{"id":57481,"date":"2025-05-20T21:46:41","date_gmt":"2025-05-20T19:46:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=57481"},"modified":"2025-05-20T21:46:41","modified_gmt":"2025-05-20T19:46:41","slug":"hospic-charita-i-alternativni-pohrby-jan-sebjan-bori-tabu-kolem-konce-zivota","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=57481","title":{"rendered":"Hospic, charita i alternativn\u00ed poh\u0159by. Jan Sebj\u00e1n bo\u0159\u00ed tabu kolem konce \u017eivota"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Hospic sv. Ji\u0159\u00ed, T\u0159\u00edkr\u00e1lov\u00e1 kav\u00e1rni\u010dka pro dobrou v\u011bc, Sanitka p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed, alternativn\u00ed poh\u0159ebnictv\u00ed, Farn\u00ed charita \u010di nespo\u010det kulturn\u00edch a spole\u010densk\u00fdch akc\u00ed na podporu posti\u017een\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed i dosp\u011bl\u00fdch. Do toho pr\u00e1ce v bezobalov\u00e9m obchod\u011b \u010di d\u0159ina v lese s motorovou pilou. Drtiv\u00e1 v\u011bt\u0161ina jeho aktivit sm\u011b\u0159uje k jednomu c\u00edli. Pomoci nezi\u0161tn\u011b ostatn\u00edm, kte\u0159\u00ed to pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed. \u0158e\u010d je o Janu Sebj\u00e1novi z Jind\u0159ichovic, kter\u00e9ho jsme vybrali mezi Dobr\u00e9 du\u0161e Den\u00edku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sympatick\u00fd pades\u00e1tn\u00edk i b\u011bhem na\u0161eho rozhovoru nadhodil p\u00e1r my\u0161lenek, kter\u00e9 vyplynuly z na\u0161eho pov\u00edd\u00e1n\u00ed. Nebyly o ni\u010dem jin\u00e9m ne\u017e o tom jak by \u0161lo pomoci dal\u0161\u00edm lidem. Nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed probl\u00e9m m\u011bl s t\u00edm, \u017ee se o n\u011bm bude ps\u00e1t. \u201eNepat\u0159\u00edm mezi lidi, kte\u0159\u00ed se pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed zviditel\u0148ovat. Pokud mohu a je to v m\u00fdch sil\u00e1ch, r\u00e1d pomohu, nic jin\u00e9ho v tom nehled\u00e1m,\u201c \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Sebj\u00e1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pak se p\u0159eci jen rozpov\u00eddal o t\u00e9matech, kter\u00e1 jsou v na\u0161\u00ed spole\u010dnosti p\u0159eci jen je\u0161t\u011b jak\u00e9si tabu. To\u010d\u00ed se toti\u017e kolem konce \u017eivota a smrti, kter\u00e1 je sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed \u017eivota ka\u017ed\u00e9ho z n\u00e1s. Podle Sebj\u00e1na se mnoh\u00e9 v\u011bci za ty roky posunuly vp\u0159ed. Nejde jen nap\u0159\u00edklad o hospicovou p\u00e9\u010di, kter\u00e1 zde v minulosti nebyla, ale i o vn\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed konce \u017eivota star\u00fdch lid\u00ed jako jeho p\u0159irozen\u00e9 sou\u010d\u00e1sti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eOdchod \u010dlov\u011bka z tohoto sv\u011bta byl m\u011bl b\u00fdt oslavou jeho \u017eivota, ne utrpen\u00edm a traumatem pro ostatn\u00ed. Je to velmi citliv\u00e9 t\u00e9ma, ale u\u017e jsme p\u00e1r podobn\u00fdch rozlou\u010den\u00ed d\u011blali a i kdy\u017e rodiny poz\u016fstal\u00fdch zpo\u010d\u00e1tku nev\u011bd\u011bly co je \u010dek\u00e1, nakonec \u0159ekly, \u017ee to bylo n\u011bco jin\u00e9ho a p\u0159esto d\u016fstojn\u00e9ho a hlavn\u011b osobit\u00e9ho,\u201c dod\u00e1v\u00e1 Sebj\u00e1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ob\u0159adn\u00edci od Jakuba<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Spolu s kolegyn\u00ed Veronikou H\u0159ebejkovou si \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed Ob\u0159adn\u00edci od Jakuba a p\u016fsob\u00ed pod Farn\u00ed charitou Sokolov. Pom\u00e1haj\u00ed