Lhan\u00ed je sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed narcistick\u00e9ho chov\u00e1n\u00ed. Narcista a lh\u00e1\u0159 jsou synonyma, proto\u017ee u nich neplat\u00ed pravda, ale le\u017e.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jak tedy pozn\u00e1te, kdy narcista l\u017ee? Up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b? Kdykoli otev\u0159ou \u00fasta. L\u017ei se ale ne v\u017edy snadno odhal\u00ed. N\u011bkter\u00e9 jsou jasn\u011b z\u0159ejm\u00e9: \u201eUd\u011blal jsi to?\u201c
\u201eNe.\u201c <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jin\u00ed l\u017eou skryt\u011b, ale zaml\u010duj\u00ed: \u201e\u0158\u00edkal jsem ti, \u017ee jsem \u0161el do obchodu,\u201c ale ne\u0159ekli v\u00e1m o t\u00e9 \u010d\u00e1sti, kter\u00e1 zahrnuje setk\u00e1n\u00ed s n\u011bk\u00fdm za va\u0161imi z\u00e1dy nebo vy\u010derp\u00e1n\u00ed bankovn\u00edho \u00fa\u010dtu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A pak je tu gaslighting, p\u0159ehnan\u00e9 lhan\u00ed. Gaslighting nen\u00ed jen pop\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed pravdy; je to manipulace s va\u0161\u00ed realitou do t\u00e9 m\u00edry, \u017ee pochybujete, zda va\u0161e vlastn\u00ed mysl funguje spr\u00e1vn\u011b. Je to postupn\u00fd \u00fabytek va\u0161eho zdrav\u00e9ho rozumu a sebev\u011bdom\u00ed, kdy jste uv\u00edzli v kognitivn\u00ed disonanci, zmateni mezi t\u00edm, co v\u00edte, a t\u00edm, co v\u00e1m \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tato dezinformace vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed MLHU: Strach, Povinnost a Vinu. Mot\u00e1 se v\u00e1m hlava, p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00edte, jestli je to va\u0161e chyba, a pochybujete o sv\u00fdch vnit\u0159n\u00edch pocitech. P\u0159esn\u011b tohle si narcis p\u0159eje, abyste se ztratili v mlze a on tahal za nitky.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kolob\u011bh v\u0161ech t\u011bchto l\u017e\u00ed v\u00e1s cvi\u010d\u00ed k ned\u016fv\u011b\u0159e sami sob\u011b a k p\u0159ijet\u00ed jejich \u201epravdy\u201c. Upravujete sv\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed tak, abyste se v\u0161em l\u00edbil, chod\u00edte kolem nich jako po sko\u0159\u00e1pk\u00e1ch a douf\u00e1te v up\u0159\u00edmnost, kter\u00e1 se nikdy nedostav\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jak tedy doopravdy pozn\u00e1te pravdu? Je tu jedno slovo, kter\u00e9 si mus\u00edte pamatovat: Demonstrace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Neposlouchejte, co \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed. Sledujte, co d\u011blaj\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kdy\u017e se top\u00edte v jejich slovn\u00edm sal\u00e1tu, sni\u017ete hlasitost. P\u0159edstavte si, \u017ee sledujete n\u011bm\u00fd film… co v\u00e1m jejich \u010diny sd\u011bluj\u00ed?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jak v\u00e1m projevuj\u00ed l\u00e1sku? K\u0159i\u010d\u00ed na v\u00e1s? Respektuj\u00ed v\u00e1s?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jak v\u00e1m projevuj\u00ed respekt? Ignoruj\u00ed va\u0161e hranice?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jak projevuj\u00ed up\u0159\u00edmnost? P\u0159ekrucuj\u00ed va\u0161e slova za va\u0161imi z\u00e1dy?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jak projevuj\u00ed zranitelnost? Autenti\u010dnost, nebo jinou manipulativn\u00ed taktikou?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jak projevuj\u00ed zm\u011bnu? \u017dij\u00ed ji, nebo ji jen slibuj\u00ed?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jak projevuj\u00ed d\u016fslednost? Je jejich l\u00e1ska bezpodm\u00edne\u010dn\u00e1 nebo situa\u010dn\u00ed?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jak projevuj\u00ed integritu a transparentnost? Opravdu se vzd\u00e1vaj\u00ed kontroly, nebo si schov\u00e1vaj\u00ed tajemstv\u00ed a omlouvaj\u00ed se?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pokud je za\u010dnete m\u011b\u0159it podle n\u011bjak\u00e9ho vzoru \u010di p\u0159\u00edkladu, realita se stane jasnou \u2013 opravdovou, pravdivou, ale bolestivou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Slova klamou. \u010ciny ne.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pokud chcete zjistit pravdu o l\u017ei narcisty, p\u0159esta\u0148te od n\u011bj o\u010dek\u00e1vat, \u017ee v\u00e1m \u0159ekne pravdu. Sledujte, co d\u011bl\u00e1. A poprv\u00e9 to berte tak, jak to je.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Lhan\u00ed je sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed narcistick\u00e9ho chov\u00e1n\u00ed. Narcista a lh\u00e1\u0159 jsou synonyma, proto\u017ee u nich neplat\u00ed pravda, ale le\u017e. Jak tedy pozn\u00e1te, kdy narcista l\u017ee? Up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b? Kdykoli […]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":43411,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-59947","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spolecnost"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59947","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=59947"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59947\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/43411"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=59947"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=59947"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=59947"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}