V \u010cesk\u00e9 republice \u017eije dle \u00fadaj\u016f \u010cS\u00da p\u0159ibli\u017en\u011b 117 tis\u00edc\nd\u011bt\u00ed do 14 let se zdravotn\u00edm posti\u017een\u00edm a 80 % z nich m\u00e1 alespo\u0148 jednoho\nsourozence. Tento vztah je ozna\u010dov\u00e1n jako speci\u00e1ln\u00ed sourozenectv\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Narozen\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte s posti\u017een\u00edm p\u0159edstavuje pro rodinu \u010dasto\nne\u010dekanou a nezn\u00e1mou situaci. Mnoz\u00ed auto\u0159i popisuj\u00ed f\u00e1ze, jimi\u017e si rodi\u010de po\nodhalen\u00ed posti\u017een\u00ed jejich d\u00edt\u011bte \u010dasto proch\u00e1zej\u00ed, od \u0161oku p\u0159es hled\u00e1n\u00ed vin\u00edka\nide\u00e1ln\u011b k p\u0159ijet\u00ed reality a sm\u00ed\u0159en\u00ed se s n\u00ed. Mnohdy se ale zapom\u00edn\u00e1, \u017ee\npodobn\u00fdmi f\u00e1zemi mohou proch\u00e1zet i dal\u0161\u00ed \u010dlenov\u00e9 rodiny, tedy i sourozenci\nd\u00edt\u011bte. A i oni se mohou pot\u00fdkat s podobn\u00fdmi radostmi, ale i t\u011b\u017ekostmi jako\njejich rodi\u010de. P\u0159esto speci\u00e1ln\u00ed sourozenci v \u010cesk\u00e9 republice st\u00e1le stoj\u00ed na\nokraji syst\u00e9mu podpory a je jim v\u011bnovan\u00e1 zat\u00edm pouze mal\u00e1 pozornost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Emoce, \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed probl\u00e9m\u016f a konflikt\u016f<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nebojte se projevovat sv\u00e9 emoce a mluvit o nich. I kdy\u017e se v\u00e1m m\u016f\u017ee zd\u00e1t, \u017ee sv\u00e9 d\u011bti ochr\u00e1n\u00edte, pokud p\u0159ed nimi budete skr\u00fdvat, \u017ee je pro v\u00e1s situace n\u011bkdy n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e1, efekt bude velmi pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b opa\u010dn\u00fd. Pro va\u0161e d\u011bti je mnohem d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed vid\u011bt, \u017ee v\u0161echny emoce jsou legitimn\u00ed, a nau\u010dit se, jak s nimi pracovat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
U\u010dte sv\u00e9 d\u011bti, \u017ee strach, vztek, stud apod. jsou v po\u0159\u00e1dku a \u017ee dobr\u00fd nebo \u0161patn\u00fd je jedin\u011b zp\u016fsob, jak s nimi nalo\u017e\u00edme. Podpo\u0159te sv\u00e9 d\u011bti v tom, jak s emocemi pracovat, jak je rozeznat, jak ze sebe bezpe\u010dn\u011b dostat vztek apod.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pokud nev\u00edte, jak za\u010d\u00edt o v\u011bcech mluvit, m\u016f\u017eete si v r\u00e1mci rodiny domluvit term\u00edn, kdy ur\u010ditou v\u011bc proberete. Nap\u0159. z\u00edtra po ve\u010de\u0159i bych si s tebou cht\u011bla v klidu promluvit o tom, jak zvl\u00e1d\u00e1\u0161, kdy\u017e tv\u016fj br\u00e1\u0161ka k\u0159i\u010d\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nevstupujte do b\u011b\u017en\u00fdch \u0161arv\u00e1tek mezi sv\u00fdmi d\u011btmi. Pot\u0159ebuje je za\u017e\u00edt i d\u00edt\u011b s posti\u017een\u00edm. K sourozeneck\u00e9mu vztahu prost\u011b pat\u0159\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Podpo\u0159te d\u011bti, aby si um\u011bly \u0159\u00edct p\u0159ijateln\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem o\npozornost, nap\u0159.: „Pot\u0159ebuji pochovat.