{"id":38737,"date":"2023-03-07T20:52:54","date_gmt":"2023-03-07T19:52:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=38737"},"modified":"2023-03-07T20:52:55","modified_gmt":"2023-03-07T19:52:55","slug":"jedno-pochybeni-jim-zkazilo-zivot-mamince-dochazi-sily-do-ustavu-ale-syna-neda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=38737","title":{"rendered":"Jedno pochyben\u00ed jim zkazilo \u017eivot. Mamince doch\u00e1z\u00ed s\u00edly, do \u00fastavu ale syna ned\u00e1"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

ilustra\u010dn\u00ed foto<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pavl\u00edk se narodil jako naprosto zdrav\u00e9 miminko. Kv\u016fli pochyben\u00ed l\u00e9ka\u0159\u016f v\u00a0porodnici je z\u00a0n\u011bj v\u0161ak dnes t\u011b\u017ece ment\u00e1ln\u011b i\u00a0fyzicky retardovan\u00fd mu\u017e, kter\u00fd se bez celodenn\u00ed p\u00e9\u010de sv\u00e9 matky neobejde. T\u00e9 v\u0161ak doch\u00e1z\u00ed s\u00edly, a hlavn\u011b finan\u010dn\u00ed prost\u0159edky, proto\u017ee je na v\u0161echno sama. Boj\u00ed se, \u017ee bude muset syna d\u00e1t do \u00fastavu, proto\u017ee to je, bohu\u017eel, nejlevn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed varianta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kdy\u017e \u017eena porod\u00ed zdrav\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b, je to pro ni obrovsk\u00e1 \u00faleva, jeliko\u017e c\u00edt\u00ed, \u017ee v\u0161echno nebezpe\u010d\u00ed je ji\u017e za\u017eehn\u00e1no. Pavlova maminka Renata ale bohu\u017eel nebyla jednou z t\u011bch, kter\u00e9 si mohly sv\u00e9 zdrav\u00e9 miminko dlouho u\u017e\u00edvat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u0159i porodu se od n\u00ed jej\u00ed novorozen\u00fd syn nakazil bakteri\u00ed salmonely, co\u017e v kombinaci nespr\u00e1vn\u00e9 nemocni\u010dn\u00ed p\u00e9\u010de vedlo k rozvoji t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 sepse a z\u00e1n\u011btu mozkov\u00fdch blan d\u00edt\u011bte. Mozek mal\u00e9ho chlapce se r\u00e1zem ocitl bez kysl\u00edku, a i p\u0159esto, \u017ee p\u0159e\u017eil, z\u016fstal natolik fyzicky i ment\u00e1ln\u011b posti\u017een\u00fd, \u017ee se bez celodenn\u00ed p\u00e9\u010de neobejde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0158ekli j\u00ed, \u017ee o nic nejde<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eP\u0159i odchodu z porodnice mi \u0159ekli, \u017ee je Pavel nezral\u00fd novorozenec a \u017ee v\u0161echno do\u017eeneme rehabilitac\u00ed. Tak jsme dal\u0161\u00edch 12 let jenom jezdili po l\u00e1zn\u00edch a nemocnic\u00edch a rehabilitovali. Bohu\u017eel to nebylo k ni\u010demu,\u201c smutn\u011b konstatuje pan\u00ed Renata.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pavl\u016fv p\u0159\u00edpad je specifick\u00fd v tom, \u017ee kdyby se podobn\u00e9 pochyben\u00ed odehr\u00e1lo dnes, jist\u011b by ji\u017e pan\u00ed Renata dostala od\u0161kodn\u011bn\u00ed, kter\u00e9 sice nem\u016f\u017ee vynahradit ztr\u00e1tu zdrav\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte, ale alespo\u0148 m\u016f\u017ee pomoci uhradit pot\u0159ebnou ka\u017edodenn\u00ed p\u00e9\u010di. M\u00edsto toho se u\u017e dvacet let odehr\u00e1v\u00e1 soudn\u00ed p\u0159e, a i p\u0159esto, \u017ee je snad v\u0161e na dobr\u00e9 cest\u011b, pan\u00ed Renata u\u017e ztr\u00e1c\u00ed nad\u011bji.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O syna pe\u010duje 30 let<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u00e9\u010de o fyzicky i ment\u00e1ln\u011b posti\u017een\u00e9ho dosp\u011bl\u00e9ho mu\u017ee je velice n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e1 a pan\u00ed Renat\u011b u\u017e se stoupaj\u00edc\u00edm v\u011bkem (by\u0165 je ve skv\u011bl\u00e9 kondici) a Pavlovou v\u00e1hou ub\u00fdvaj\u00ed s\u00edly. \u201eD\u0159\u00edve jsem byla obklopena rodinou, kter\u00e1 mi pom\u00e1hala s p\u00e9\u010d\u00ed i finan\u010dn\u011b. Bohu\u017eel jsme v\u0161ak u\u017e z\u016fstali sami, co\u017e se odr\u00e1\u017e\u00ed i na na\u0161ich mo\u017enostech,\u201c vysv\u011btluje Pavlova maminka, kter\u00e1 \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, \u017ee i p\u0159esto nikdy ani neuva\u017eovala nad t\u00edm, \u017ee by sv\u00e9ho syna sv\u011b\u0159ila do \u00fastavn\u00ed p\u00e9\u010de.