{"id":34430,"date":"2020-05-21T17:22:42","date_gmt":"2020-05-21T15:22:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=34430"},"modified":"2020-05-21T17:22:44","modified_gmt":"2020-05-21T15:22:44","slug":"hendikepovanym-pomaha-najit-partnera-specialni-seznamka","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=34430","title":{"rendered":"Hendikepovan\u00fdm pom\u00e1h\u00e1 naj\u00edt partnera speci\u00e1ln\u00ed seznamka"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Ide\u00e1ln\u00ed p\u00e1ry pom\u00e1h\u00e1 naj\u00edt slu\u017eba s pomoc\u00ed algoritm\u016f. Hled\u00e1 se shoda v n\u011bkolika \u00farovn\u00edch vlastnost\u00ed, p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b \u017eivotn\u00edch o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. <br><br>&#8222;S Michalem Sn\u011bhotou se osud nep\u00e1ral. Narodil se toti\u017e s d\u011btskou mozkovou obrnou a ve sv\u00fdch 31 letech je \u010d\u00e1ste\u010dn\u011b odk\u00e1z\u00e1n na invalidn\u00ed voz\u00edk. Stejn\u011b jako mnoho jin\u00fdch lid\u00ed s fyzick\u00fdm hendikepem pro\u017eil n\u011bkolik let dosp\u011bl\u00e9ho \u017eivota jako &#8222;singl&#8220;. Obavy z odm\u00edtnut\u00ed b\u00fdvaj\u00ed u lid\u00ed, jako je on, zkr\u00e1tka siln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e u &#8222;b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 populace&#8220;. <br><br>Z\u00e1sadn\u00ed zm\u011bna v Michalov\u011b \u017eivot\u011b nastala p\u0159ed t\u0159emi roky, kdy potkal svou nyn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed man\u017eelku. Shodou okolnost\u00ed to bylo v dob\u011b, kdy pom\u00e1hal &#8222;v rozjezdu&#8220; internetov\u00e9 seznamce, kter\u00e1 lidem s hendikepem zjednodu\u0161uje hled\u00e1n\u00ed \u017eivotn\u00edho partnera.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Za t\u0159i roky n\u011bkolik stovek p\u00e1r\u016f<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8222;Poznali jsem se na spole\u010densk\u00e9 akci pro cizince. N\u00e1\u0161 vznikaj\u00edc\u00ed seznamovac\u00ed port\u00e1l TvojeL\u00e1ska.cz na za\u010d\u00e1tku vztahu sehr\u00e1l d\u016fle\u017eitou roli, proto\u017ee jsem musel jeho p\u0159\u00edprav\u011b v\u011bnovat spoustu \u010dasu t\u011bsn\u011b p\u0159ed spu\u0161t\u011bn\u00edm a m\u00e9 \u017een\u011b imponoval m\u016fj z\u00e1jem o \u017eivoty dal\u0161\u00edch hendikepovan\u00fdch,&#8220; vzpom\u00edn\u00e1 Sn\u011bhota, kter\u00fd dnes bezplatn\u00e9 aplikaci Tvoje l\u00e1ska \u0161\u00e9fuje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Neziskov\u00fd projekt, orientovan\u00fd na znev\u00fdhodn\u011bn\u00e9 jedince, vyu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 z\u00e1zem\u00ed a postupy paraleln\u011b funguj\u00edc\u00ed placen\u00e9 slu\u017eby, jej\u00ed\u017e sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed jsou tak\u00e9 takzvan\u00ed vztahov\u00ed kou\u010di. <br><br>Za t\u0159i roky existence se na port\u00e1lu Tvoje l\u00e1ska registrovalo v\u00edce ne\u017e dva tis\u00edce u\u017eivatel\u016f, nejv\u00edc v hlavn\u00edm m\u011bst\u011b a St\u0159edo\u010desk\u00e9m kraji. Podle provozovatel\u016f u\u017e z nich vze\u0161lo n\u011bkolik stovek p\u00e1r\u016f. Ty tvo\u0159\u00ed bu\u010f dva jedinci s hendikepem, nebo jeden &#8222;zdrav\u00fd&#8220; a druh\u00fd hendikepovan\u00fd, co\u017e je tak\u00e9 Michal\u016fv p\u0159\u00edpad. Men\u0161\u00ed \u010d\u00e1st dvojic pak p\u0159edstavuj\u00ed dlouhodob\u00e1 &#8222;internetov\u00e1&#8220; p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed bez intimn\u00edch vazeb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oba projekty, jak ten komer\u010dn\u00ed, tak nekomer\u010dn\u00ed, vymyslel a zalo\u017eil matematik Jakub Mertl se svou man\u017eelkou Krist\u00fdnou, b\u00fdvalou poslankyn\u00ed V\u011bc\u00ed ve\u0159ejn\u00fdch. I oni se p\u0159ed lety poznali skrze internetovou seznamku a n\u00e1sledn\u011b zalo\u017eili seznamovac\u00ed agenturu &#8222;pro n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9&#8220;, kter\u00e1 funguje na b\u00e1zi &#8222;individu\u00e1ln\u00edho p\u0159\u00edstupu&#8220;. <br><br>Podstatou p\u00e1rovac\u00edch algoritm\u016f je porovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed osmi \u00farovn\u00ed, v nich\u017e syst\u00e9m hled\u00e1 partnery s podobn\u00fdmi