Desetilet\u00fd Nicolas s t\u011b\u017ek\u00fdm autismem a dal\u0161\u00edmi diagn\u00f3zami pot\u0159ebuje nep\u0159etr\u017eit\u00fd dohled. Jeho rodi\u010de proto \u017eij\u00ed v neust\u00e1l\u00e9 ostra\u017eitosti. Pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed lep\u0161\u00ed bydlen\u00ed. Zat\u00edmco okol\u00ed se pt\u00e1, pro\u010d si nevezmou hypot\u00e9ku, realita je mnohem slo\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. Bez stabiln\u00edho p\u0159\u00edjmu a s vy\u010derp\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed p\u00e9\u010d\u00ed o syna je pro rodinu vlastn\u00ed bezpe\u010dn\u00e9 bydlen\u00ed zat\u00edm nedosa\u017eiteln\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nicolas \u017eije se sv\u00fdmi rodi\u010di v domku nevlastn\u00edho d\u011bde\u010dka v obci Lipov\u00e1-l\u00e1zn\u011b v Olomouck\u00e9m kraji. Narozen\u00ed dnes desetilet\u00e9ho chlapce doprov\u00e1zela \u0159ada komplikac\u00ed. Jeho tat\u00ednek David Ohera o n\u011bm \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, \u017ee kdy\u017e p\u0159ed\u010dasn\u011b p\u0159i\u0161el na sv\u011bt, ve\u0161el se do dlan\u011b ruky. M\u011bl pouh\u00fdch 920 gram\u016f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V inkub\u00e1toru, kam byl Nicolas po porodu um\u00edst\u011bn, prod\u011blal dv\u011b siln\u00e9 infekce a jeho \u017eivot visel na vl\u00e1sku. L\u00e9ka\u0159i si pr\u00fd mysleli, \u017ee nep\u0159e\u017eije.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Strach a bolest, jakou jeho rodi\u010de tehdy pro\u017e\u00edvali, se nedaj\u00ed popsat slovy. Nicolas sice p\u0159e\u017eil, ale t\u00edm bohu\u017eel n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 chv\u00edle neskon\u010dily. Dnes je mu deset let, ale v mnoh\u00fdch oblastech nen\u00ed na \u00farovni ani p\u0159ed\u0161koln\u00edho d\u00edt\u011bte. Chod\u00ed proto do speci\u00e1ln\u00ed \u0161koly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nicolas nemluv\u00ed, nem\u00e1 pojem o \u010dase<\/p>\n\n\n\n
U\u017e od narozen\u00ed trp\u00ed Nicolas t\u011b\u017ek\u00fdm autismem, p\u0159idru\u017eenou ment\u00e1ln\u00ed retardac\u00ed, ADHD a neurologick\u00fdmi obt\u00ed\u017eemi. Podle v\u00fdpov\u011bdi jeho rodi\u010d\u016f nemluv\u00ed, nem\u00e1 pojem o \u010dase, nev\u00ed, co je den a noc, ani jak\u00e1 jsou ro\u010dn\u00ed obdob\u00ed. S vrstevn\u00edky si neum\u00ed hr\u00e1t, nedok\u00e1\u017ee se radovat nebo se na n\u011bco t\u011b\u0161it. \u017dije ve vlastn\u00edm sv\u011bt\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eNev\u00ed, co jsou V\u00e1noce, Velikonoce nebo narozeniny. Nedok\u00e1\u017ee vysv\u011btlit, co je letadlo, lo\u010f, vlak, ani pen\u00edze. Neum\u00ed \u010d\u00edst, ps\u00e1t, po\u010d\u00edtat, ani mluvit. Je na plen\u00e1ch,\u201c vysv\u011btluje jeho tat\u00ednek David Ohera jen n\u011bkter\u00e9 dopady synova onemocn\u011bn\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u00fdchova syna s tolika zdravotn\u00edmi hendikepy je pro rodi\u010de vy\u010derp\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed a z\u00e1sadn\u011b ovliv\u0148uje \u017eivot cel\u00e9 rodiny \u2013 a to jak osobn\u00ed, tak pracovn\u00ed. \u201eJsou chv\u00edle, kdy m\u00e1me jako rodi\u010de pocit, \u017ee u\u017e nem\u016f\u017eeme d\u00e1l,\u201c sv\u011b\u0159uje se Nicolas\u016fv t\u00e1ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u017dije, jako by byl nesmrteln\u00fd<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Velmi n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 je to, \u017ee Nicolas nevn\u00edm\u00e1 nebezpe\u010d\u00ed a nedok\u00e1\u017ee ovl\u00e1dat sv\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed. Prost\u0159ed\u00ed, ve kter\u00e9m \u017eije s rodi\u010di a d\u011bde\u010dkem, nen\u00ed pro jeho pot\u0159eby vyhovuj\u00edc\u00ed a bezpe\u010dn\u00e9. Ani vlastn\u00ed zahrada situaci neuleh\u010duje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eNem\u016f\u017eeme ho nechat bez dozoru. Nem\u016f\u017eeme ho pustit hr\u00e1t si ven jako jin\u00e9 d\u011bti. \u017dijeme v neust\u00e1l\u00e9 ostra\u017eitosti. Aby byl alespo\u0148 relativn\u011b v bezpe\u010d\u00ed, mus\u00edme m\u00edt i doma v\u0161e zam\u010den\u00e9. Od lednice, kuchy\u0148sk\u00e9 linky, koupelny a\u017e po lo\u017enici,\u201c pokra\u010duje Nicolas\u016fv t\u00e1ta David.