rodin\u00e1m vytvo\u0159it osobit\u00e9 a smyslupln\u00e9 rozlou\u010den\u00ed se zesnul\u00fdmi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eP\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00edme nov\u00fd pohled na poh\u0159ebn\u00ed ritu\u00e1ly a podporujeme i p\u0159\u00edrodn\u00ed poh\u0159b\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed. Na\u0161im c\u00edlem je umo\u017enit posledn\u00ed rozlou\u010den\u00ed tak, aby odpov\u00eddalo p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed zem\u0159el\u00e9ho a pot\u0159eb\u00e1m jeho bl\u00edzk\u00fdch. Otev\u00edr\u00e1me d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 celospole\u010densk\u00e9 t\u00e9ma, kdy rozlou\u010den\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt zcela individu\u00e1ln\u00ed a jedine\u010dnou podobu. Ob\u0159adn\u00edci jsou pr\u016fvodci na t\u00e9to cest\u011b a pom\u00e1haj\u00ed vytvo\u0159it ob\u0159ad, kter\u00fd je d\u016fstojn\u00fd, uzdravuj\u00edc\u00ed a nenese v sob\u011b dal\u0161\u00ed bolest. Proto\u017ee forma rozlou\u010den\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt i kl\u00ed\u010dov\u00fdm aspektem v procesu truchlen\u00ed,\u201c konstatuje Sebj\u00e1n s t\u00edm, \u017ee na Ob\u0159adn\u00edci od Jakuba se m\u016f\u017ee obr\u00e1tit kdokoliv.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mezi jeho dal\u0161\u00ed aktivity pat\u0159\u00ed i dlouhodob\u00e9 p\u016fsoben\u00ed ve farn\u00ed charit\u011b hospicov\u00e1 p\u00e9\u010de. \u201eNab\u00edz\u00edme lidem i mobiln\u00ed hospicovou p\u00e9\u010di, proto\u017ee jak \u0159\u00edk\u00e1me doma je doma. Kdo si nem\u016f\u017ee dovolit drah\u00e9 rehabilita\u010dn\u00ed pom\u016fcky, kter\u00e9 poji\u0161\u0165ovny nepropl\u00e1c\u00ed cel\u00e9, tomu je v na\u0161\u00ed p\u016fj\u010dovn\u011b r\u00e1di za symbolick\u00fd poplatek p\u016fj\u010d\u00edme. Pod charitou m\u00e1me i \u0161atn\u00edk pro lidi v nouzi nebo nab\u00edz\u00edme faru ve St\u0159\u00edbrn\u00e9 k rekreaci v srdci Kru\u0161n\u00fdch hor pro lidi \u010di d\u011bti, kter\u00e9 si to jinak nemohou dovolit. Zn\u00e1m\u00e1 je i na\u0161e t\u0159\u00edkr\u00e1lov\u00e1 kav\u00e1rni\u010dka v Sokolov\u011b kam lid\u00e9 r\u00e1di chod\u00ed posed\u011bt a ze kter\u00e9 d\u00e1v\u00e1me \u010d\u00e1st v\u00fdd\u011blku op\u011bt na charitu,\u201c \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Sebj\u00e1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dobro\u010dinn\u00fd antikvari\u00e1t<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Posezen\u00ed v p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9m, \u00fatuln\u00e9m prost\u0159ed\u00ed, d\u00e1te si k\u00e1vu nebo t\u0159eba \u010daj a podpo\u0159\u00edte t\u00edm projekty farn\u00ed charity. Tuhle mo\u017enost nab\u00edz\u00ed ji\u017e dev\u00e1t\u00fdm rokem. V prostor\u00e1ch kav\u00e1rni\u010dky je dobro\u010dinn\u00fd antikvari\u00e1t, kde je mo\u017enost zakoupit si vybranou kn\u00ed\u017eku. Zaujme i akce Zav\u011b\u0161en\u00e9 kafe. Z\u00e1kazn\u00edk p\u0159ijde, d\u00e1 si k\u00e1vu, a pokud chce ud\u011blat dobr\u00fd skutek, zaplat\u00ed je\u0161t\u011b jednu. Obsluha pak zav\u011bs\u00ed na v\u011b\u0161\u00e1\u010dek hrnek, a kdy\u017e p\u0159ijde n\u011bkdo, kdo je t\u0159eba v t\u00edsni nebo nem\u00e1 pen\u00edze, dostane k\u00e1vu zdarma, nechyb\u00ed dorty ani z\u00e1kusky. Po odchodu m\u00e1 \u010dlov\u011bk dobr\u00fd pocit, \u017ee ud\u011blal dobr\u00fd skutek t\u00edm, \u017ee podpo\u0159il charitu. T\u0159\u00edkr\u00e1lov\u00e1 kav\u00e1rni\u010dka je jedin\u00e1 sv\u00e9ho druhu v kraji.