\u017dij\u00ed ve st\u00ednu sourozenc\u016f, mohou se c\u00edtit p\u0159ehl\u00ed\u017een\u00e9, neviditeln\u00e9. V brzk\u00e9m v\u011bku se nau\u010d\u00ed starat o sebe samy, aby rodi\u010d\u016fm ulevily a mnohdy pom\u00e1haj\u00ed s p\u00e9\u010d\u00ed o nemocn\u00e9ho. D\u011bti, kter\u00e9 vyr\u016fstaj\u00ed vedle sourozenc\u016f s fyzick\u00fdm nebo ment\u00e1ln\u00edm posti\u017een\u00edm, psychologov\u00e9 ozna\u010duj\u00ed jako \u201esklen\u011bn\u00e9 d\u011bti\u201c. Vedle posti\u017een\u00e9 sestry vyr\u016fstala tak\u00e9 Jindra Landov\u00e1. \u201eTeprve, kdy\u017e jsem se sama stala m\u00e1mou, za\u010dala jsem si uv\u011bdomovat, \u017ee m\u011b to asi cel\u00e9 ovlivnilo v\u00edce, ne\u017e jsem kdy byla schopn\u00e1 a ochotn\u00e1 si p\u0159ipustit,\u201c vypr\u00e1v\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vyr\u016fstaj\u00ed vedle sourozenc\u016f, kte\u0159\u00ed maj\u00ed speci\u00e1ln\u00ed pot\u0159eby. A\u0165 u\u017e je to fyzick\u00fd nebo psychick\u00fd handicap. Sklen\u011bn\u00e9 d\u011bti od ran\u00e9ho v\u011bku vn\u00edmaj\u00ed, \u017ee sourozenec pot\u0159ebuje v\u00edce p\u00e9\u010de a sna\u017e\u00ed se nep\u0159id\u011bl\u00e1vat rodi\u010d\u016fm starosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eTerm\u00edn sklen\u011bn\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b ozna\u010duje d\u011bti, jejich\u017e emo\u010dn\u00ed pot\u0159eby se st\u00e1vaj\u00ed neviditeln\u00e9 kv\u016fli intenzivn\u00edm n\u00e1rok\u016fm jin\u00fdch sourozenc\u016f,\u201c vysv\u011btluje na webu Very Well Mind psychoterapeut Eli Harwood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
D\u016fsledkem jsou samostatn\u00e9, nez\u00e1visl\u00e9 a n\u00e1pomocn\u00e9 d\u011bti. Probl\u00e9mem je, \u017ee se tak\u00e9 nau\u010d\u00ed odkl\u00e1dat vlastn\u00ed pot\u0159eby na posledn\u00ed m\u00edsto a m\u00edvaj\u00ed probl\u00e9m po\u017e\u00e1dat o pomoc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u017de mi to ubralo m\u00e1mu jsem si uv\u011bdomila a\u017e v dosp\u011blosti<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vedle sourozence se speci\u00e1ln\u00edmi pot\u0159ebami vyr\u016fstala tak\u00e9 Jindra Landov\u00e1. Na dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed vzpom\u00edn\u00e1 r\u00e1da. \u017de j\u00ed \u017eivot se sestrou s fyzick\u00fdm handicapem ubral n\u011bco z d\u011btstv\u00ed, si za\u010dala naplno uv\u011bdomovat a\u017e v dosp\u011blosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eTeprve, kdy\u017e jsem se sama stala m\u00e1mou, za\u010dala jsem si uv\u011bdomovat, \u017ee m\u011b to asi cel\u00e9 ovlivnilo v\u00edce, ne\u017e jsem kdy byla schopn\u00e1 a ochotn\u00e1 si p\u0159ipustit,\u201c vypr\u00e1v\u00ed Jindra Landov\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jindra Landov\u00e1 p\u0159itom definici sklen\u011bn\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte spl\u0148uje perfektn\u011b. Je schopn\u00e1, nez\u00e1visl\u00e1, zodpov\u011bdn\u00e1, velice brzy se nau\u010dila starat sama o sebe. Ve \u0161kole se dob\u0159e u\u010dila a ned\u011blala \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 pot\u00ed\u017ee. \u201eHlavn\u011b nep\u0159ek\u00e1\u017eet, ned\u011blat starosti, neb\u00fdt na obt\u00ed\u017e,\u201c shrnuje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u017de se jedn\u00e1 o b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 pocity sklen\u011bn\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed potvrzuj\u00ed v\u00fdzkumy. \u201eStudie uk\u00e1zaly, \u017ee d\u011bti vyr\u016fstaj\u00edc\u00ed vedle sourozenc\u016f s chronick\u00fdm onemocn\u011bn\u00edm nebo posti\u017een\u00edm m\u00e9n\u011b komunikuj\u00ed, a\u017e ignoruj\u00ed sv\u00e9 pot\u0159eby,\u201c vysv\u011btluj\u00ed na psychologicko-poradensk\u00e9m webu Charlie Health.