do toho a voz\u00edk byl dobrou v\u00fdmluvou. Nemyslela jsem si, \u017ee chci p\u0159iv\u00e9st dal\u0161\u00edho \u010dlov\u011bka do tohohle nep\u0159\u00edv\u011btiv\u00e9ho sv\u011bta&#8230; Ale pak m\u011b Tom p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dil. Dnes jsem za d\u011bti moc vd\u011b\u010dn\u00e1,&#8220; \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 sympatick\u00e1 maminka. Nakonec se j\u00ed narodili dva kr\u00e1sn\u00ed kluci a to dva roky po sob\u011b.<\/p>\n<p>Ot\u00e1zka sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/p>\n<p>M\u00edt dv\u011b mal\u00e9 d\u011bti brzy za sebou b\u00fdv\u00e1 n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9, s hendikepem rozhodn\u011b o dost v\u00edc. &#8222;Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee je to stejn\u00e9 u v\u0161ech rodi\u010d\u016f \u2013 nejd\u0159\u00edv nezvl\u00e1d\u00e1te jedno d\u00edt\u011b a kdy\u017e se v\u00e1m narod\u00ed druh\u00e9, pochop\u00edte, \u017ee s t\u00edm jedn\u00edm to byla pohoda. Tak\u017ee takov\u00e1 klasika, jen je\u0161t\u011b trochu zkomplikovan\u00e1 voz\u00edkem,&#8220; \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Tereza a dod\u00e1v\u00e1: &#8222;Nejt\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed bylo p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dit sebe samu o tom, \u017ee j\u00e1 jsem pro na\u0161e d\u011bti ta nejlep\u0161\u00ed maminka na sv\u011bt\u011b, i p\u0159esto\u017ee jsem ochrnut\u00e1. M\u011bla jsem pocit, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00e9mu, kdo mi kdy pom\u00e1hal, jde pr\u00e1ce s nimi l\u00e9pe ne\u017e mn\u011b. Ale postupem \u010dasu jsem se nau\u010dila pracovat s d\u011btmi i se sv\u00fdm sebev\u011bdom\u00edm.&#8220;<\/p>\n<p>Sd\u00edlen\u00ed a podpora<\/p>\n<p>&#8222;Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b mi vadilo a vad\u00ed, \u017ee s kluky nem\u016f\u017eu norm\u00e1ln\u011b skota\u010dit a sportovat. I je to mrz\u00ed a p\u0159\u00e1li by si, abych chodila. P\u0159ej\u00ed si to pod strome\u010dek, kdy\u017e pad\u00e1 hv\u011bzda&#8230; Kdy\u017e jedu do Paraplete, kladou mi na srdce, a\u0165 po\u0159\u00e1dn\u011b cvi\u010d\u00edm a vr\u00e1t\u00edm se bez voz\u00edku, chod\u00edc\u00ed. Ale nemysl\u00edm si, \u017ee by je to tr\u00e1pilo n\u011bjak hodn\u011b, &#8220; popisuje Tereza. Pr\u00e1v\u011b Centrum Paraple j\u00ed tehdy hodn\u011b pomohlo. &#8222;Po porodu prvn\u00edho syna jsme tam za\u010dali jezdit na kurzy. \u010clov\u011bka povzbud\u00ed, kdy\u017e vid\u00ed, \u017ee lidi ve stejn\u00e9 situaci zvl\u00e1daj\u00ed v\u00edc v\u011bc\u00ed, ne\u017e j\u00e1, a tak\u00e9 je obohacuj\u00edc\u00ed setk\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed a sd\u00edlen\u00ed pocit\u016f a zku\u0161enost\u00ed. To s chod\u00edc\u00edmi \u010derstv\u00fdmi maminkami ne\u0161lo. Dodnes do Paraplete jezd\u00edm na rehabilitace a v\u017edycky si to tam hezky u\u017eiju.&#8220; \u017divot s hendikepem A co Tereze hendikep vzal a dal? &#8222;Vzal mi svobodu, nez\u00e1vislost a radost z pohybu, vlastn\u011b cel\u00fd plnohodnotn\u00fd dosp\u011bl\u00fd \u017eivot. Dal mi ale jist\u00e9 ukotven\u00ed v rozletu, l\u00e1sku k moudrosti a studiu, diplomacii a dovednost udr\u017eovat kvalitn\u00ed mezilidsk\u00e9 vztahy. Dal mi ur\u010dit\u00fd nadhled a nau\u010dil m\u011b netou\u017eit po tom, co nem\u016f\u017eu m\u00edt. A taky mi dal mo\u017enost potk\u00e1vat b\u00e1je\u010dn\u00e9 lidi, kte\u0159\u00ed se kolem voz\u00ed\u010dk\u00e1\u0159\u016f i v na\u0161ich \u0159ad\u00e1ch pohybuj\u00ed.&#8220;<\/p>\n<p>2. p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh Andrea Parisov\u00e1 si p\u0159e\u010dtete v \u010dasopise Claudia ve vyd\u00e1n\u00ed z tohoto t\u00fddne.<\/p>\n<p>P\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u00ed t\u00fdden:<\/p>\n<p>Pov\u00edd\u00e1n\u00ed s p\u011bvkyn\u00ed Al\u017eb\u011btou Pol\u00e1\u010dkovou<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh Tereza Markov\u00e1. Narodila se jako zdrav\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b. Pak ji ale ve 14 letech zas\u00e1hl z\u00e1n\u011bt m\u00edchy, kter\u00fd se spustil asi kv\u016fli infekci boreli\u00f3zou. 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