{"id":4587,"date":"2013-05-08T18:38:51","date_gmt":"2013-05-08T16:38:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=4587"},"modified":"2013-05-08T21:06:17","modified_gmt":"2013-05-08T19:06:17","slug":"autista-patri-do-ustavu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=4587","title":{"rendered":"Autista pat\u0159\u00ed do \u00fastavu"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>D\u00e1t sv\u00e9 autistick\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b do \u00fastavu nebo se o n\u011bj doma starat, i kdy\u017e to bude na \u00fakor osobn\u00edho \u017eivota, vlastn\u00ed kari\u00e9ry a mo\u017en\u00e1 i na \u00fakor p\u00e9\u010de o vlastn\u00ed zdrav\u00e9 d\u011bti? O tom se rozhoduje otec mal\u00e9ho autisty, kter\u00fd o tom napsal blog.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Na tohle nem\u00e1te, to nedok\u00e1\u017eete. Krom\u011b p\u00e9\u010de o dv\u011b zdrav\u00e9 d\u011bti je\u0161t\u011b budete ka\u017ed\u00fd z v\u00e1s ka\u017ed\u00fd den suplovat kon\u010detiny sv\u00e9mu bejnam\u00ednkovi. A jak dlouho to budete d\u011blat? Nu, dokud nezem\u0159ete, kdy\u017e pou\u017eiji slova obvykl\u00e1 poh\u00e1dkov\u00fdm konc\u016fm. Celou cestu z Plzn\u011b dom\u016f ml\u010d\u00edm. M\u016fj autista mi kope zezadu do seda\u010dky. U\u017e nechci po Kamile, aby ho umravnila.<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Nem\u00e1me na to, abychom to zvl\u00e1dli. Nem\u00e1me na to, abychom p\u0159edst\u00edrali, \u017ee to m\u016f\u017eeme zvl\u00e1dnout. Tohle chce v\u00edc, ne\u017e dok\u00e1\u017eeme. M\u016f\u017eeme si to bu\u010f p\u0159iznat, nebo to m\u016f\u017eeme vzd\u00e1t. Nen\u00ed nic \u0161patn\u00e9ho na tom, kdy\u017e si p\u0159izn\u00e1me, \u017ee na to nem\u00e1me, je to lep\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e kdy\u017e ud\u011bl\u00e1me n\u011bjakou hloupost. A ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s ud\u011blal v \u017eivot\u011b n\u011bjakou hloupost. A tady potom zase p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed na \u0159adu ta moje racionalita. Kdy\u017e to nedok\u00e1\u017eeme my, mo\u017en\u00e1 n\u011bkdo jin\u00fd by mohl&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Ale o tom nechce Kamila ani sly\u0161et. &#8222;Moje d\u00edt\u011b je moje d\u00edt\u011b a nechci, aby bylo n\u011bkde jinde ne\u017e j\u00e1!&#8220;<\/p>\n<p>M\u00e1m z toho hodn\u011b \u0161patn\u00fd pocit a opiju se. Ale t\u00edm se v\u011bci jen zhor\u0161\u00ed. V\u017edycky jsem si myslel, \u017ee se dok\u00e1\u017eu orientovat, a \u017ee budu um\u011bt jednat. Najednou jsem v situaci, kdy mi do\u0161ly ve\u0161ker\u00e9 argumenty, a u\u017e nejsou ani \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 jin\u00e9 mo\u017enosti. Je tu p\u0159evaha probl\u00e9m\u016f, kter\u00e9 je t\u0159eba \u0159e\u0161it, nad prost\u0159edky, kter\u00fdmi by mohly b\u00fdt vy\u0159e\u0161eny. Mus\u00edm se chovat racion\u00e1ln\u011b, nic nerozb\u00edjet, a pokud mo\u017eno zachovat rodinu. Jak moc je sobeck\u00e9 argumentovat z\u00e1jmem dvou zdrav\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed proti jednomu posti\u017een\u00e9mu?