V \u010cesk\u00e9 republice \u017eije dle \u00fadaj\u016f \u010cS\u00da p\u0159ibli\u017en\u011b 117 tis\u00edc d\u011bt\u00ed do 14 let se zdravotn\u00edm posti\u017een\u00edm a 80 % z nich m\u00e1 alespo\u0148 jednoho sourozence. Tento vztah je ozna\u010dov\u00e1n jako speci\u00e1ln\u00ed sourozenectv\u00ed.
Narozen\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte s posti\u017een\u00edm p\u0159edstavuje pro rodinu \u010dasto ne\u010dekanou a nezn\u00e1mou situaci. Mnoz\u00ed auto\u0159i popisuj\u00ed f\u00e1ze, jimi\u017e si rodi\u010de po odhalen\u00ed posti\u017een\u00ed jejich d\u00edt\u011bte \u010dasto proch\u00e1zej\u00ed, od \u0161oku p\u0159es hled\u00e1n\u00ed vin\u00edka ide\u00e1ln\u011b k p\u0159ijet\u00ed reality a sm\u00ed\u0159en\u00ed se s n\u00ed. Mnohdy se ale zapom\u00edn\u00e1, \u017ee podobn\u00fdmi f\u00e1zemi mohou proch\u00e1zet i dal\u0161\u00ed \u010dlenov\u00e9 rodiny, tedy i sourozenci d\u00edt\u011bte. A i oni se mohou pot\u00fdkat s podobn\u00fdmi radostmi, ale i t\u011b\u017ekostmi jako jejich rodi\u010de. P\u0159esto speci\u00e1ln\u00ed sourozenci v \u010cesk\u00e9 republice st\u00e1le stoj\u00ed na okraji syst\u00e9mu podpory a je jim v\u011bnovan\u00e1 zat\u00edm pouze mal\u00e1 pozornost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Speci\u00e1ln\u00ed sourozenectv\u00ed<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I mezi rodi\u010di na\u0161ich klient\u016f se objevuj\u00ed ot\u00e1zky, jak mohou podpo\u0159it sourozence sv\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte s posti\u017een\u00edm, jak mezi d\u011bti spr\u00e1vn\u011b rozd\u011blit pozornost, jak s nimi \u0159e\u0161it n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 emoce, kter\u00e9 rodinn\u00e1 situace \u010dasto p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed. T\u00edmto p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvkem bychom r\u00e1di pootev\u0159eli dve\u0159e k t\u00e9matu speci\u00e1ln\u00edho sourozenectv\u00ed a p\u0159inesli o n\u011bm p\u00e1r z\u00e1kladn\u00edch informac\u00ed.
V\u017edy je v\u0161ak pot\u0159eba myslet na to, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s je individu\u00e1ln\u00ed bytost s jedine\u010dn\u00fdmi pot\u0159ebami, tvo\u0159\u00edme jedine\u010dn\u00e9 rodinn\u00e9 syst\u00e9my, z nich\u017e ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u016f\u017ee pot\u0159ebovat n\u011bco trochu jin\u00e9ho. Nic tedy nen\u00ed stoprocentn\u011b platn\u00e9 pro ka\u017ed\u00e9ho, ale snad zde ka\u017ed\u00fd najde alespo\u0148 \u0161petku inspirace. Pro n\u00e1s byla velkou inspirac\u00ed kniha Speci\u00e1ln\u00ed sourozenci: \u017eivot se sourozencem s posti\u017een\u00edm od Davida Havelky a Kate\u0159iny Barto\u0161ov\u00e9, z n\u00ed\u017e tento p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvek do zna\u010dn\u00e9 m\u00edry vych\u00e1z\u00ed a kterou v\u00e1m v\u0161em velmi doporu\u010dujeme.
P\u00e9\u010de o d\u00edt\u011b s posti\u017een\u00edm a jeho v\u00fdchova je nez\u0159\u00eddka v mnoha ohledech n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e u d\u00edt\u011bte bez posti\u017een\u00ed. Tato skute\u010dnost se v\u017edy odraz\u00ed v celkov\u00e9m fungov\u00e1n\u00ed rodiny a m\u016f\u017ee se zd\u00e1t, \u017ee nen\u00ed \u010das a energie na spole\u010dn\u00e9 rodinn\u00e9 chv\u00edle a \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed p\u0159\u00edpadn\u00fdch pot\u00ed\u017e\u00ed. Soudr\u017enost rodiny je ale velmi d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1 pro pohodu v\u0161ech jej\u00edch \u010dlen\u016f. Nav\u00edc sourozeneck\u00fd vztah je nejd\u00e9le trvaj\u00edc\u00edm vztahem v lidsk\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b, sourozenci se podporuj\u00ed ve v\u00fdvoji, u\u010d\u00ed se spolu soci\u00e1ln\u00edm interakc\u00edm a jejich vztah je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fd ve v\u0161ech f\u00e1z\u00edch jejich \u017eivot\u016f.
