{"id":58877,"date":"2025-06-29T15:14:12","date_gmt":"2025-06-29T13:14:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=58877"},"modified":"2025-06-29T15:16:07","modified_gmt":"2025-06-29T13:16:07","slug":"jakym-trem-vecem-by-se-mel-clovek-vyhnout-kdyz-mu-je-pres-70-let","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=58877","title":{"rendered":"Jak\u00fdm t\u0159em v\u011bcem by se m\u011bl \u010dlov\u011bk vyhnout, kdy\u017e mu je p\u0159es 70 let?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

John OLeary<\/strong>
studoval na Boston University
Elkins Park, Pennsylvania
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V \u010dervenci mi bude 70. Zde jsou m\u00e9 t\u0159i nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed z\u00e1sady: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

1 Nikdy nekomentujte vzhled mlad\u00e9 \u017eeny. Mo\u017en\u00e1 si mysl\u00edte, \u017ee je to roztomil\u00fd. Ve skute\u010dnosti je to d\u011bsiv\u00e9. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

2 Proboha, mluv\u00edte-li s mlad\u00fdmi lidmi, nest\u011b\u017eujte si na sv\u00e9 zdrav\u00ed, nediskutujte o l\u00e9c\u00edch, nemluvte o ztuhl\u00fdch kolenou, bolav\u00fdch z\u00e1dech atd. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

3 P\u0159esta\u0148te s \u010d\u00edmkoli, co d\u011bl\u00e1te p\u0159ehnan\u011b: p\u0159ib\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed na v\u00e1ze, pit\u00ed alkoholu, p\u0159et\u011b\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed se.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fruma Klass<\/strong>
b\u00fdval\u00e1\u00a0Instructor, Ret.,\u00a0at\u00a0The Pennsylvania State University<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V 89 letech v\u00e1m m\u016f\u017eu \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee my, opravdu star\u00e9 \u017eeny, r\u00e1dy mluv\u00edme o sv\u00fdch drobn\u00fdch pot\u00ed\u017e\u00edch. A n\u011bkdy od sebe navz\u00e1jem dostaneme dobr\u00e9 rady, jak se s nimi vypo\u0159\u00e1dat. Nav\u00edc, kdy\u017e jste dostate\u010dn\u011b star\u00e9, v\u011bt\u0161ina lid\u00ed ve va\u0161em v\u011bku jsou \u017eeny \u2013 mlad\u0161\u00ed \u017eeny \u010dasto ocen\u00ed milou pozn\u00e1mku o sv\u00e9m vzhledu od star\u0161\u00edch \u017een.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Janet Bourque<\/strong>
b\u00fdval\u00e1 Marketing Representative at IBM (company)
M.Ed. in Vocational Counselling, University of Massachusetts,
Boston, MA<\/p>\n\n\n\n

J\u00e1 si r\u00e1da st\u011b\u017euji \u2013 a souc\u00edt\u00edm s ostatn\u00edmi star\u00fdmi lidmi \u2013 ohledn\u011b na\u0161ich zdravotn\u00edch probl\u00e9m\u016f. Kdy jindy bychom to mohli d\u011blat? Je to n\u011bco, co m\u00e1me v\u0161ichni spole\u010dn\u00e9. Tak\u00e9 jsem dnes ve\u010der v j\u00eddeln\u011b za\u0161la k \u017een\u011b mlad\u0161\u00edho v\u011bku, abych j\u00ed \u0159ekla, \u017ee se mi moc l\u00edb\u00ed jej\u00ed \u0161aty! Byly opravdu velkolep\u00e9. Ne\u0159\u00edkejte mi, \u017ee si m\u00fdch slov nev\u00e1\u017eila.

