{"id":37899,"date":"2022-08-12T00:00:58","date_gmt":"2022-08-11T22:00:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=37899"},"modified":"2022-08-12T00:01:00","modified_gmt":"2022-08-11T22:01:00","slug":"jako-rakovina-duse-tezko-lecitelna-nemoc-martina-popsala-jak-ji-sebrala-dceru","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=37899","title":{"rendered":"Jako rakovina du\u0161e: T\u011b\u017eko l\u00e9\u010diteln\u00e1 nemoc. Martina popsala, jak j\u00ed sebrala dceru"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>D\u00edvka trp\u011bla hrani\u010dn\u00ed poruchou osobnosti, nemoc\u00ed, kter\u00e9 se tak\u00e9 \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 rakovina du\u0161e. Moc se o n\u00ed nev\u00ed, a i pro psychiatry je neobl\u00edbenou, t\u011b\u017eko l\u00e9\u010ditelnou diagn\u00f3zou. Pr\u00e1v\u011b proto vznikla kn\u00ed\u017eka, kter\u00e1 p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed 22 autentick\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f \u201ehrani\u010d\u00e1\u0159\u016f\u201c a jejich bl\u00edzk\u00fdch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kn\u00ed\u017eka \u017divot na houpa\u010dce vy\u0161la podle p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed autorky Martiny Kulh\u00e1nkov\u00e9 p\u0159esn\u011b v den nedo\u017eit\u00fdch 22. narozenin jej\u00ed dcery Anetky &#8211; 26. \u010dervence. P\u0159i k\u0159tu Martina kn\u00ed\u017eku dr\u017eela celou dobu v ruce s t\u00edm, \u017ee se takto c\u00edt\u00ed bezpe\u010dn\u011b a je to takov\u00e9 jej\u00ed dal\u0161\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b. Kdy\u017e jsem se za\u010detla do Martinina vypr\u00e1v\u011bn\u00ed, kter\u00e9 je v kn\u00ed\u017ece prvn\u00edm z p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f, zp\u011btn\u011b jsem obdivovala, \u017ee o v\u0161em dok\u00e1\u017ee mluvit vyrovnan\u011b bez slz v o\u010d\u00edch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Na\u0161la bezvl\u00e1dnou Anetku<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Martina popisuje: \u201eOto\u010dila jsem hlavu vlevo, kde jsem letm\u00fdm pohledem zaregistrovala otev\u0159en\u00e9 dve\u0159e do jej\u00edho pokoje, a v tom jsem ji uvid\u011bla! Vyk\u0159ikla jsem, odhodila v\u0161echny v\u011bci a b\u011b\u017eela k n\u00ed. V polokleku visela na p\u00e1sku od sv\u00e9ho r\u016f\u017eov\u00e9ho frot\u00e9 \u017eupanu, uv\u00e1zan\u00e1 ke stropn\u00edmu h\u00e1ku, kter\u00fd slou\u017eil k zav\u011b\u0161en\u00ed boxovac\u00edho pytle. Zmaten\u011b jsem ji v bl\u00e1hov\u00e9 nad\u011bji, \u017ee j\u00ed pom\u016f\u017eu, nadzvedla, ale pak m\u011b napadlo, \u017ee v byt\u011b nikdo jin\u00fd nen\u00ed a \u017ee ji nem\u016f\u017eu dr\u017eet a z\u00e1rove\u0148 hledat n\u011bco k p\u0159e\u0159\u00edznut\u00ed p\u00e1sku. Tak jsem ji pustila, co\u017e byl hrozn\u00fd moment, a b\u011b\u017eela k psac\u00edmu stolu pro n\u016f\u017eky. \u017d\u00e1dn\u00e9 jsem v\u0161ak nevid\u011bla.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Anetka ode\u0161la z tohoto sv\u011bta dobrovoln\u011b loni v b\u0159eznu. \u201eKdy\u017e se to stalo, mapovaly jsem s mou star\u0161\u00ed dcerou Nikolkou ter\u00e9n. V\u011bd\u011bly jsme, \u017ee Anetka m\u00e1 instagramov\u00fd \u00fa\u010det, jeho\u017e prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm sd\u00edlela sv\u016fj p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh a sna\u017eila se pom\u00e1hat dal\u0161\u00edm lidem s podobn\u00fdmi probl\u00e9my. A n\u00e1m bylo l\u00edto \u00fa\u010det \u00fapln\u011b uzav\u0159\u00edt. Nakonec jsme si zalo\u017eily nov\u00fd \u00fa\u010det, a proto\u017ee j\u00e1 ani Nikolka hrani\u010d\u00e1\u0159i nejsme, je to \u00fa\u010det osob bl\u00edzk\u00fdch, kter\u00e9 sd\u00edlej\u00ed zku\u0161enosti se sou\u017eit\u00edm s takto nemocn\u00fdm \u010dlov\u011bkem. Nazvali jsme ho \u017divot na houpa\u010dce, proto\u017ee takov\u00fd \u017eivot s hrani\u010d\u00e1\u0159em opravdu je.