Co tedy m\u016f\u017eete d\u011blat?
Nezapom\u00ednejte na sebe! To v\u00e1m klademe na srdce, ne\u017e se pust\u00edte do pro\u010d\u00edt\u00e1n\u00ed dlouh\u00e9ho seznamu doporu\u010den\u00ed. Mezi v\u0161emi povinnostmi si nikdy nezapom\u00ednejte hledat \u010das pro sebe. Sv\u00fdm d\u011btem budete moct v\u011bnovat tu nejlep\u0161\u00ed p\u00e9\u010di jedin\u011b tehdy, kdy\u017e vy sami budete spokojen\u00ed a odpo\u010dat\u00ed. Je norm\u00e1ln\u00ed d\u011blat chyby a neb\u00fdt v\u017edy za ka\u017edou cenu superrodi\u010dem!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u011bnujte si navz\u00e1jem \u010das<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pokuste se alespo\u0148 n\u011bkdy nap\u0159. spole\u010dn\u011b j\u00edst a v\u011bnovat si u j\u00eddla pozornost.
Hledejte v denn\u00edm re\u017eimu chvilky, kter\u00e9 tr\u00e1v\u00edte spole\u010dn\u011b<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u016f\u017ee se jednat o mali\u010dkosti, jako je cesta do \u0161koly nebo spole\u010dn\u00e9 \u010di\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed zub\u016f. Vyu\u017eijte tyto chv\u00edle k tomu, v\u011bnovat si vz\u00e1jemn\u011b pozornost, mluvit spolu. M\u016f\u017eete si tak\u00e9 t\u0159eba napsat vzkaz na ledni\u010dku nebo do ta\u0161ky, kter\u00fdm druh\u00e9ho pot\u011b\u0161\u00edte.
Pokuste se vymezit \u010das, kter\u00fd budete v\u011bnovat pouze sourozenci bez posti\u017een\u00ed<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Zpo\u010d\u00e1tku se m\u016f\u017ee jednat t\u0159eba o hodinu, zkr\u00e1tka o takov\u00fd \u010dasov\u00fd \u00fasek, jak\u00fd pro v\u00e1s bude \u00fanosn\u00fd. M\u016f\u017ee pomoci si ho s d\u00edt\u011btem pojmenovat (nap\u0159. hol\u010di\u010d\u00ed odpoledne, p\u00e1nsk\u00e1 j\u00edzda). Ide\u00e1ln\u00ed je, kdy\u017e jsou tyto akce pravideln\u00e9. Vysv\u011btlete d\u011btem, \u017ee to, \u017ee jejich sourozenec s posti\u017een\u00edm vy\u017eaduje v\u00edce va\u0161eho \u010dasu, neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee n\u011bkoho z nich m\u00e1te m\u00e9n\u011b r\u00e1di.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pod\u00edvejte se vido z Komunitn\u00edho centra Mot\u00fdlek s Kl\u00e1rou \u0160edou a Janem Urbanem.
Zkuste za\u0159adit rodinn\u00e9 akce<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I kdybyste je m\u011bli zvl\u00e1dnout jednou za m\u011bs\u00edc nebo za p\u016fl roku.
Podporujte sv\u00e9 d\u011bti v krou\u017ec\u00edch a mimo\u0161koln\u00edch aktivit\u00e1ch<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tam, kde m\u016f\u017eou tr\u00e1vit \u010das nez\u00e1visle na sourozenci. Pokuste se takov\u00e9 aktivity naj\u00edt i pro sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b s posti\u017een\u00edm. I ono pot\u0159ebuje kamar\u00e1dy.
Pokuste se naj\u00edt komunitu rodin v podobn\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed situaci<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u016f\u017eete u nich naj\u00edt oporu vy i v\u0161echny va\u0161e d\u011bti.
Ve\u010fte sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b s posti\u017een\u00edm k co nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed samostatnosti<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s ve sv\u00e9m v\u00fdvoji musel podstoupit ur\u010dit\u00e1 rizika a pot\u0159ebuje to i va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b s posti\u017een\u00edm. Nechte sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b zkou\u0161et nov\u00e9 v\u011bci, zapojovat se do b\u011b\u017en\u00fdch \u010dinnost\u00ed. U\u010dte jeho sourozence, aby mu um\u011bli d\u00e1t adekv\u00e1tn\u00ed podporu (t\u0159eba jen dopomoci fyzicky nebo slovn\u011b).
Kl\u00e1ra \u0160ed\u00e1<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pra\u017esk\u00fd den\u00edk<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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