{"id":38044,"date":"2022-09-06T20:36:57","date_gmt":"2022-09-06T18:36:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=38044"},"modified":"2022-09-06T20:36:58","modified_gmt":"2022-09-06T18:36:58","slug":"navzdory-zrakovemu-postizeni-vychovala-dceru-stydela-se-za-me-vzpomina-zena","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=38044","title":{"rendered":"Navzdory zrakov\u00e9mu posti\u017een\u00ed vychovala dceru. Styd\u011bla se za m\u011b, vzpom\u00edn\u00e1 \u017eena"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u201eA kdo bude d\u00edt\u011b vychov\u00e1vat? Nebo ho d\u00e1te n\u011bkam do \u00fastavu?\u201c Dv\u011b ot\u00e1zky, kter\u00e9 dnes \u010dty\u0159ia\u010dty\u0159icetiletou Olgu Fe\u010fjukovou p\u0159ed t\u0159in\u00e1cti lety v porodnici \u0161okovaly. \u201eNejsem \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 netykavka, v\u00edm, \u017ee si mnoho lid\u00ed asi neum\u00ed p\u0159edstavit, jak m\u016f\u017ee \u010dlov\u011bk s posti\u017een\u00edm zraku vychov\u00e1vat d\u00edt\u011b\u2026 Ale takov\u00e9 dotazy od zdravotn\u00ed sestry?\u201c nech\u00e1pe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Olga p\u0159ipou\u0161t\u00ed, \u017ee n\u011bkter\u00e9 chv\u00edle byly p\u0159i v\u00fdchov\u011b n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9. T\u0159eba kdy\u017e j\u00ed dcera vym\u00e1chala mobil v \u010daji. Nebo kdy\u017e j\u00ed schov\u00e1vala boty, aby ne\u0161ly ven\u2026 \u201eSp\u011bchala jsem a ta potv\u016frka mi dala jednu botu na z\u00e1chod a druhou pod postel\u2026 A j\u00e1 lezla bytem po \u010dty\u0159ech a hledala\u2026 No samoz\u0159ejm\u011b, \u017ee jsme v takov\u00fdch chv\u00edl\u00edch t\u0159eba autobus, kter\u00fdm jsem pot\u0159ebovala jet, nestihly,\u201c sm\u011bje se dnes s odstupem let Olga.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>P\u0159i v\u00fdchov\u011b nek\u0159i\u010dela. Sna\u017eila se, aby z n\u00ed dcera c\u00edtila respekt. \u201eM\u011bla jsem to nastaven\u00e9 tak, \u017ee jsem ji n\u011bkolikr\u00e1t napomenula. A kdy\u017e stejn\u011b ud\u011blala n\u011bco nepat\u0159i\u010dn\u00e9ho \u2013 t\u0159eba naschv\u00e1l vysypala v\u0161echna c\u00e9d\u00e9\u010dka, pak u\u017e dostala p\u0159es ruku. A ji\u017e to neud\u011blala.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jak se u toho dcera tv\u00e1\u0159ila? \u0160klebila se? Vyplazovala jazyk? To Olga nevid\u011bla. \u201eNevid\u011bla jsem jej\u00ed v\u00fdraz, t\u00edm p\u00e1dem i ona v\u011bd\u011bla, \u017ee to stejn\u011b nem\u00e1 cenu d\u011blat. V\u011bd\u011bla, \u017ee si p\u016fjdu za sv\u00fdm. I kdyby na m\u011b n\u011bco ukazovala, stejn\u011b bych to nevid\u011bla, tak\u017ee u n\u00e1s fungovala hlasov\u00e1 komunikace,\u201c popisuje Olga, kter\u00e1 bydl\u00ed s dcerou v Hostiva\u0159i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Maminky ut\u00edkaly z h\u0159i\u0161t\u011b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Olga je velmi otev\u0159en\u00e1, a tak se neboj\u00edm otev\u0159\u00edt ani t\u00e9ma p\u0159\u00edpadn\u00e9ho studu dceru. \u201eAno, styd\u011bla se za m\u011b,\u201c p\u0159izn\u00e1v\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eTrp\u011bly jsme t\u00edm ob\u011b odmali\u010dka. Patrn\u00e9 to bylo u\u017e p\u0159i vstupu do mate\u0159sk\u00e9 \u0161koly. Lucka cht\u011bla tak\u00e9 chodit sp\u00e1t ke spolu\u017ea\u010dk\u00e1m, ale rodi\u010de ostatn\u00edch d\u011bt\u00ed se mi vyh\u00fdbali. Kolikr\u00e1t jsem s dcerou p\u0159i\u0161la na h\u0159i\u0161t\u011b a do \u010dtvrt hodiny bylo pr\u00e1zdn\u00e9\u2026 Ale nejhor\u0161\u00ed okam\u017eik p\u0159i\u0161el na konci \u0161kolky, kdy se mnou Lucka le\u017eela v posteli a \u0159ekla mi: \u201eMami, j\u00e1 ti to mus\u00edm \u0159\u00edct\u2026 J\u00e1 nechci takovou slepou m\u00e1mu jako jsi ty, chci n\u011bkoho, s k\u00fdm budu jezdit na kole, na v\u00fdlety\u2026\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To zabolelo\u2026 Kdy\u017e Lucka mamince popisovala, jak se j\u00ed d\u011bti ve \u0161kolce sm\u011bj\u00ed a \u017ee si nem\u00e1 s k\u00fdm hr\u00e1t, u\u017e to Olga nevydr\u017eela. \u0160la do \u0161kolky, kde dostala prostor d\u011btem vysv\u011btlit, \u017ee jej\u00ed dcera m\u00e1 \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9 d\u011btstv\u00ed. A \u017ee si hraje na h\u0159i\u0161ti jako ka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u0159in\u00e1ctilet\u00e1 dcera Lucka zrakovou vadu nezd\u011bdila. \u201eJ\u00e1 m\u00e1m retinopatii, jej\u00ed tat\u00ednek tupozrakost. Lucka je v\u0161ak na\u0161t\u011bst\u00ed zdrav\u00e9 d\u011bv\u010de.