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nen\u00ed to rozmar<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>B\u011bhem p\u00e1r t\u00fddn\u016f chodilo stra\u0161n\u011b moc ohlas\u016f, nejd\u0159\u00edve kondolence a vyj\u00e1d\u0159en\u00ed \u00fa\u010dasti. Brzy lid\u00e9 Martin\u011b ale za\u010dali tak\u00e9 sv\u011b\u0159ovat sv\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy, sd\u00edleli sv\u00e9 zku\u0161enosti a cht\u011bli poradit. Martina se sna\u017e\u00ed na ka\u017ed\u00fd p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvek odpov\u00eddat, v\u00ed, jak nesm\u00edrn\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 to pro hrani\u010d\u00e1\u0159e i jejich bl\u00edzk\u00e9 je. Kdy\u017e u\u017e bylo p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f hodn\u011b, zrodil se n\u00e1pad vydat je kni\u017en\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eNapadlo m\u011b, \u017ee by mo\u017en\u00e1 bylo prosp\u011b\u0161n\u00e9, kdyby se n\u011bkter\u00e9 \u201adostaly ven\u2018 a pouk\u00e1zaly na to, \u017ee hrani\u010dn\u00ed porucha osobnosti nen\u00ed rozmar, \u017ee je to nemoc jako ka\u017ed\u00e1 jin\u00e1 a \u017ee si v\u0161ichni, kte\u0159\u00ed s n\u00ed bojuj\u00ed, zaslou\u017e\u00ed pozornost sv\u00fdch bl\u00edzk\u00fdch, sv\u00e9ho okol\u00ed, ale i odborn\u00e9 ve\u0159ejnosti. A t\u00e9 se jim v sou\u010dasn\u00e9 dob\u011b dost\u00e1v\u00e1 \u017ealostn\u011b m\u00e1lo. V\u011b\u0159\u00edm, \u017ee kniha poslou\u017e\u00ed k pochopen\u00ed emoc\u00ed a pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed t\u011bchto lid\u00ed a \u017ee se jim dostane p\u00e9\u010de, kterou si zaslou\u017e\u00ed,\u2018\u2018 dod\u00e1v\u00e1 autorka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hrani\u010dn\u00ed porucha osobnosti<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jde o typ poruchy osobnosti, p\u0159i kter\u00e9 posti\u017een\u00fd za\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 obdob\u00ed napjat\u00e9, nestabiln\u00ed n\u00e1lady a chov\u00e1n\u00ed se zm\u011bn\u011bn\u00fdm sebehodnocen\u00edm. M\u016f\u017ee doj\u00edt ke zna\u010dn\u00e9 impulzivit\u011b a naru\u0161en\u00ed vztah\u016f s p\u0159\u00e1teli i rodinou, naru\u0161ena je schopnost zvl\u00e1dat ka\u017edodenn\u00ed \u017eivot. Jedn\u00e1 se o z\u00e1va\u017en\u00fd stav, spojen\u00fd se sebepo\u0161kozovan\u00edm a pokusy o sebevra\u017edu. Ka\u017ed\u00fd des\u00e1t\u00fd posti\u017een\u00fd zakon\u010d\u00ed sv\u016fj \u017eivot sebevra\u017edou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zdroj: Lundbeck.com<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Miroslava Drozenov\u00e1<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Den\u00edk<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.denik.cz\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/www.denik.cz\/<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>D\u00edvka trp\u011bla hrani\u010dn\u00ed poruchou osobnosti, nemoc\u00ed, kter\u00e9 se tak\u00e9 \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 rakovina du\u0161e. Moc se o n\u00ed nev\u00ed, a i pro psychiatry je neobl\u00edbenou, t\u011b\u017eko l\u00e9\u010ditelnou <a class=\"mh-excerpt-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=37899\" title=\"Jako rakovina du\u0161e: T\u011b\u017eko l\u00e9\u010diteln\u00e1 nemoc. 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