{"id":32057,"date":"2019-08-12T20:32:03","date_gmt":"2019-08-12T18:32:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=32057"},"modified":"2019-08-12T20:35:01","modified_gmt":"2019-08-12T18:35:01","slug":"otec-je-alkoholik-nevime-co-delat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=32057","title":{"rendered":"Otec je alkoholik. Nev\u00edme co d\u011blat."},"content":{"rendered":"

DOTAZ: Otec pije hodn\u011b alkohol a jeho chov\u00e1n\u00ed n\u00e1m u\u017e p\u0159ijde dost nebezpe\u010dn\u00e9. Kdy\u017e nepije, tak je to lep\u0161\u00ed, ale on pije t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 ka\u017ed\u00fd den. Obvi\u0148uje matku z toho, \u017ee je mu nev\u011brn\u00e1. Jednou m\u00e1 deprese, pak je vylo\u017een\u011b zl\u00fd ke sv\u00e9mu okol\u00ed. Kdy\u017e mu matka \u0159ekne, \u017ee je nemocn\u00fd a m\u011bl by se j\u00edt l\u00e9\u010dit, tak obvin\u00ed ji, \u017ee to ona je nemocn\u00e1. A dnes to vygradovalo a matka dostala k narozenin\u00e1m kulku. Sebral se a odjel, cht\u011bli jsme u\u017e s bratrem volat 158, ale matka necht\u011bla. Nev\u00edme co d\u011blat. Mamka ho br\u00e1n\u00ed. M\u00e1me je\u0161t\u011b mal\u00e9ho bratra a boj\u00edme se o n\u011b.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Odpov\u011b\u010f:<\/p>\n

Alkohol je zr\u00e1dn\u00e1 droga z toho d\u016fvodu, \u017ee z\u00e1vislost na n\u00ed p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed pl\u00ed\u017eiv\u011b. Z\u00e1vislost na alkoholu se postupn\u011b zvy\u0161uje a ruku v ruce s t\u00edmto v\u00fdvojem se zhor\u0161uj\u00ed i psychick\u00e9 probl\u00e9my a chov\u00e1n\u00ed z\u00e1visl\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka.<\/p>\n

Z\u00e1vislost\u00ed na alkoholu je posti\u017een\u00e1 cel\u00e1 rodina. Z\u00e1vislost na alkoholu b\u00fdv\u00e1 \u010dasto prov\u00e1zena n\u00e1sil\u00edm mezi partnery. Dom\u00e1c\u00ed n\u00e1sil\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt fyzick\u00e9 i psychick\u00e9. Intenzita incident\u016f se zpravidla s postupem \u010dasu stup\u0148uje a u ob\u011bti vede ke ztr\u00e1t\u011b schopnost\u00ed v\u010das zastavit tyto incidenty a efektivn\u011b \u0159e\u0161it naru\u0161en\u00fd vztah.<\/p>\n

Nev\u00edme, zda probl\u00e9my otce nejsou podm\u00edn\u011bny nap\u0159\u00edklad sv\u00edzelnou finan\u010dn\u00ed situac\u00ed, st\u00edsn\u011bn\u00fdmi bytov\u00fdmi prostory, omezov\u00e1n\u00edm v pr\u00e1ci \u010di jin\u00fdmi stresov\u00fdmi z\u00e1le\u017eitostmi, kter\u00e9 otec \u0159e\u0161\u00ed \u00fanikem k alkoholu. Tyto probl\u00e9my spojen\u00e9 s pit\u00edm alkoholu se mohou p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b zvrhnout v agresi. Rodina se pot\u00e9 jev\u00ed jako prost\u0159ed\u00ed, kde agresor m\u016f\u017ee sv\u016fj p\u0159etlak t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 beztrestn\u011b vyb\u00edt. Konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed spou\u0161t\u011b\u010de agrese mohou b\u00fdt r\u016fzn\u00e9. Jeden z nej\u010dast\u011bj\u0161\u00edch motiv\u016f b\u00fdv\u00e1 pot\u0159eba moci, kontroly druh\u00e9ho partnera.<\/p>\n

V\u00fdhodou je, kdy\u017e je jedinec, kter\u00fd je ob\u011bt\u00ed psychick\u00e9ho \u010di dokonce fyzick\u00e9ho n\u00e1sil\u00ed partnera z\u00e1visl\u00e9ho na alkoholu, podporov\u00e1n svou prim\u00e1rn\u00ed rodinou a p\u0159\u00e1teli. Soci\u00e1ln\u00ed podpora m\u016f\u017ee poskytnout ob\u011bti finan\u010dn\u00ed podporu, p\u0159echodnou mo\u017enost bydlen\u00ed a hlavn\u011b psychickou podporu.<\/p>\n

V t\u00e9to souvislosti lze p\u0159ipomenout, \u017ee tyto situace m\u016f\u017ee do ur\u010dit\u00e9 m\u00edry \u0159e\u0161it legislativa, konkr\u00e9tn\u011b z\u00e1kon \u010d. 135 ze dne 14. b\u0159ezna 2006, kter\u00fdm se m\u011bn\u00ed n\u011bkter\u00e9 z\u00e1kony v oblasti ochrany p\u0159ed dom\u00e1c\u00edm n\u00e1sil\u00edm.<\/p>\n