\u201c A zdrav\u00e1 mohla b\u00fdt i Olga. Kdyby se narodila o p\u00e1r let pozd\u011bji\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eV 70. a 80. letech se nedono\u0161en\u00e9 d\u011bti d\u00e1valy do inkub\u00e1tor\u016f. Mnoha lidem tehdy po\u0161kodily trvale zrak. A bohu\u017eel to byl i m\u016fj p\u0159\u00edpad.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S asistentem k l\u00e9ka\u0159i i na \u00fa\u0159ad<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vzhledem ke sv\u00e9mu handicapu Olga vyu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 doprovod asistent\u016f p\u0159i cest\u011b k l\u00e9ka\u0159\u016fm \u010di na \u00fa\u0159ady. A bez neziskov\u00e9 organizace Okam\u017eik, kter\u00e1 j\u00ed tuto slu\u017ebu umo\u017e\u0148uje, si dnes ji\u017e nedovede sv\u016fj \u017eivot p\u0159edstavit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eU\u017e ani nev\u00edm, kdo m\u011b tam tenkr\u00e1t kolem roku 2000 dovedl\u2026 Ale jsem za to vd\u011b\u010dn\u00e1, nebo\u0165 Okam\u017eik je organizac\u00ed, kter\u00e1 nab\u00edz\u00ed slu\u017eby, kter\u00e9 jsou jinde zpoplatn\u011bn\u00e9. Dostala jsem se tak zadarmo na m\u00edsta, kam bych se bez doprovodu jinak nedostala.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Olga popisuje, \u017ee se hodn\u011b organizac\u00ed zam\u011b\u0159uje na lidi se zrakov\u00fdm handicapem. Ale Okam\u017eik m\u00e1 pro ni p\u0159idanou hodnotu v tom, \u017ee pom\u00e1h\u00e1 mimo jin\u00e9 i zdrav\u00fdm d\u011btem, kter\u00e9 maj\u00ed rodi\u010de s probl\u00e9my se zrakem. \u201eVysoko\u0161kol\u0161t\u00ed studenti asistuj\u00ed d\u011btem. Je to \u00fa\u017easn\u00e1 pomoc s dom\u00e1c\u00ed p\u0159\u00edpravou, na kterou my nevid\u00edme.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Neb\u00fdt zrakov\u00e9ho handicapu, jejich \u017eivot by vypadat \u00fapln\u011b jinak. Olga si v\u0161ak uv\u011bdomuje, \u017ee jej\u00ed handicap Lucku v mnoha v\u011bcech i pos\u00edlil. A p\u0159ipravil na \u017eivot l\u00e9pe ne\u017e mnoh\u00e9 jej\u00ed vrstevn\u00edky. \u201eLucka je extr\u00e9mn\u011b soci\u00e1ln\u011b vyvinut\u00e1. Od \u00fatl\u00e9ho d\u011btstv\u00ed se musela nau\u010dit rychle rozhodovat nejen za sebe, ale i za m\u011b. Je extr\u00e9mn\u011b sob\u011bsta\u010dn\u00e1. A jak nemoc ovlivnila m\u011b? Odnesla jsem si z toho, \u017ee to nikdy nesm\u00edm vzd\u00e1t.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Okam\u017eik ve zkratce:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>* Okam\u017eik podporuje lidi se zrakov\u00fdm posti\u017een\u00edm na jejich cest\u011b za samostatn\u011bj\u0161\u00edm a aktivn\u00edm \u017eivotem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>* Organizuje 140 dobrovoln\u00edk\u016f, kte\u0159\u00ed doprov\u00e1zej\u00ed nevidom\u00e9 lidi k l\u00e9ka\u0159i, na \u00fa\u0159ady \u010di na n\u00e1kupy nebo dlouhodob\u011b poskytuj\u00ed nevidom\u00fdm vizu\u00e1ln\u00ed pomoc doma, p\u0159i sportu, kulturn\u00edch aktivit\u00e1ch nebo p\u0159ed\u010d\u00edt\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>* Neziskovka po\u0159\u00e1d\u00e1 pro nevidom\u00e9 volno\u010dasov\u00e9 aktivity, poskytuje jim poradenstv\u00ed a individu\u00e1ln\u00ed podporu. V neposledn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b nab\u00edz\u00ed pomoc nevidom\u00fdm rodi\u010d\u016fm p\u0159i vzd\u011bl\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed a rozvoji jejich d\u011bt\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>* Ro\u010dn\u00ed rozpo\u010det organizace je 5,5 milionu korun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Veronika C\u00e9zov\u00e1<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Den\u00edk.cz<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.denik.cz\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/www.denik.cz\/<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>\u201eA kdo bude d\u00edt\u011b vychov\u00e1vat? Nebo ho d\u00e1te n\u011bkam do \u00fastavu?\u201c Dv\u011b ot\u00e1zky, kter\u00e9 dnes \u010dty\u0159ia\u010dty\u0159icetiletou Olgu Fe\u010fjukovou p\u0159ed t\u0159in\u00e1cti lety v porodnici \u0161okovaly. \u201eNejsem <a class=\"mh-excerpt-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=38044\" title=\"Navzdory zrakov\u00e9mu posti\u017een\u00ed vychovala dceru. 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