{"id":35962,"date":"2021-03-15T16:47:36","date_gmt":"2021-03-15T15:47:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=35962"},"modified":"2021-03-15T16:47:37","modified_gmt":"2021-03-15T15:47:37","slug":"specialni-sourozenci-2-dil-pomoc-a-komunikace","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=35962","title":{"rendered":"Speci\u00e1ln\u00ed sourozenci &#8211; 2. d\u00edl: Pomoc a komunikace"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>V \u010cesk\u00e9 republice \u017eije dle \u00fadaj\u016f \u010cS\u00da p\u0159ibli\u017en\u011b 117 tis\u00edc\nd\u011bt\u00ed do 14 let se zdravotn\u00edm posti\u017een\u00edm a 80 % z nich m\u00e1 alespo\u0148 jednoho\nsourozence. Tento vztah je ozna\u010dov\u00e1n jako speci\u00e1ln\u00ed sourozenectv\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Narozen\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte s posti\u017een\u00edm p\u0159edstavuje pro rodinu \u010dasto\nne\u010dekanou a nezn\u00e1mou situaci. Mnoz\u00ed auto\u0159i popisuj\u00ed f\u00e1ze, jimi\u017e si rodi\u010de po\nodhalen\u00ed posti\u017een\u00ed jejich d\u00edt\u011bte \u010dasto proch\u00e1zej\u00ed, od \u0161oku p\u0159es hled\u00e1n\u00ed vin\u00edka\nide\u00e1ln\u011b k p\u0159ijet\u00ed reality a sm\u00ed\u0159en\u00ed se s n\u00ed. Mnohdy se ale zapom\u00edn\u00e1, \u017ee\npodobn\u00fdmi f\u00e1zemi mohou proch\u00e1zet i dal\u0161\u00ed \u010dlenov\u00e9 rodiny, tedy i sourozenci\nd\u00edt\u011bte. A i oni se mohou pot\u00fdkat s podobn\u00fdmi radostmi, ale i t\u011b\u017ekostmi jako\njejich rodi\u010de. P\u0159esto speci\u00e1ln\u00ed sourozenci v \u010cesk\u00e9 republice st\u00e1le stoj\u00ed na\nokraji syst\u00e9mu podpory a je jim v\u011bnovan\u00e1 zat\u00edm pouze mal\u00e1 pozornost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dom\u00e1c\u00ed povinnosti a vz\u00e1jemn\u00e1 pomoc<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>D\u00e1vejte povinnosti v\u0161em sv\u00fdm d\u011btem. Pokuste se ka\u017ed\u00e9mu z d\u011bt\u00ed naj\u00edt n\u011bco, s \u010d\u00edm m\u016f\u017ee v dom\u00e1cnosti pom\u00e1hat, pojmenujte to povinnost\u00ed. Mluvte s d\u011btmi o tom, \u017ee povinnost m\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00e9 z nich. Nebojte se nechat sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b s posti\u017een\u00edm zkou\u0161et nov\u00e9 v\u011bci, \u010dasto je mnohem schopn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e si jeho okol\u00ed mysl\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pokud va\u0161im d\u011btem povinnosti p\u0159ipadaj\u00ed nerovnom\u011brn\u011b rozlo\u017een\u00e9, zkuste jim skute\u010dnost vysv\u011btlit na metafor\u00e1ch a p\u0159\u00edkladech.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nebojte se zapojit sv\u00e9 d\u011bti bez posti\u017een\u00ed do p\u00e9\u010de o\nsourozence s posti\u017een\u00edm. Dbejte v\u0161ak na to, aby p\u00e9\u010de nebyla p\u0159ehnan\u00e1. Aby d\u00edt\u011b\nbez posti\u017een\u00ed nep\u0159et\u00ed\u017eila a aby d\u00edt\u011bti s posti\u017en\u00edm nebr\u00e1nila v rozvoji. Pokuste\nse m\u00edru zapojen\u00ed do p\u00e9\u010de o sourozence p\u0159izp\u016fsobit fungov\u00e1n\u00ed sourozenc\u016f bez\nposti\u017een\u00ed. P\u0159ipom\u00ednejte sv\u00fdm d\u011btem, \u017ee nadm\u011brn\u00e1 podpora jejich sourozence nen\u00ed\njejich povinnost\u00ed. Nezapome\u0148te jim za pomoc pod\u011bkovat. Velkou pomoc\u00ed je i\nvz\u00e1jemn\u00e1 hra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hledejte, v \u010dem by va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b s posti\u017een\u00edm mohlo naopak\npom\u00e1hat sv\u00fdm sourozenc\u016fm. U\u010dte sv\u00e9 d\u011bti, \u017ee pomoc a podpora mohou b\u00fdt vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Komunikace<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hledejte informace o posti\u017een\u00ed a p\u0159ed\u00e1vejte je sv\u00fdm d\u011btem. Pro va\u0161e d\u011bti je od ran\u00e9ho v\u011bku d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, aby