{"id":45188,"date":"2024-01-22T00:59:57","date_gmt":"2024-01-21T23:59:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=45188"},"modified":"2024-01-23T12:49:53","modified_gmt":"2024-01-23T11:49:53","slug":"tatove-po-deseti-letech","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=45188","title":{"rendered":"T\u00e1tov\u00e9\u00a0po deseti letech"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\u010cT 1\u00a0– Report\u00e9\u0159i \u010cT

P\u0159ed 10 lety jsme odvys\u00edlali report\u00e1\u017e o dvojici gay\u016f, kter\u00e1 z\u00edskala do p\u011bstounsk\u00e9 p\u00e9\u010de z d\u011btsk\u00e9ho domova dva mal\u00e9, t\u011blesn\u011b i du\u0161evn\u011b\u00a0posti\u017een\u00e9<\/strong>\u00a0chlapce. \u010cesk\u00e9 z\u00e1kony sice p\u011bstounstv\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed stejnopohlavn\u00edm p\u00e1r\u016fm neumo\u017e\u0148uj\u00ed, kdokoliv, kdo spln\u00ed podm\u00ednky, si ale m\u016f\u017ee vz\u00edt do p\u00e9\u010de d\u00edt\u011b ze soci\u00e1ln\u00edho \u00fastavu jako jednotlivec. Jako v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b na\u0161eho p\u00e1ru, ke kter\u00e9mu se te\u010f po letech vrac\u00edme. Jak se vede jim i jejich dnes u\u017e pubert\u00e1ln\u00edm ratolestem?

redaktor
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Partne\u0159i Vladim\u00edr Maas Patera a Franti\u0161ek Ba\u010fura m\u00ed\u0159\u00ed se sv\u00fdmi d\u011btmi, kter\u00e9 maj\u00ed v p\u011bstounsk\u00e9 p\u00e9\u010di, do Technick\u00e9ho muzea. Kluci toti\u017e zbo\u017e\u0148uj\u00ed star\u00e9 lokomotivy a letadla. Vladim\u00edr je absolventem obchodn\u00ed akademie pro\u00a0nevidom\u00e9<\/strong>. Franti\u0161ek je vysoko\u0161kolsky vzd\u011blan\u00fd knihovn\u00edk.

Spole\u010dn\u011b U\u017e 12 let vychov\u00e1vaj\u00ed \u010dtrn\u00e1ctilet\u00e9ho Martina a \u0161estn\u00e1ctilet\u00e9ho Kry\u0161tofa. Oba kluci jsou p\u0159itom v r\u016fzn\u00e9 m\u00ed\u0159e zdravotn\u011b handicapovan\u00ed, fyzicky i psychicky.

Vladim\u00edr Maas Patera, p\u011bstoun
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A tady m\u00e1me dal\u0161\u00ed OK, zase dv\u011b nebo \u010dty\u0159i vrtule?Dv\u011b.

Franti\u0161ek Ba\u010fura, p\u011bstoun
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Musela m\u00edt pr\u00e1v\u011b ty dv\u011b velk\u00fd poh\u00e1n\u011bc\u00ed kola, aby to mohla po t\u011bch kolej\u00edch \u0161vihat tou tehdej\u0161\u00ed rychl\u00edkovou rychlost\u00ed.

Vladim\u00edr Maas Patera, p\u011bstoun
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Tamhle vzadu je co? Bez vrtule, nen\u00ed, jasn\u011b.

redaktor
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Vladim\u00edre, to nebyla klasick\u00e1 posunkov\u00e1 \u0159e\u010d.

Vladim\u00edr Maas Patera, p\u011bstoun
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Ne, ne, nebyla, proto\u017ee j\u00e1 nevid\u00edm, co on ukazuje, a on zase nesly\u0161\u00ed to, co mu \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m, tak\u017ee my m\u00e1me tak jako dohromady…

David Vondr\u00e1\u010dek, redaktor
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P\u011bstouni Franti\u0161ek a Vladim\u00edr sv\u00fdm rozhodnut\u00edm za\u010d\u00edt pe\u010dovat o handicapovan\u00e9 chlapce zalo\u017eili v \u010cesku unik\u00e1tn\u00ed dom\u00e1cnost. Nejen\u017ee jako registrovan\u00ed partne\u0159i vychov\u00e1vaj\u00ed\u00a0posti\u017een\u00e9<\/strong>\u00a0chlapce, ale sami maj\u00ed tak\u00e9 handicap. Vladim\u00edr je skoro\u00a0nevidom\u00fd<\/strong>\u00a0a Franti\u0161ek m\u00e1 malou vadu \u0159e\u010di. Poprv\u00e9 jsme u nich nat\u00e1\u010deli u\u017e p\u0159ed 10 lety, Tehdy m\u011bli kluky v p\u011bstounstv\u00ed teprve dva roky.