<\/p>\n<p>Bojuju n\u011bkolik dn\u00ed s\u00e1m se sebou, ale nakonec usuzuju, \u017ee je moud\u0159ej\u0161\u00ed udr\u017eet na\u017eivu j\u00e1dro, zachovat v\u011bt\u0161inu, a utnout chromou kon\u010detinu. Kamila pl\u00e1\u010de. Kdy\u017e souhlas\u00ed, vid\u00edm, \u017ee v n\u00ed n\u011bco zem\u0159elo, a t\u00edm p\u00e1dem i ve mn\u011b. Nesouhlas\u00ed bezpodm\u00edne\u010dn\u011b, a ani to bych s\u00e1m necht\u011bl, a chce v\u011bd\u011bt, kde by V\u00edtek byl. Pak se del\u0161\u00ed dobu nic ned\u011bje. Po n\u011bjak\u00e9 depresivn\u00ed ud\u00e1losti s mal\u00fdm autistou, kterou zejm\u00e9na j\u00e1 nezvl\u00e1d\u00e1m, mi pod\u00e1 telefon, &#8222;j\u00e1 nikam volat nebudu, to mus\u00ed\u0161 ty.&#8220;<\/p>\n<p>&#8222;Dobr\u00fd den, domluvili jsme se, \u017ee se k v\u00e1m p\u0159ijedeme pod\u00edvat,&#8220; bzu\u010d\u00e1k zabzu\u010del, dve\u0159e otev\u0159ely. Ve\u0161li jsme do vr\u00e1tnice. Nikde nikdo. P\u0159i\u0161la na m\u011b panika, ale hned jsem se uklidnil. Nedovol\u00edm si soudit, jak se c\u00edtila Kamila. Kdy\u017e souhlasila s t\u00edm, \u017ee sem pojedeme, bylo to proti slibu, \u017ee se V\u00edtka nikdy nevzd\u00e1, a \u017ee i kdyby tu m\u011bl b\u00fdt p\u0159es t\u00fdden, budeme za n\u00edm pravideln\u011b jezdit. Moje mu\u017esk\u00e1 racionalita mi nedovolila to p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 ch\u00e1pat, ale srdce je\u0161t\u011b bilo vlevo, i kdy\u017e v tu chv\u00edli bylo a\u017e v krku.<\/p>\n<p>Pan\u00ed, kter\u00e1 k n\u00e1m posl\u00e9ze sestoupila z n\u011bkolika schod\u016f, zosob\u0148ovala v\u0161echny moje pochyby. Jednak postr\u00e1dala jistotu v hlase, jednak zjevn\u011b i ve sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed \u017eivotospr\u00e1v\u011b. Kol\u00e9bala se mohutn\u00fdmi kroky sm\u011brem k n\u00e1m, a kdy\u017e jsem j\u00ed kone\u010dn\u011b mohl pohl\u00e9dnout do tv\u00e1\u0159e, hled\u011bl jsem za n\u011bkolika prameny del\u0161\u00edch z\u0161edl\u00fdch vlas\u016f, skr\u00fdvaj\u00edc\u00edch dvojici temn\u00fdch o\u010d\u00ed, na karikaturu obli\u010deje, zosob\u0148uj\u00edc\u00edho sam\u00e9 ne\u0161t\u011bst\u00ed. Vypadala jako rozpe\u010den\u00fd kol\u00e1\u010d, kter\u00fd bych necht\u011bl nikdy nakousnout.<\/p>\n<p>Ale u\u017e jsme tady, tak jdeme d\u00e1l, a\u0165 vid\u00edme&#8230; a\u0165 se nebav\u00edme o n\u011b\u010dem, a p\u0159itom nev\u00edme o \u010dem.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>Petr Forejtek<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>D\u00e1t sv\u00e9 autistick\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b do \u00fastavu nebo se o n\u011bj doma starat, i kdy\u017e to bude na \u00fakor osobn\u00edho \u017eivota, vlastn\u00ed kari\u00e9ry a mo\u017en\u00e1 i <a class=\"mh-excerpt-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=4587\" title=\"Autista pat\u0159\u00ed do \u00fastavu\">[&#8230;]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4587","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-zpravy"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4587","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4587"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4587\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4587"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4587"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4587"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}