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u00fdchova sklen\u011bn\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jindra Landov\u00e1 je sama m\u00e1mou dvou d\u011bt\u00ed. Doma m\u00e1 zdrav\u00e9ho syna a dceru se svalovou dystrofi\u00ed. \u201eSynovi to mo\u017en\u00e1 taky trochu bere d\u011btstv\u00ed a m\u00e1mu,\u201c uv\u011bdomuje si.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eAle pracuji s t\u00edm. V\u011bnuji se t\u00e9matu mimo\u0159\u00e1dn\u00fdch sourozenc\u016f a hlavn\u011b jemu, aby p\u0159\u00ednosy jednou p\u0159ev\u00e1\u017eily negativa,\u201c vysv\u011btluje sv\u016fj pohled na v\u00fdchovu sklen\u011bn\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed Jindra Landov\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u017de vyr\u016fst\u00e1 vedle nemocn\u00e9 sestry synovi podle Jindry p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed spoustu pozitivn\u00edho. \u201eTyhle d\u011bti jednou nebude zaj\u00edmat hromad\u011bn\u00ed majetku, v\u00fdkon, soupe\u0159en\u00ed a \u00fasp\u011bch,\u201c je p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00e1 Jindra Landov\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ve vztahu k synovi se j\u00ed osv\u011bd\u010dila hlavn\u011b otev\u0159en\u00e1 komunikace, a to i o n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fdch aspektech p\u00e9\u010de o sestru. \u201e\u017d\u00e1dn\u00e9 t\u00e9ma u n\u00e1s nen\u00ed tabu. Ani to, \u017ee n\u00e1s ob\u010das nebav\u00ed pom\u00e1hat s\u00e9g\u0159e. \u0158\u00edk\u00e1me to i p\u0159ed n\u00ed. J\u00ed taky nebav\u00ed prosit n\u00e1s neust\u00e1le o pomoc. Nen\u00ed to ni\u010d\u00ed chyba,\u201c sv\u011b\u0159uje se Jindra Landov\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ta druh\u00e1<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u00e9matu sklen\u011bn\u00fdch sourozenc\u016f se v\u011bnuje tak\u00e9 celove\u010dern\u00ed dokument Ta druh\u00e1. Sleduje osmn\u00e1ctiletou Johanu, kter\u00e1 doma pom\u00e1h\u00e1 s p\u00e9\u010d\u00ed o mlad\u0161\u00ed posti\u017eenou sestru. Sn\u00edmek re\u017eis\u00e9rky Marie-Magdaleny Kochov\u00e9 byl letos uveden na Mezin\u00e1rodn\u00edm filmov\u00e9m festivalu Karlovy Vary.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tv\u016frci filmu ve spolupr\u00e1ci s Katedrou sociologie Filozofickou fakultou Univerzity Karlovy a organizac\u00ed NAUTIS organizuj\u00ed prvn\u00ed v\u00fdzkum sklen\u011bn\u00fdch sourozenc\u016f v \u010cesk\u00e9 republice. Zapojit se mohou sourozenci lid\u00ed s handicapem, a to jak\u00e9hokoliv v\u011bku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jindru Landovou mo\u017en\u00e1 zn\u00e1te ze soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00ed, kde vystupuje jako Oby\u010dejn\u00e1 m\u00e1ma. Jindra tak\u00e9 zalo\u017eila neziskovou organizaci Oby\u010dejn\u00fd \u017eivot, kter\u00e1 se zam\u011b\u0159uje nejen na pomoc posti\u017een\u00fdm osob\u00e1m, ale tak\u00e9 t\u011bm, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou syst\u00e9mem \u010dasto zcela opom\u00edjeni – pe\u010duj\u00edc\u00edm osob\u00e1m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Co pom\u016f\u017ee sourozenc\u016fm d\u011bt\u00ed se speci\u00e1ln\u00edmi pot\u0159ebami:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
sd\u00edlen\u00ed s d\u011btmi v podobn\u00e9 situaci<\/p>\n\n\n\n
zapojen\u00ed a podpora cel\u00e9 rodiny<\/p>\n\n\n\n
mo\u017enost otev\u0159en\u011b komunikovat s rodinou i l\u00e9ka\u0159i sourozence o sv\u00fdch obav\u00e1ch<\/p>\n\n\n\n
informovanost o nemoci sourozence<\/p>\n\n\n\n
prostor na vlastn\u00ed napln\u011bn\u00ed a vytvo\u0159en\u00ed identity mimo sv\u00e9 role v rodin\u011b<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Zdroj: Charlie Health<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Barbora Havlov\u00e1<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Moravskoslezsk\u00fd den\u00edk<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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