David Vondr\u00e1\u010dek, redaktor
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Ne\u017e dostali Vladim\u00edr s Franti\u0161kem kluky do p\u00e9\u010de, trvalo to dva roky, b\u011bhem kter\u00fdch absolvovali slo\u017eit\u00e1 psychologick\u00e1 vy\u0161et\u0159en\u00ed. Podobn\u011b jako stovky jin\u00fdch p\u011bstoun\u016f, lesbi\u010dek a gay\u016f. \u010cesk\u00e9 z\u00e1kony v sou\u010dasn\u00e9 dob\u011b neumo\u017e\u0148uj\u00ed, aby registrovan\u00ed partne\u0159i dostali d\u00edt\u011b do p\u011bstounstv\u00ed spole\u010dn\u011b. Kdy\u017e nejsou man\u017eel\u00e9, mohou d\u00edt\u011b do p\u011bstounstv\u00ed dostat pouze jako jednotlivci. Vladim\u00edr Martina a Franti\u0161ek Kry\u0161tofa. \u017de \u017eij\u00ed spole\u010dn\u011b, to u\u017e \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd probl\u00e9m z pohledu pr\u00e1va nen\u00ed. Gay\u016fm a lesbi\u010dk\u00e1m jsou k p\u011bstounstv\u00ed nab\u00edzeny zpravidla pr\u00e1v\u011b\u00a0zdravotn\u011b<\/strong>\u00a0posti\u017een\u00e9<\/strong>\u00a0d\u011bti, kter\u00e9 by jinak z\u016fstaly cel\u00fd \u017eivot v \u00fastavn\u00ed p\u00e9\u010di.

Vladim\u00edr Maas Patera, p\u011bstoun
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Nerozum\u011bl n\u00e1m v\u016fbec, nesly\u0161el na jm\u00e9no, tak\u017ee podle m\u00e9ho to bylo d\u00edt\u011b, kter\u00fd nem\u011blo ani jm\u00e9no, \u0161li jsme jenom se pod\u00edvat prost\u011b jenom kolem d\u011btsk\u00fdho domova, tak v podstat\u011b auta pro n\u011bj byl \u00fapln\u00fd z\u00e1zrak, autobusy, lampy, prost\u011b v\u0161echno. To znamen\u00e1, \u017ee tam skute\u010dn\u011b byl zav\u0159en\u00fd mezi \u010dty\u0159ma zdma.

redaktor
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Po 10 letech n\u00e1s zaj\u00edm\u00e1, jak Vladim\u00edr s Franti\u0161kem p\u0159i v\u00fdchov\u011b Kry\u0161tofa a Martina obst\u00e1li.

Jaroslav \u0160turma, d\u011btsk\u00fd psycholog
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Kry\u0161tofe, Mart\u00ednku, tak jsem r\u00e1d, \u017ee se zase vid\u00edme po p\u00e1r m\u011bs\u00edc\u00edch, a r\u00e1d bych se v\u00e1s zeptal, jak se v\u00e1m v\u0161em vede.

Vladim\u00edr Maas Patera, p\u011bstoun
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Kry\u0161tof u\u017e kon\u010d\u00ed z\u00e1kladn\u00ed \u0161kolu vlastn\u011b a chod\u00ed do dev\u00edtky. Martin chod\u00ed do jak\u00fd t\u0159\u00eddy? Do sedm\u00fd t\u0159\u00eddy.

David Vondr\u00e1\u010dek, redaktor
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Pane doktore, my jsme tady nat\u00e1\u010deli p\u0159ed 10 lety, snad ne\u0159\u00edk\u00e1m nic necitliv\u00e9ho, \u017ee jste trochu konzervativn\u011bj\u0161\u00edho sv\u011btopohledu a m\u011bl jste jist\u00e9 drobn\u00e9 rozpaky, kdy\u017e jste se sezn\u00e1mil s gayi, kte\u0159\u00ed vychov\u00e1vaj\u00ed vlastn\u011b d\u011bti, za t\u011bch 10 let je zn\u00e1te, jak se v\u00e1\u0161 vztah k nim vyvinul?

Jaroslav \u0160turma, d\u011btsk\u00fd psycholog
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Tito mu\u017eov\u00e9 cht\u011bj\u00ed nebo p\u0159ej\u00ed si starat se ne o d\u00edt\u011b podle n\u011bjak\u00fdch sv\u00fdch ide\u00e1ln\u00edch p\u0159edstav, ale \u017ee jsou p\u0159ipraveni poslou\u017eit svou p\u00e9\u010d\u00ed i takov\u00e9mu d\u00edt\u011bti, takov\u00fdm d\u011btem, kter\u00e9 neodpov\u00eddaj\u00ed t\u011bm b\u011b\u017en\u00fdm m\u011b\u0159\u00edtk\u016fm ide\u00e1lu, ty d\u011bti opravdu rozkvetly.