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nedalo n\u00e1m se zeptat na to, \u010d\u00edm zrovna takov\u00e9 citliv\u00e9 t\u00e9ma jako je um\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bka, Honzu p\u0159itahuje \u010di l\u00e1k\u00e1. \u201eSmrt jako takov\u00e1 je jedn\u00edm velk\u00fdm tajemstv\u00edm. Jde o jakousi p\u0159em\u011bnu \u010dlov\u011bka. Sv\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem m\u011b fascinovala ji\u017e od d\u011btstv\u00ed. Nejv\u00edc se mi l\u00edbila poh\u0159eb\u00e1ck\u00e1 auta,\u201c \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 s trochou nads\u00e1zky a humoru jemu vlastn\u00edmu Sebj\u00e1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mezi p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy jeho a jeho bl\u00edzk\u00fdch pat\u0159\u00ed i \u00fasm\u011bvn\u00e9 historky, i kdy\u017e souvis\u00ed se smrt\u00ed. Bylo to p\u0159ed dv\u011bma lety, kdy sv\u00e9mu kamar\u00e1dovi za\u0159\u00eddil Sanitku p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed. Ta vezla t\u011b\u017ece nemocn\u00e9ho kamar\u00e1da do p\u0159\u00edrody, a splnila mu t\u00edm jeho sen tehdy um\u00edraj\u00edc\u00edho \u010dlov\u011bka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201e\u0158ekl mi, \u017ee m\u00e1 r\u00e1d p\u0159\u00edrodu, tak jsme ho do n\u00ed vzali. D\u00edky vst\u0159\u00edcnosti b\u0159ezovsk\u00e9 radnice jsme mohli zajet sanitou a\u017e ke kapli svat\u00e9 Ma\u0159\u00ed do panensk\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edrody. Tak\u00e9 mi tehdy \u0159ekl, \u017ee m\u00e1 r\u00e1d brambor\u00e1ky, kter\u00e9 jsem mu musel koupit, to mi p\u0159ipom\u00ednal. Nebyl na tom opravdu dob\u0159e, zn\u00e1m ho cel\u00fd \u017eivot a p\u0159ipravoval se na odch\u00e1zen\u00ed z tohoto sv\u011bta. Sen jsme mu splnili a ejhle. Nikdo nev\u00ed jak a pro\u010d a kamar\u00e1d je tu dodnes, je to neuv\u011b\u0159iteln\u00e9. Asi ho nastartoval v\u00fdlet do p\u0159\u00edrody,\u201c vzpom\u00edn\u00e1 Sebj\u00e1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Op\u011bt ale nezapomene zm\u00ednit v\u0161echny kolem. S\u00e1m by pr\u00fd nic nezmohl, m\u011bl jen n\u00e1pad. \u201eSanitka p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed byla d\u00edlem n\u011bkolika \u00fa\u017easn\u00fdch lid\u00ed. O kamar\u00e1dovi, kter\u00fd byl paliativn\u00ed pacient a miluje p\u0159\u00edrodu jsem mluvil v hospici. Kamar\u00e1dka V\u011bra Luhanov\u00e1 hned zavolala sv\u00e9mu zn\u00e1m\u00e9mu a za\u0159\u00eddili jsme Sanitku p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed. Tohle je \u00fa\u017easn\u00fd. I ona m\u011bla hroznou radost a t\u011b\u0161ila se na to. Volala vrchn\u00ed sest\u0159e na odd\u011blen\u00ed, zda to povol\u00ed pan prim\u00e1\u0159. V\u0161e prob\u011bhlo b\u011bhem dvou dn\u016f,\u201c \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 o V\u011b\u0159e, kter\u00e1 pracuje u z\u00e1chrann\u00e9 slu\u017eby Karlovarsk\u00e9ho kraje. Krom\u011b toho doch\u00e1z\u00ed do zm\u00edn\u011bn\u00e9ho hospice a rozb\u011bhla spolu s dal\u0161\u00edmi v Chebu pobo\u010dku organizace N\u00e1dech a \u0159adu dal\u0161\u00edch dobrovolnick\u00fdch aktivit. Radost ze spln\u011bn\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed m\u011bl tehdy i zdravotnick\u00fd person\u00e1l nemocnice, kter\u00fd podobnou akci za\u017eil poprv\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>V minulosti po\u0159\u00e1dali spolu s mate\u0159sk\u00fdm klubem \u0160nek v Kraslic\u00edch charitativn\u00ed plesy. Pot\u00e9 pokra\u010dovali v \u0159ad\u011b dal\u0161\u00edch aktivit spole\u010densk\u00fdch akc\u00ed, koncert\u016f a mnoho dal\u0161\u00edho. Spole\u010dn\u00fdm jmenovatelem