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eM\u00fdm obrovsk\u00fdm p\u0159\u00e1n\u00edm je dochovat Pavl\u00edka v dom\u00e1c\u00ed p\u00e9\u010di. M\u00edt ho doma. V\u011b\u0159\u00edm, \u017ee mi z\u016fstane dlouho dost psychick\u00fdch i fyzick\u00fdch sil. Bohu\u017eel n\u00e1m v\u0161ak nikdo finan\u010dn\u011b nepom\u00e1h\u00e1 a p\u0159e\u017e\u00edt z p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvku je nemo\u017en\u00e9,\u201c zouf\u00e1 si Renata. Aby v\u0161ak nemusela d\u00e1t syna do \u00fastavu, co\u017e by ob\u011bma zlomilo srdce, pen\u00edze pot\u0159ebuje, a to hned.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Upozor\u0148uje tak\u00e9 na to, \u017ee d\u00e1t d\u00edt\u011b do \u00fastavu je u n\u00e1s nejlevn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed variantou, proto\u017ee za tu rodi\u010d nic neplat\u00ed. \u201e\u00dastavy jsou z\u00e1kladn\u00edm \u010dl\u00e1nkem v p\u00e9\u010di o t\u011b\u017ece posti\u017een\u00e9 osoby v \u010cR. Rodinn\u00e1 p\u00e9\u010de vzhledem k obrovsk\u00e9mu podfinancov\u00e1n\u00ed kolabuje a pe\u010dovat o posti\u017een\u00e9ho si mohou jen velmi bohat\u00e9 rodiny,\u201c dod\u00e1v\u00e1 pan\u00ed Renata s t\u00edm, \u017ee realita je velmi krut\u00e1 a pe\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bk by m\u011bl dost\u00e1vat od st\u00e1tu ur\u010ditou finan\u010dn\u00ed kompenzaci \u010di mzdu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u011b\u0159\u00ed toti\u017e, \u017ee kdyby k tomu m\u011bli rodi\u010de, kter\u00fdch se to t\u00fdk\u00e1, lep\u0161\u00ed podm\u00ednky, nemuseli by d\u011bti \u201eodkl\u00e1dat\u201c a mohli z\u016fstat s nimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Syna p\u0159ebaluje i krm\u00ed<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Syn pan\u00ed Renaty vy\u017eaduje nep\u0159etr\u017eitou p\u00e9\u010di, proto nen\u00ed v jej\u00edch mo\u017enostech doch\u00e1zet do zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed. \u201ePavl\u00edk je fyzicky i ment\u00e1ln\u011b t\u011b\u017ece posti\u017een\u00fd. S\u00e1m si strk\u00e1 prsty do pusy a vyvol\u00e1v\u00e1 si tak zvracen\u00ed, bav\u00ed se t\u00edm. Bez dohledu m\u016f\u017ee ale tato jeho nevinn\u00e1 z\u00e1bava v\u00e9st i k udu\u0161en\u00ed,\u201c vysv\u011btluje z\u00e1va\u017enost situace pan\u00ed Renata.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ka\u017ed\u00fd spole\u010dn\u00fd den je u\u017e t\u0159icet let podobn\u00fd a pro maminku posti\u017een\u00e9ho mu\u017ee t\u011b\u017ece vy\u010derp\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed. \u201eR\u00e1no za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 hygienou, kter\u00e1 v na\u0161em p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b trv\u00e1 i hodinu. P\u0159ebalujeme, oplachujeme se, \u010dist\u00edme zuby, obl\u00e9k\u00e1me. P\u0159es den va\u0159\u00edm a d\u011bl\u00e1m v\u0161e kolem Pavla, kter\u00fd se d\u00edv\u00e1 na poh\u00e1dky. Po ob\u011bd\u011b p\u0159ijde asistent a pom\u016f\u017ee mi Pavl\u00edka dostat ven. I s voz\u00edkem v\u00e1\u017e\u00ed 110 kg, co\u017e j\u00e1 sama u\u017e bohu\u017eel neuvezu. Ve\u010der n\u00e1sleduje koup\u00e1n\u00ed, co\u017e je op\u011bt d\u0159ina a po n\u011bm u\u017e pad\u00e1m \u00fanavou,\u201c vysv\u011btluje Pavlova maminka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pavel zkr\u00e1tka s\u00e1m nezvl\u00e1d\u00e1 nic. Je to le\u017e\u00edc\u00ed, inkontinentn\u00ed mlad\u00fd mu\u017e, kter\u00e9ho maminka mus\u00ed krmit. Za ta l\u00e9ta se spolu v\u0161ak nau\u010dili alespo\u0148 \u010d\u00e1ste\u010dn\u011b komunikovat, kdy se Renata dopt\u00e1v\u00e1 ot\u00e1zkami a Pavel na n\u011b reaguje slovem \u201ehmm\u201c. \u201eKdy\u017e pe\u010dujete dlouhodob\u011bji o t\u011b\u017ece posti\u017een\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka, dosp\u011bjete k tomu, \u017ee mu na z\u00e1klad\u011b posunk\u016f a pohyb\u016f rozum\u00edte,\u201c hovo\u0159\u00ed o v\u00fdsledku sv\u00e9 pr\u00e1ce se synem, kter\u00e9ho lze v \u00fastavn\u00edch podm\u00ednk\u00e1ch jen t\u011b\u017eko dos\u00e1hnout.