Vladim\u00edr Maas Patera, p\u011bstoun
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Budeme se hl\u00e1sit na st\u0159edn\u00ed \u0161kolu, ale samoz\u0159ejm\u011b t\u00edm na\u0161im zp\u016fsobem vyu\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed, to znamen\u00e1 online studiem a dom\u00e1c\u00edm vzd\u011bl\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00edm.

Judita Kapicov\u00e1, pedago\u017eka, odbornice na dom\u00e1c\u00ed vzd\u011bl\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed
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Je \u017e\u00e1kem \u0161koly, ale nechod\u00ed tam denn\u011b, ale dvakr\u00e1t do roka v lednu a v \u010dervnu chod\u00ed na p\u0159ezkou\u0161en\u00ed z u\u010diva za toho p\u016fl roku.

Vladim\u00edr Maas Patera, p\u011bstoun
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Jak\u00e9 m\u00e1me druhy elektr\u00e1ren? Jak\u00e9 zn\u00e1\u0161?

uk\u00e1zka
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Vodn\u00ed elektr\u00e1rnu, sol\u00e1rn\u00ed elektr\u00e1rnu, v\u011btrnou…

Vladim\u00edr Maas Patera, p\u011bstoun
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Jasn\u011b.

Judita Kapicov\u00e1, pedago\u017eka, odbornice na dom\u00e1c\u00ed vzd\u011bl\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed
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Na Kry\u0161tofovi je vid\u011bt, \u017ee vlastn\u011b, kdy\u017e m\u00e1 d\u00edt\u011b mo\u017enost vzd\u011bl\u00e1vat se sv\u00fdm tempem, individu\u00e1ln\u011b a n\u011bkdo se mu opravdu v\u011bnuje, tak jak \u00fa\u017easn\u011b vlastn\u011b se d\u00e1 to d\u00edt\u011b vyt\u00e1hnout a srovnat, i kdy\u017e m\u00e1 prost\u011b n\u011bjak\u00fd speci\u00e1ln\u00ed vzd\u011bl\u00e1vac\u00ed pot\u0159eby.

David Vondr\u00e1\u010dek, redaktor
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Zat\u00edmco \u0161estn\u00e1ctilet\u00fd Kry\u0161tof se u\u010d\u00ed doma, \u010dtrn\u00e1ctilet\u00fd Martin nav\u0161t\u011bvuje speci\u00e1ln\u00ed \u0161kolu pro sluchov\u011b\u00a0posti\u017een\u00e9<\/strong>\u00a0v Praze na Sm\u00edchov\u011b.

uk\u00e1zka
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\u010cteme znovu.

uk\u00e1zka
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Jana a maminka \/nesrozumiteln\u00e9\/ v kuchyni.

uk\u00e1zka
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A pt\u00e1m se, co d\u011bl\u00e1 maminka v prosinci?

uk\u00e1zka
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Pe\u010de cukrov\u00ed.

uk\u00e1zka
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V\u00fdborn\u011b.

uk\u00e1zka
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Mouka.

Vladim\u00edr Maas Patera, p\u011bstoun
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Mouka, p\u0159esn\u011b tak.

uk\u00e1zka
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Mouka, m\u00e1slo, vaj\u00ed\u010dko…

Vladim\u00edr Maas Patera, p\u011bstoun
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A co to je?

uk\u00e1zka
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V\u00e1no\u010dn\u00ed…

Vladim\u00edr Maas Patera, p\u011bstoun
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Tomu se \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 t\u011bsto.

uk\u00e1zka
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T\u011bsto.

Vladim\u00edr Maas Patera, p\u011bstoun
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T\u011bsto.

Viola Ra\u0161\u00ednov\u00e1, u\u010ditelka, Z\u00e1kladn\u00ed \u0161kola pro sluchov\u011b\u00a0posti\u017een\u00e9<\/strong>\u00a0v Praze 5
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Martine, p\u0159etlumo\u010d to ve znakov\u00e9m jazyku. Martin je velice sna\u017eiv\u00fd, piln\u00fd \u017e\u00e1k, je vychovan\u00fd k tomu, aby pom\u00e1hal druh\u00fdm, ve t\u0159\u00edd\u011b m\u00e1 jednu spolu\u017ea\u010dku a on j\u00ed velice pom\u00e1h\u00e1.

Franti\u0161ek Ba\u010fura, p\u011bstoun
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Zapom\u00edn\u00e1\u0161 d\u011blat te\u010dky. V\u011bta, konec, te\u010dka, jo? Zkus to te\u010f.

Franti\u0161ek Ba\u010fura, p\u011bstoun
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\/uk\u00e1zka\/

uk\u00e1zka
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V\u00edde\u0148, kde m\u00e1me V\u00edde\u0148? Tady m\u00e1me \u010ceskou republiku, tady N\u011bmecko, tady je V\u00edde\u0148.

