Je a\u017e neuv\u011b\u0159iteln\u00e9, co dok\u00e1\u017ee otcovsk\u00e1 l\u00e1ska. Zden\u011bk Neve\u010de\u0159al je nevidom\u00fd vinou \u00farazu, kter\u00fd se mu p\u0159ihodil ve t\u0159ech m\u011bs\u00edc\u00edch v\u011bku. I p\u0159es sv\u016fj hendikep se vzorn\u011b star\u00e1 o desetilet\u00e9ho syna Mare\u010dka, kter\u00fd je tak\u00e9 zdravotn\u011b posti\u017een\u00fd: trp\u00ed lehkou ment\u00e1ln\u00ed retardac\u00ed a vrozenou centr\u00e1ln\u00ed svalovou hypotoni\u00ed. V diagn\u00f3ze m\u00e1 i ADHD. T\u00e1ta a syn se state\u010dn\u011b perou s nep\u0159\u00edzn\u00ed osudu a aby toho nebylo m\u00e1lo, do jejich \u017eivota nyn\u00ed zas\u00e1hl n\u00e1hl\u00fd probl\u00e9m, kter\u00fdm je finan\u010dn\u00ed vyrovn\u00e1n\u00ed s b\u00fdvalou man\u017eelkou a matkou Mare\u010dka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Zden\u011bk je rodil\u00fd Chrudim\u00e1k, tamn\u00ed lid\u00e9 ho potk\u00e1vali v ulic\u00edch m\u011bsta s b\u00edlou hol\u00ed a s vod\u00edc\u00edm psem. Bydlel v panel\u00e1ku nedaleko Kate\u0159iny a sv\u00e9ho \u010dasu poskytoval mas\u00e9rsk\u00e9 slu\u017eby.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Potom se o\u017eenil, to byl rok 2009. V roce 2013 se jim narodil Marek, o \u010dty\u0159i roky pozd\u011bji p\u0159i\u0161el na sv\u011bt \u0160t\u011bp\u00e1n. Neve\u010de\u0159alovi potom prodali byt v Chrudimi a p\u0159est\u011bhovali se do Br\u010dekol. Ale brzy poznali, \u017ee mal\u00e1 vesni\u010dka nem\u00e1 pro n\u011b dostate\u010dnou dopravn\u00ed obslu\u017enost, a tak se usadili v Ronov\u011b nad Doubravou. „Jezd\u00ed tam autobusy a vlaky, tam to pro n\u00e1s bylo mnohem lep\u0161\u00ed. A je doposud,“ \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Zden\u011bk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u017divot v \u0159adov\u00e9m domku rodin\u011b vyhovoval, ale osud ne\u010dekan\u011b zas\u00e1hl – Zde\u0148kova \u017eena se zamilovala a odst\u011bhovala se i s mlad\u0161\u00edm synkem \u0160t\u011bp\u00e1nkem. „Byl mu teprve rok, musel z\u016fstat u m\u00e1my,“ vzpom\u00edn\u00e1 Zden\u011bk na t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 chv\u00edle odlou\u010den\u00ed, ve kter\u00fdch musel zv\u00edt\u011bzit zdrav\u00fd rozum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Zden\u011bk z\u016fstal s\u00e1m s Mare\u010dkem a star\u00e1 se o n\u011bj vzorn\u011b. Nen\u00ed to lehk\u00e9, p\u0159esto se jeho t\u00e1tovi poda\u0159ilo p\u0159esunout diagn\u00f3zu „st\u0159edn\u011b t\u011b\u017ek\u00e1 ment\u00e1ln\u00ed retardace“ o jeden stupe\u0148, tak\u017ee je syn ohodnocen jako lehce ment\u00e1ln\u011b retardovan\u00fd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
„I tak je to d\u0159ina. Mohu nap\u0159\u00edklad uv\u00e9st vzdorovitost, kter\u00e1 je u t\u0159\u00edlet\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed norm\u00e1ln\u00ed, ale u t\u011bch star\u0161\u00edch s t\u00edm rodi\u010de bojuj\u00ed cel\u00fd \u017eivot. Syn si chce v\u011bci ud\u011blat st\u016fj co st\u016fj po sv\u00e9m a je to ob\u010das hodn\u011b n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 s n\u00edm vyj\u00edt. Na druhou stranu ho mus\u00edm pochv\u00e1lit za to, jak dob\u0159e se \u010din\u00ed v \u010d\u00e1slavsk\u00e9 speci\u00e1ln\u00ed \u0161kole. Bav\u00ed ho p\u0159\u00edrodopis, zem\u011bpis, zaj\u00edm\u00e1 se o cestov\u00e1n\u00ed a zv\u00ed\u0159ata. Jsem