vlastnostmi. Konkr\u00e9tn\u011b jde t\u0159eba o povahu, p\u0159edstavu o budoucnosti nebo o ide\u00e1ln\u00edm prot\u011bj\u0161ku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Rozhoduj\u00ed pl\u00e1ny ohledn\u011b d\u011bt\u00ed<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8222;Statisticky v\u00edme, \u017ee nejpodstatn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, zejm\u00e9na u mlad\u0161\u00ed v\u011bkov\u00e9 skupiny, je kategorie pohledu na rodinu a d\u011bti. Pokud se dva lid\u00e9 neshodnou v tom, jestli se sna\u017eit nebo nesna\u017eit o d\u00edt\u011b, tak to zcela p\u0159eb\u00edj\u00ed t\u0159eba dokonalou shodu v kon\u00ed\u010dc\u00edch,&#8220; vysv\u011btluje Mertl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>V\u011bt\u0161ina lid\u00ed s fyzick\u00fdm posti\u017een\u00edm \u00fadajn\u011b usiluje o partnera zdrav\u00e9ho nebo alespo\u0148 s jin\u00fdm typem hendikepu. &#8222;Je logick\u00e9, \u017ee \u010dlov\u011bk kter\u00fd nevid\u00ed, preferuje prot\u011bj\u0161ek, kter\u00fd zrakov\u00e9 probl\u00e9my nem\u00e1. Naopak lid\u00e9 s psychick\u00fdmi obt\u00ed\u017eemi up\u0159ednost\u0148uj\u00ed partnera s podobnou zku\u0161enost\u00ed, proto\u017ee mnohem l\u00e9pe rozum\u00ed jejich pot\u0159eb\u00e1m, limit\u016fm a nastaven\u00ed,&#8220; objas\u0148uje Mertlov\u00e1. <br><br>Michal Sn\u011bhota slova majitelky TvojeL\u00e1ska.cz Krist\u00fdny Mertlov\u00e9 potvrzuje a dopl\u0148uje. &#8222;U nesly\u0161\u00edc\u00edch je velk\u00e1 pravd\u011bpodobnost, \u017ee si vyberou partnera s podobn\u00fdm posti\u017een\u00edm u\u017e jen kv\u016fli ovl\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed znakov\u00e9ho jazyka,&#8220; argumentuje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8222;Osobn\u011b si nedok\u00e1\u017eu p\u0159edstavit sou\u017eit\u00ed nevidom\u00e9ho s voz\u00ed\u010dk\u00e1\u0159em. Netvrd\u00edm, \u017ee to nen\u00ed mo\u017en\u00e9, ale mysl\u00edm si, \u017ee jednodu\u0161\u0161\u00ed bude v\u017edy jejich \u017eivot se zdrav\u00fdm \u010dlov\u011bkem, kter\u00fd m\u016f\u017ee v obt\u00ed\u017en\u00fdch situac\u00edch pomoci.&#8220;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Po\u010det p\u00e1r\u016f? Mal\u00fd r\u00e9bus<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Odhadnout pom\u011br hendikepovan\u00fdch, kte\u0159\u00ed \u017eij\u00ed v p\u00e1ru, je podle n\u011bj tak\u00e9 nesnadn\u00e9. V\u017edy toti\u017e z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na typu a stupni posti\u017een\u00ed. &#8222;Nap\u0159\u00edklad u\u017e zm\u00edn\u011bn\u00ed nesly\u0161\u00edc\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed maj\u00ed vlastn\u00ed komunitu, na tom budou podle m\u00e9ho n\u00e1zoru podobn\u011b jako zdrav\u00ed lid\u00e9,&#8220; spekuluje Sn\u011bhota. &#8222;Jen maj\u00ed men\u0161\u00ed okruh osob, se kter\u00fdmi se m\u016f\u017eou sezn\u00e1mit,&#8220; dod\u00e1v\u00e1 k ot\u00e1zce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160\u00e9f aplikace Tvoje l\u00e1ska pova\u017euje \u017eivot v p\u00e1ru pro n\u011bkter\u00e9 t\u011b\u017ece posti\u017een\u00e9 s velkou z\u00e1vislost\u00ed na pomoci druh\u00fdch za t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 nemo\u017en\u00fd. &#8222;Toto jsou ov\u0161em jen dva r\u016fzn\u00e9 p\u00f3ly z velk\u00e9 skupiny mo\u017enost\u00ed, kter\u00e1 v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b hendikepovan\u00fdch m\u016f\u017ee tak\u00e9 nastat,&#8220; uzav\u00edr\u00e1 t\u00e9ma Sn\u011bhota.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jan Proke\u0161<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pra\u017esk\u00fd den\u00edk<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\" (otev\u0159e se na nov\u00e9 z\u00e1lo\u017ece)\" href=\"https:\/\/prazsky.denik.cz\/\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/prazsky.denik.cz\/<\/a><br><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>Ide\u00e1ln\u00ed p\u00e1ry pom\u00e1h\u00e1 naj\u00edt slu\u017eba s pomoc\u00ed algoritm\u016f. Hled\u00e1 se shoda v n\u011bkolika \u00farovn\u00edch vlastnost\u00ed, p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b \u017eivotn\u00edch o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. &#8222;S Michalem Sn\u011bhotou se osud nep\u00e1ral. 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