Vladim\u00edr Maas Patera, p\u011bstoun
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Tak v\u00fdborn\u011b, a kde jsme je\u0161t\u011b byli?

uk\u00e1zka
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Na Kan\u00e1rsk\u00fdch ostrovech. Na Tenerife, kter\u00fd jsou u Afriky. Tady. Kan\u00e1rsk\u00e9 ostrovy.

Vladim\u00edr Maas Patera, p\u011bstoun
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Po\u010dkej, tak to se mus\u00edm ale pod\u00edvat j\u00e1 zase, p\u00e1\u010d takhle nevid\u00edm. Jo? P\u0159esn\u011b. Super. Dobr\u00fd.

David Vondr\u00e1\u010dek, redaktor
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Posledn\u00ed dobou se hodn\u011b mluv\u00ed o mo\u017en\u00e9m man\u017eelstv\u00ed pro lesbi\u010dky, pro gaye. Jak vy na to kouk\u00e1te s Franti\u0161kem, Vladim\u00edre?

Vladim\u00edr Maas Patera, p\u011bstoun
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Kouk\u00e1me na to tak, \u017ee bysme to samoz\u0159ejm\u011b uv\u00edtali. Jsme posuzovan\u00fd jako v podstat\u011b ka\u017ed\u00fd zvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 a jedno d\u00edt\u011b je v\u017edycky na jednoho. To znamen\u00e1, pokud m\u00e1me dv\u011b d\u011bti, tak m\u00e1me de facto ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s jenom jedno d\u00edt\u011b, jo. A to znamen\u00e1 pro n\u00e1s ve fin\u00e1le, \u017ee pokud by se, dejme tomu, stalo n\u011bco s Kry\u0161tofem, tak m\u011b nemusej\u00ed pustit do nemocnice, proto\u017ee j\u00e1 ke Kry\u0161tofovi nem\u00e1m \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd pr\u00e1va.

David Vondr\u00e1\u010dek, redaktor
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A naopak.

Vladim\u00edr Maas Patera, p\u011bstoun
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A naopak. S Martinem zase Franti\u0161ka by nepustili ani do \u0161koly pro n\u011bj, ani do nemocnice, prost\u011b nikam, proto\u017ee jako\u017ee ze strany Franti\u0161ka je Martin \u00fapln\u011b ciz\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b. Je to hodn\u011b paradoxn\u00ed. Proto z tohohle d\u016fvodu bych se p\u0159ikl\u00e1n\u011bl samoz\u0159ejm\u011b k tomu, abysme m\u011bli statut jako man\u017eelstv\u00ed. Nemus\u00ed se to jmenovat man\u017eelstv\u00ed, to je \u00fapln\u011b jedno, ale abysme m\u011bli pr\u00e1va stejn\u00fd jako klasick\u00e1 rodina.

David Vondr\u00e1\u010dek, redaktor
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Po\u010d\u00edt\u00e1te, \u017ee d\u00e1l budete v\u00edcem\u00e9n\u011b \u017e\u00edt jako rodina, Franti\u0161ku?

Franti\u0161ek Ba\u010fura, p\u011bstoun
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P\u0159edpokl\u00e1d\u00e1m to, jsem skoro o tom p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010denej. A to je dob\u0159e.

Vladim\u00edr Maas Patera, p\u011bstoun
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A samoz\u0159ejm\u011b s t\u00edm specifikem v\u016fbec zdravotn\u00edho stavu, u obou dvou se jako ned\u00e1 \u00fapln\u011b p\u0159edpokl\u00e1dat, \u017ee by to byli vylo\u017een\u011b samostatn\u00ed jedinci v tom, \u017ee by dok\u00e1zali se sami o sebe \u00fapln\u011b postarat na sto procent. Moje takov\u00e1 vize je, \u017ee bysme mohli zalo\u017eit takov\u00fd jakoby rodinn\u00fd podnik, t\u0159eba kav\u00e1rnu, kde by vlastn\u011b se kluci uplatnili. Ka\u017ed\u00fd si udloubne, hele, cht\u011blo by to stejn\u011b velk\u00fd, jo? Tak\u017ee t\u0159eba takov\u00fdhle? A ot\u00e1zka na t\u011blo.

uk\u00e1zka
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A na smrt.

Vladim\u00edr Maas Patera, p\u011bstoun
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Co to je? Co to asi bude?

uk\u00e1zka
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V\u00e1no\u010dn\u00ed cukrov\u00ed.

Vladim\u00edr Maas Patera, p\u011bstoun
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Ano, par\u00e1da, v\u00e1no\u010dn\u00ed cukrov\u00ed, p\u0159esn\u011b tak.

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