byla v\u017edy pomoc druh\u00fdm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pomohli nap\u0159\u00edklad dnes jeden\u00e1ctilet\u00e9 Nelince, kter\u00e1 pot\u0159ebovala speci\u00e1ln\u00ed ort\u00e9zky, kter\u00e9 se vyr\u00e1b\u011bj\u00ed v N\u011bmecku a Rakousku a \u010desk\u00e9 zdravotn\u00ed poji\u0161\u0165ovny je nepropl\u00e1c\u00ed. Prarodi\u010de Nelinky, kte\u0159\u00ed ji maj\u00ed ve sv\u00e9 p\u00e9\u010di \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed, \u017ee t\u00edm ohromn\u011b nastartoval jejich motivaci v p\u00e9\u010di o malou sle\u010dnu a dodnes jsou mu za pomoc vd\u011b\u010dn\u00ed. Honzova iniciativa toti\u017e spustila to, \u017ee p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh vze\u0161el ve zn\u00e1most ve\u0159ejnosti a k pomoci se p\u0159ipojili dal\u0161\u00ed organizace ale i oby\u010dejn\u00ed lid\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dobrosmr\u0165\u00e1ck\u00fd festival<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zn\u00e1m\u00fd je tak\u00e9 po\u0159\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00edm Dobrosmr\u0165\u00e1ck\u00e9ho festivalu v Jind\u0159ichovic\u00edch, kter\u00fd je pln\u00fd z\u00e1bavy, her, koncert\u016f a pov\u00edd\u00e1n\u00ed s lidmi z hospice svat\u00e9ho Ji\u0159\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jan Sebj\u00e1n m\u00e1 s\u00e1m \u00fa\u017easnou rodinu, kter\u00e1 je mu velkou oporou. S\u00e1m tvrd\u011b pracuje v lese a \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, \u017ee si tam vy\u010dist\u00ed hlavu a udr\u017euje fyzi\u010dku. V ml\u00e1d\u00ed byl aktivn\u00edm sportovcem a v\u00fdborn\u00fdm karatistou. Zaj\u00edmalo n\u00e1s tak\u00e9 jak relaxuje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eM\u00e1m kolem sebe skv\u011blou rodinu, m\u00e1m r\u00e1d lidi, po\u0159\u00e1dnou muziku u kter\u00e9 se vyblbnu a s partou zn\u00e1m\u00fdch a kamar\u00e1d\u016f jsme p\u0159ed lety propadli otu\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed. Na\u0161im obl\u00edben\u00fdm rev\u00edrem je zatopen\u00fd lom u Jind\u0159ichovic kam chod\u00edme nejrad\u011bji, jak jinak, ne\u017e v zim\u011b,\u201c uzav\u00edr\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jan Sebj\u00e1n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Je mu 50 let.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u017dije v Jind\u0159ichovic\u00edch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pom\u00e1h\u00e1 nezi\u0161tn\u011b t\u011bm, kte\u0159\u00ed to pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pod\u00edl\u00ed se nap\u0159\u00edklad na projektech Hospic sv. Ji\u0159\u00ed, T\u0159\u00edkr\u00e1lov\u00e1 kav\u00e1rni\u010dka pro dobrou v\u011bc, Sanitka p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Roman Cichocki<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sokolovsk\u00fd den\u00edk<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/sokolovsky.denik.cz\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/sokolovsky.denik.cz<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>Hospic sv. Ji\u0159\u00ed, T\u0159\u00edkr\u00e1lov\u00e1 kav\u00e1rni\u010dka pro dobrou v\u011bc, Sanitka p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed, alternativn\u00ed poh\u0159ebnictv\u00ed, Farn\u00ed charita \u010di nespo\u010det kulturn\u00edch a spole\u010densk\u00fdch akc\u00ed na podporu posti\u017een\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed i <a class=\"mh-excerpt-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=57481\" title=\"Hospic, charita i alternativn\u00ed poh\u0159by. 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