Obecn\u011b plat\u00ed, \u017ee ti, kdo jsou ob\u011b\u0165mi dom\u00e1c\u00edho n\u00e1sil\u00ed i\u00a0jeho pachateli, by se m\u011bli vyh\u00fdbat alkoholu. Jestli\u017ee toho nejsou schopni, m\u011bli by vyhledat specializovanou protialkoholn\u00ed l\u00e9\u010dbu. L\u00e9ka\u0159i, psychologov\u00e9 a dal\u0161\u00ed pracovn\u00edci pom\u00e1haj\u00edc\u00edch profes\u00ed by m\u011bli um\u011bt dob\u0159e rozpozn\u00e1vat probl\u00e9my p\u016fsoben\u00e9 alkoholem a \u00fa\u010dinn\u011b intervenovat (nap\u0159. formou kr\u00e1tk\u00e9 intervence nebo pacienta p\u0159edat k\u00a0soub\u011b\u017en\u00e9 l\u00e9\u010db\u011b pro alkoholov\u00fd probl\u00e9m). Jestli\u017ee pachatel opakovan\u00e9ho dom\u00e1c\u00edho n\u00e1sil\u00ed odm\u00edt\u00e1 zd\u016fvodn\u011bn\u00e1 doporu\u010den\u00ed se protialkoholn\u011b l\u00e9\u010dit, m\u011bl by takov\u00e9 l\u00e9\u010den\u00ed (nej\u010dast\u011bji ambulantn\u00ed formou) na\u0159\u00eddit soud.<\/p>\n

Ka\u017ed\u00fd p\u0159\u00edpad alkoholismu a mo\u017en\u00e9ho dom\u00e1c\u00edho n\u00e1sil\u00ed je odli\u0161n\u00fd a vy\u017eaduje modifikovan\u00fd p\u0159\u00edstup a \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed. Je t\u0159eba zjistit \u0159adu faktor\u016f, kter\u00e9 vedou k situaci v rodin\u011b tak, jak ji popisujete, a psychologicky pomoci jak na alkoholu z\u00e1visl\u00e9mu otci, tak i matce, kter\u00e1 situaci z\u0159ejm\u011b podce\u0148uje a ne\u0159e\u0161\u00ed ji, co\u017e je u partner\u016f, kte\u0159\u00ed se ocitaj\u00ed v roli ob\u011bt\u00ed, velmi \u010dast\u00e9, ne-li obvykl\u00e9.<\/p>\n

Jak\u00e9 jsou tedy va\u0161e mo\u017enosti pomoci?<\/strong><\/p>\n

D\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 je pro ob\u011b\u0165 n\u00e1sil\u00ed, a\u0165 u\u017e fyzick\u00e9ho nebo psychick\u00e9ho, zajistit bezpe\u010d\u00ed a poskytnout psychologickou, soci\u00e1ln\u00ed pomoc a legislativn\u00ed poradenstv\u00ed v r\u00e1mci krizov\u00e9 intervence. Doporu\u010duji proto se obr\u00e1tit na n\u011bkter\u00e9 z m\u00edstn\u00edch center, kde byste problematiku m\u011bli konzultovat s p\u0159\u00edslu\u0161n\u00fdmi specializovan\u00fdmi odborn\u00edky.<\/p>\n

Centra, kter\u00e1 zaji\u0161\u0165uj\u00ed krizovou intervenci jsou n\u00e1sleduj\u00edc\u00ed:
\nI. man\u017eelsk\u00e9 poradny – linky d\u016fv\u011bry, linky bezpe\u010d\u00ed – st\u0159ediska soci\u00e1ln\u00ed pomoci
\nII. krizov\u00e1 centra – specializovan\u00e1 centra, kam se ob\u011bti dom\u00e1c\u00edho n\u00e1sil\u00ed mohou obr\u00e1tit:
\n– ROSA centrum pro \u017eeny – ob\u011bti dom\u00e1c\u00edho n\u00e1sil\u00ed
\n– BKB \u2013 B\u00edl\u00fd kruh bezpe\u010d\u00ed
\n– ACORUS \u2013 ob\u010dansk\u00e9 sdru\u017een\u00ed, nab\u00edzej\u00edc\u00ed pomoc osob\u00e1m ohro\u017een\u00fdm dom\u00e1c\u00edm n\u00e1sil\u00edm
\n– proFEM (project AdvoCats for Women)
\n\u2013 konzulta\u010dn\u00ed st\u0159edisko pro \u017eensk\u00e9 projekty
\n– Gender studies, o.p.s.
\n– Ekologick\u00fd pr\u00e1vn\u00ed servis, poradna pro \u017eeny v t\u00edsni Brno
\n– Poradna ELPIS Slezsk\u00e9 diakonie
\n– Poradna pro ob\u011bti n\u00e1sil\u00ed, t\u00fdr\u00e1n\u00ed a zneu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed
\n– Azylov\u00e9 domy, domy pro matky v t\u00edsni (www.bkb.cz).<\/p>\n

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DOTAZ: Otec pije hodn\u011b alkohol a jeho chov\u00e1n\u00ed n\u00e1m u\u017e p\u0159ijde dost nebezpe\u010dn\u00e9. Kdy\u017e nepije, tak je to lep\u0161\u00ed, ale on pije t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 ka\u017ed\u00fd den. […]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1419,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32057","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-poradna"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32057","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=32057"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32057\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1419"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=32057"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=32057"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=32057"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}