“ nebo „Cht\u011bla bych si s\ntebou popov\u00eddat\u2026“<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pokud se objev\u00ed probl\u00e9my v chov\u00e1n\u00ed va\u0161ich d\u011bt\u00ed, sna\u017ete se v\u017edy\nhledat jejich p\u0159\u00ed\u010dinu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nebojte se vyhledat pomoc odborn\u00edka \u2013 a\u0165 u\u017e pro sebe nebo\npro sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b. Pokud vn\u00edm\u00e1te, \u017ee jste del\u0161\u00ed dobu v nepohod\u011b, nev\u00e1hejte se na\nn\u011bkoho obr\u00e1tit a po\u017e\u00e1dat o pomoc. Nen\u00ed to ostuda, naopak! Odborn\u00edk m\u00e1 od va\u0161\u00ed\nsituace v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed odstup a pom\u016f\u017ee v\u00e1m naj\u00edt nov\u00e9 \u00fahly pohledu. Pro va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b m\u016f\u017ee\nb\u00fdt n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 \u0159e\u0161it n\u011bkter\u00e9 v\u011bci s rodi\u010dem a p\u0159ed odborn\u00edkem m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt\notev\u0159en\u011bj\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Spokojen\u00fd rodi\u010d = spokojen\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A\u010dkoli je n\u00e1vrh\u016f a rad velk\u00e9 mno\u017estv\u00ed a v b\u011bhu ka\u017edodenn\u00edch dn\u016f se m\u016f\u017ee zd\u00e1t jejich pou\u017eit\u00ed nere\u00e1ln\u00e9, neztr\u00e1cejte nad\u011bji. V\u017edy je nejlep\u0161\u00ed za\u010d\u00ednat po mal\u00fdch kr\u016f\u010dc\u00edch. I mal\u00e9 zm\u011bny v p\u0159\u00edstupu mohou p\u0159in\u00e9st velk\u00e9 v\u011bci, a tak se nebojte za\u0159adit do sv\u00e9ho fungov\u00e1n\u00ed zprvu t\u0159eba jednu v\u011bc. M\u011bjte na pam\u011bti, \u017ee spokojen\u00fd rodi\u010d = spokojen\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b. Va\u0161e osobn\u00ed pohoda by tedy rozhodn\u011b nem\u011bla z\u016fst\u00e1vat na druh\u00e9 koleji! Pod\u00edvejte se na kr\u00e1tk\u00fd rychlotest na zhodnocen\u00ed sourozeneck\u00e9ho vztahu na str\u00e1nk\u00e1ch Mot\u00fdlku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A na \u00fapln\u00fd z\u00e1v\u011br je\u0161t\u011b n\u011bkolik inspirativn\u00edch zdroj\u016f s\nt\u00e9matikou speci\u00e1ln\u00edho sourozenectv\u00ed, za jejich\u017e seskupen\u00ed d\u011bkujeme Mgr. et Mgr.\nDavidu Havelkovi, Ph.D.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
David Havelka, Kate\u0159ina Barto\u0161ov\u00e1: Speci\u00e1ln\u00ed sourozenci: \u017eivot se sourozencem s posti\u017een\u00edm; Julius Bittmann, Lenka Bittmannov\u00e1: A na m\u011b nikdo nem\u00e1 \u010das; Fiona Bleech: Ka\u017ed\u00fd jsme jin\u00fd; Ivona B\u0159ezinov\u00e1: \u0158vi potichu, br\u00e1cho; Martina Drijverov\u00e1: Domov pro Mar\u0165any; Petra \u0160tarkov\u00e1: Luk\u00e1\u0161 a profesor Neptun; \u0160\u00e1rka K\u00e1rov\u00e1: Skryt\u00ed hrdinov\u00e9\u2026 jak m\u016f\u017eete podpo\u0159it sourozence nemocn\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed; David Havelka: STEPS \u2013 Skupinov\u00fd terapeuticko-eduka\u010dn\u00ed program pro sourozence d\u011bt\u00ed s PAS<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Autor: Kl\u00e1ra \u0160ed\u00e1<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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