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bojuje za v\u0161echny pe\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u0161ichni, kte\u0159\u00ed pe\u010duj\u00ed o sv\u00e9 v\u00edce \u010di m\u00e9n\u011b posti\u017een\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b, daj\u00ed pan\u00ed Renat\u011b jist\u011b za pravdu, \u017ee je to velice vy\u010derp\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed \u010dinnost a narozen\u00ed t\u011b\u017ece hendikepovan\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte je obrovsk\u00e1 rodinn\u00e1 trag\u00e9die, kter\u00e1 \u010dasto vede k rozpadu rodiny.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201e\u010clov\u011bk, kter\u00fd pe\u010duje, postupn\u011b sl\u00e1bne, za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 b\u00fdt frustrovan\u00fd, vyho\u0159el\u00fd, u\u0161tvan\u00fd, p\u0159epracovan\u00fd, jeliko\u017e \u010dasto nem\u00e1 dost finan\u010dn\u00edch prost\u0159edk\u016f ani mo\u017enost nabrat s\u00edly na dal\u0161\u00ed dny,\u201c vysv\u011btluje pan\u00ed Renata, kter\u00e1 podot\u00fdk\u00e1, \u017ee rodiny \u010dasto rozprodaj\u00ed ve\u0161ker\u00e9 majetky, aby mohly pe\u010dovat o sv\u00e9 t\u011b\u017ece posti\u017een\u00e9 d\u011bti, kter\u00e9 nakonec kv\u016fli nedostatku financ\u00ed \u010dasto stejn\u011b kon\u010d\u00ed v \u00fastavech, jeliko\u017e neexistuje mo\u017enost, jak by mohli z\u016fstat se sv\u00fdmi rodi\u010di.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I proto by r\u00e1da p\u0159ipomn\u011bla novelizaci z\u00e1kona 108\/2006 Sb. O soci\u00e1ln\u00edch slu\u017eb\u00e1ch. \u201eV sou\u010dasn\u00e9 dob\u011b nemaj\u00ed pe\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed n\u00e1rok prakticky na nic. M\u016f\u017eeme dostat tak akor\u00e1t \u0161kolen\u00ed zdarma, co\u017e je pro v\u011bt\u0161inu pe\u010duj\u00edc\u00edch sp\u00ed\u0161 v\u00fdsm\u011bch. My pot\u0159ebujeme p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm pen\u00edze, abychom mohli pe\u010dovat, o zbytek se postar\u00e1me sami,\u201c st\u011b\u017euje si pan\u00ed Renata.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eZvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed tak\u00e9 je, \u017ee se po\u0159\u00e1d mluv\u00ed o zneu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed soci\u00e1ln\u00edch d\u00e1vek, ale ti, co daj\u00ed sv\u00e9 nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00ed do \u00fastavn\u00ed p\u00e9\u010de a nic st\u00e1tu neplat\u00ed, nezneu\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed soci\u00e1ln\u00ed syst\u00e9m? Pro\u010d se \u00fastavn\u00ed p\u00e9\u010de nedopl\u00e1c\u00ed a dom\u00e1c\u00ed nen\u00ed pomalu ve finan\u010dn\u00edch mo\u017enostech b\u011b\u017en\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka? \u010clov\u011bk to n\u011bjak nem\u016f\u017ee pochopit. St\u00e1t po\u010d\u00edt\u00e1 lidem koruny, sni\u017euje valorizace d\u016fchod\u016f, ale k \u00fastavn\u00ed p\u00e9\u010di je tak benevolentn\u00ed,\u201c shrnuje situaci pan\u00ed Renata.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Chcete-li pan\u00ed Renat\u011b a jej\u00edmu synovi Pavlovi p\u0159isp\u011bt na \u017eivot, kter\u00fd nen\u00ed u\u017e tak v\u016fbec jednoduch\u00fd a zv\u00fd\u0161it tak mo\u017enost, \u017ee Pavl\u00edk bude moci z\u016fstat doma se svou maminkou, m\u016f\u017eete tak u\u010dinit ZDE:  https:\/\/www.donio.cz\/zit-i-nadale-s-maminkou<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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ilustra\u010dn\u00ed foto Pavl\u00edk se narodil jako naprosto zdrav\u00e9 miminko. Kv\u016fli pochyben\u00ed l\u00e9ka\u0159\u016f v\u00a0porodnici je z\u00a0n\u011bj v\u0161ak dnes t\u011b\u017ece ment\u00e1ln\u011b i\u00a0fyzicky retardovan\u00fd mu\u017e, kter\u00fd se bez […]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4002,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-38737","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-zpravy"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38737","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=38737"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38737\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4002"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=38737"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=38737"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=38737"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}