\u017diji v komunit\u011b senior\u016f. Jsem \u017eena, ale v\u017edycky chv\u00e1l\u00edm mlad\u00e9 \u017eeny, kter\u00e9 pro n\u00e1s pracuj\u00ed, a \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m jim, jak r\u00e1da se d\u00edv\u00e1m na jejich mlad\u00e9 tv\u00e1\u0159e bez vr\u00e1sek. Mluv\u00edm o jejich dobr\u00e9m make-upu a dr\u017een\u00ed t\u011bla a p\u0159ipom\u00edn\u00e1m jim, \u017ee jsme taky tak kdysi vypadaly. Te\u010f jsem mnohem opatrn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, kdy\u017e chv\u00e1l\u00edm mlad\u00e9 mu\u017ee, kte\u0159\u00ed pro n\u00e1s pracuj\u00ed. Ale po\u0159\u00e1d m\u011b bav\u00ed d\u00edvat se na zdrav\u00e9, svalnat\u00e9, mlad\u00e9 kluky a vzpom\u00edn\u00e1m na star\u00e9 \u010dasy, kdy i na\u0161i kluci byli opravdu \u201eroztomil\u00ed\u201c.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eve Nucifora<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eMy\u201c jsme nebyli vychov\u00e1v\u00e1ni k tomu, abychom si mysleli, \u017ee pochv\u00e1lit n\u011bkomu \u0161aty je \u0161patn\u011b, ve skute\u010dnosti jsme to pova\u017eovali za kompliment. Sv\u011bt se v\u0161ak zm\u011bnil. Ned\u00e1vno jsem se dozv\u011bd\u011bla, \u017ee kdy\u017e kolega nebo zam\u011bstnavatel \u0159ekne: \u201eDnes vypad\u00e1\u0161 hezky.\u201c (a\u0165 u\u017e mu\u017e nebo \u017eena), lze to nazvat \u201esexu\u00e1ln\u00edm obt\u011b\u017eov\u00e1n\u00edm\u201c. \u201eHezk\u00e9\u201c nebo \u201ep\u016fvabn\u00e9\u201c, ne \u201esexy\u201c nebo \u201eatraktivn\u00ed\u201c\u2026 naprosto se zm\u011bnily postoje a ch\u00e1p\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Deitric Ellis

I kdy\u017e si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee koment\u00e1\u0159\u016fm ohledn\u011b vzhledu je na pracovi\u0161ti nejlep\u0161\u00ed se vyhnout, zejm\u00e9na v sou\u010dasn\u00e9 situaci; kdy je pak n\u011bkdo nahl\u00e1\u0161en person\u00e1ln\u00edmu odd\u011blen\u00ed nebo managementu za to, \u017ee \u0159ekl kolegovi: \u201eDnes vypad\u00e1\u0161 hezky\u201c, a to je pova\u017eov\u00e1no za sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed obt\u011b\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed, prost\u011b se mi to zd\u00e1 \u0161patn\u00e9. Nedok\u00e1\u017eu si p\u0159edstavit, \u017ee by k takov\u00e9mu nahl\u00e1\u0161en\u00ed do\u0161lo, kdyby za t\u00edm nebylo n\u011bco v\u00edc nebo kdyby zat\u00edm nebyla n\u011bjak\u00e1 historie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cherry Bessant

To je absurdn\u00ed. V dne\u0161n\u00ed dob\u011b nem\u016f\u017eete nic d\u011blat ani \u0159\u00edkat, ani\u017e by v\u00e1m n\u011bkdo \u0159ekl, \u017ee je to \u0161patn\u00e9, a\u0165 u\u017e je to jak\u00e9koli nov\u00e9 pravidlo, kter\u00e9 te\u010f plat\u00ed. V\u011bt\u0161ina lid\u00ed o v\u00e1s pak \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, \u017ee jste rasista, bezd\u016fvodn\u011b. I vl\u010d\u00ed p\u00edsk\u00e1n\u00ed je dnes zlo\u010din. D\u0159\u00edve to b\u00fdvala pocta, kdy\u017e kolem pro\u0161la hezk\u00e1 d\u00edvka. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed star\u0161\u00ed mu\u017ei st\u00e1le \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed \u201eDobr\u00e9 r\u00e1no, l\u00e1sko\u201c. Mo\u017en\u00e1 je zn\u00e1te, mo\u017en\u00e1 ne. Jsou jen p\u0159\u00e1tel\u0161t\u00ed, necht\u011bj\u00ed v\u00e1s zn\u00e1silnit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

David Damico

Jsem u\u010ditel na st\u0159edn\u00ed \u0161kole a je mi 63 let. Vyh\u00fdb\u00e1m se jak\u00fdmkoli koment\u00e1\u0159\u016fm ohledn\u011b vzhledu. Mysl\u00edm si, \u017ee je to vzhledem k ml\u00e1d\u00ed m\u00fdch student\u016f nevhodn\u00e9, ale tak\u00e9 by mohla p\u0159ij\u00edt jedna st\u00ed\u017enost na sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed obt\u011b\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed a mohl bych p\u0159ij\u00edt o pr\u00e1ci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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John OLearystudoval na Boston UniversityElkins Park, Pennsylvania V \u010dervenci mi bude 70. Zde jsou m\u00e9 t\u0159i nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed z\u00e1sady: 1 Nikdy nekomentujte vzhled mlad\u00e9 \u017eeny. Mo\u017en\u00e1 […]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":15769,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-58877","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spolecnost"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/58877","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=58877"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/58877\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/15769"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=58877"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=58877"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=58877"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}