rozum\u011bly posti\u017een\u00ed sv\u00e9ho bratra nebo sestry, aby pokud mo\u017eno znaly jeho p\u0159\u00ed\u010dinu, v\u011bd\u011bly, \u017ee posti\u017een\u00ed nen\u00ed naka\u017eliv\u00e9, ch\u00e1paly, jak\u00e1 sourozenci p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed omezen\u00ed, zda jde o stav nem\u011bnn\u00fd. Informace v\u017edy musej\u00ed b\u00fdt p\u0159izp\u016fsoben\u00e9 v\u011bku d\u00edt\u011bte. M\u016f\u017eete tak\u00e9 mluvit obecn\u011b o jinakosti, o tom, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s m\u00e1 n\u011bjak\u00e9 omezen\u00ed. Nezapom\u00ednejte zm\u00ednit siln\u00e9 str\u00e1nky d\u00edt\u011bte s posti\u017een\u00edm a to, co m\u016f\u017ee rodin\u011b p\u0159in\u00e9st.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Podporujte sv\u00e9 d\u011bti v tom, aby se neb\u00e1ly kdykoli na cokoli zeptat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>K vysv\u011btlen\u00ed v\u00e1m mohou pomoci metafory, kn\u00ed\u017eky, obr\u00e1zky, filmy apod. Bu\u010fte ale opatrn\u00ed na d\u011btskou fantazii. D\u011bti si mohou pod Va\u0161\u00edm vypr\u00e1v\u011bn\u00edm p\u0159edstavit n\u011bco jin\u00e9ho, ne\u017e m\u00e1te na mysli. Mluvte i o tom, jak va\u0161e sd\u011blen\u00ed pochopily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pomozte sv\u00e9mu d\u00edt\u011bti bez posti\u017een\u00ed, aby um\u011blo vysv\u011btlit posti\u017een\u00ed sv\u00e9ho bratra nebo sestry. M\u016f\u017ee se dostat do situace, kdy se ho bude n\u011bkdo pt\u00e1t, a t\u00edmto mu pom\u016f\u017eete zbavit se studu a obav.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pokuste se naj\u00edt odleh\u010den\u00ed v rodin\u011b. Vysv\u011btlete sv\u00fdm p\u0159\u00edbuzn\u00fdm svou situaci, nebojte se po\u017e\u00e1dat o pomoc (nejhor\u0161\u00ed, co se m\u016f\u017ee st\u00e1t, je, \u017ee ji nedostanete). M\u016f\u017eete tak\u00e9 vyu\u017e\u00edt podpory soci\u00e1ln\u00edch slu\u017eeb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mluvte se sv\u00fdmi d\u011btmi o budoucnosti. Jednou pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b nastane chv\u00edle, kdy na podporu potomka s posti\u017een\u00edm nebudou sta\u010dit rodi\u010de. Je nutn\u00e9 mluvit se v\u0161emi potomky o tom, jak si p\u0159edstavuj\u00ed budoucnost, jakou podporu by sv\u00e9mu bratrovi\/sest\u0159e s posti\u017een\u00edm byl ochotn\u00fd v\u011bnovat sourozenec. Zda o takovou podporu stoj\u00ed potomek s posti\u017een\u00edm. T\u00edm, \u017ee se o budoucnosti nebude v rodin\u011b mluvit, toto t\u00e9ma nezmiz\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kl\u00e1ra \u0160ed\u00e1<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pra\u017esk\u00fd den\u00edk<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\" (otev\u0159e se na nov\u00e9 z\u00e1lo\u017ece)\" href=\"https:\/\/prazsky.denik.cz\/\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/prazsky.denik.cz\/<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>V \u010cesk\u00e9 republice \u017eije dle \u00fadaj\u016f \u010cS\u00da p\u0159ibli\u017en\u011b 117 tis\u00edc d\u011bt\u00ed do 14 let se zdravotn\u00edm posti\u017een\u00edm a 80 % z nich m\u00e1 alespo\u0148 jednoho <a class=\"mh-excerpt-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=35962\" title=\"Speci\u00e1ln\u00ed sourozenci &#8211; 2. d\u00edl: Pomoc a komunikace\">[&#8230;]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":24870,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35962","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-zpravy"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35962","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=35962"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35962\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/24870"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=35962"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=35962"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=35962"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}