r\u00e1d, \u017ee se vyv\u00edj\u00ed a jeho ment\u00e1ln\u00ed \u00farove\u0148 se zlep\u0161uje. N\u011bkdo s podobn\u00fdm posti\u017een\u00edm skon\u010d\u00ed na \u00farovni t\u0159\u00edlet\u00e9ho d\u011bcka, ale to u Marka zapla\u0165b\u016fh neplat\u00ed. Jeho mozek st\u00e1le zraje,“ pokra\u010duje osma\u010dty\u0159icetilet\u00fd tat\u00ednek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Zden\u011bk je \u00fapln\u011b slep\u00fd a p\u0159itom dok\u00e1\u017ee doma uva\u0159it, up\u00e9ct sladk\u00e9 dobroty a dokonce zava\u0159ovat. S Mare\u010dkem se pravideln\u011b u\u010d\u00ed a jezd\u00ed spolu na v\u00fdlety. O \u00faklid se postar\u00e1 pe\u010dovatelsk\u00e1 slu\u017eba, ke spokojen\u00e9mu \u017eivotu zd\u00e1nliv\u011b nechyb\u00ed nic. Ale je tu n\u011bco, co semknut\u00e9 dvojici p\u0159ed \u010dasem u\u010dinilo velk\u00e9 tr\u00e1pen\u00ed. Jde o pen\u00edze, kter\u00e9 je pot\u0159eba poslat b\u00fdval\u00e9 Zde\u0148kov\u011b man\u017eelce jako finan\u010dn\u00ed vyrovn\u00e1n\u00ed z \u0159adovky, kterou si spole\u010dn\u011b koupili. \u010c\u00e1stka 265 tis\u00edc se m\u016f\u017ee n\u011bkomu zd\u00e1t pom\u011brn\u011b n\u00edzk\u00e1, ale z invalidn\u00edho d\u016fchodu ji u\u0161et\u0159it nelze a \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 banka Zde\u0148kovi \u00fav\u011br neposkytne.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Zden\u011bk je p\u0159itom odk\u00e1zan\u00fd na prostory, kter\u00e9 zn\u00e1. Orientace v dom\u011b je pro n\u011bj bezpe\u010dn\u00e1 a srozumiteln\u00e1, v nov\u00e9m prost\u0159ed\u00ed by si velmi t\u011b\u017eko zvykal. Ba co v\u00edc, kdyby \u0161el do jin\u00e9ho domova, byl by mu Mare\u010dek pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b odebr\u00e1n, proto\u017ee by se Zden\u011bk nemohl o n\u011bj starat do t\u00e9 doby, ne\u017e si v nov\u00e9m dom\u011b a m\u00edst\u011b jako nevidom\u00fd zvykne a bude se bezpe\u010dn\u011b pohybovat. A to n\u011bkdy trv\u00e1 i rok.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
„Bydl\u00edm s nimi v jednom m\u011bste\u010dku a roky jsem potk\u00e1val Mare\u010dka, jak vede za ruku sv\u00e9ho nevidom\u00e9ho tat\u00ednka na n\u00e1kup a na proch\u00e1zku. Cht\u011bl jsem je poznat osobn\u011b a vyslechnout jejich p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh. Je mi osobn\u00ed posilou m\u00edt Zde\u0148ka za p\u0159\u00edtele. Kdykoliv se v m\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b objev\u00ed p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017eka, vzpomenu si na Zde\u0148ka, na jeho vytrvalost, na jeho boj se \u017eivotem a na jeho l\u00e1sku k synovi, kter\u00e1 mu d\u00e1v\u00e1 s\u00edlu a smysl \u017eivota. Zden\u011bk je nejen mn\u011b, ale i dal\u0161\u00edm mnoha lidem p\u0159\u00edkladem v l\u00e1sce a ob\u011btavosti,“ \u0159ekl kamar\u00e1d Ladislav Rejl, kter\u00fd je zakladatelem sb\u00edrky na platform\u011b znesnaze21.cz. Jej\u00ed v\u00fdt\u011b\u017eek poslou\u017e\u00ed nejen k finan\u010dn\u00edmu vyrovn\u00e1n\u00ed po rozvodu, kter\u00fd nastal v roce 2022, ale i p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b k po\u0159\u00edzen\u00ed nov\u00fdch oken a dve\u0159\u00ed u \u0159adovky, kter\u00e1 je letit\u00e1 a n\u00e1klady na vyt\u00e1p\u011bn\u00ed jsou zna\u010dn\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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