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ze strany soused\u016f nav\u00edc rodi\u010de \u010dasto sl\u00fdchaj\u00ed reakce, kter\u00e9 jsou pro n\u011b velmi nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 a zra\u0148uj\u00edc\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eCh\u00e1peme, \u017ee okol\u00ed chce m\u00edt klidn\u00e9 bydlen\u00ed, a nikomu to nem\u00e1me za zl\u00e9. Lid\u00e9 ale vid\u00ed jen na\u0161e autistick\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b, ne v\u017edy ch\u00e1pou neust\u00e1lou psychickou z\u00e1t\u011b\u017e, kterou neseme,\u201c vypr\u00e1v\u00ed David Ohera.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u00fdchodisko vid\u00ed ve vybudov\u00e1n\u00ed takov\u00e9ho bydlen\u00ed, kter\u00e9 bude pro Nicolase bezpe\u010dn\u00e9 a z\u00e1rove\u0148 tam jeho projevy nebudou ru\u0161it klid soused\u016f. Na jeho po\u0159\u00edzen\u00ed v\u0161ak nemaj\u00ed rodi\u010de dostate\u010dn\u00e9 mno\u017estv\u00ed pen\u011bz, a proto \u017e\u00e1daj\u00ed o podporu ve sb\u00edrce na dobro\u010dinn\u00e9 platform\u011b Donio: https:\/\/donio.cz\/bezpecny-domov-pro-nicolase<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u010cast\u00fd dotaz: Pro\u010d si nevezmete hypot\u00e9ku?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mnoho lid\u00ed se pr\u00fd rodi\u010d\u016f chlapce pt\u00e1, pro\u010d si nevezmou hypot\u00e9ku, tak jako ostatn\u00ed lid\u00e9. Realita jejich \u017eivota se ale od b\u011b\u017en\u00fdch rodin v mnoh\u00e9m z\u00e1sadn\u011b li\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201eP\u00e9\u010de o Nicolase je nep\u0159etr\u017eit\u00e1 a fyzicky i psychicky n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e1. Jsou noci, kdy v\u016fbec nesp\u00ed nebo usne a\u017e nad r\u00e1nem. Jsme naprosto vy\u010derpan\u00ed a fungujeme na hranici sil. Tento re\u017eim bohu\u017eel nen\u00ed v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00fd, ale pravideln\u00fd,\u201c \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed o p\u00e9\u010di o sv\u00e9ho syna rodi\u010de.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sou\u010dasn\u011b \u0159e\u0161\u00ed probl\u00e9m s um\u00edst\u011bn\u00edm syna b\u011bhem \u0161koln\u00edch pr\u00e1zdnin \u010di p\u0159i b\u011b\u017en\u00fdch onemocn\u011bn\u00edch. \u201eD\u00edt\u011b s t\u011b\u017ek\u00fdm autismem nem\u016f\u017eete nechat samotn\u00e9 doma a odej\u00edt do pr\u00e1ce,\u201c vysv\u011btluje Nicolas\u016fv otec.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dal\u0161\u00ed komplikac\u00ed je i Nicolasova emo\u010dn\u00ed nestabilita. \u010casto se st\u00e1v\u00e1, \u017ee rodi\u010d\u016fm volaj\u00ed ze speci\u00e1ln\u00ed \u0161koly dom\u016f, aby si pro syna p\u0159ijeli, proto\u017ee situaci nezvl\u00e1d\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Za takov\u00fdch podm\u00ednek zkr\u00e1tka nen\u00ed pro rodi\u010de re\u00e1ln\u00e9 m\u00edt klasick\u00fd pracovn\u00ed pom\u011br. Bez stabiln\u00edho p\u0159\u00edjmu ov\u0161em na hypot\u00e9ku nedos\u00e1hnou. \u201eNejde o neochotu pracovat. Jde o realitu \u017eivota s d\u00edt\u011btem, kter\u00e9 pot\u0159ebuje na\u0161i plnou p\u0159\u00edtomnost a podporu ka\u017ed\u00fd den,\u201c vysv\u011btluje chlapc\u016fv t\u00e1ta David.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pokud by rodi\u010de cht\u011bli vyu\u017e\u00edt kvalifikovanou asistentku, kter\u00e1 by syna v jejich nep\u0159\u00edtomnosti hl\u00eddala, zaplatili by za takov\u00e9 slu\u017eby asi 36 tis\u00edc korun m\u011bs\u00ed\u010dn\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nevyb\u00edraj\u00ed miliony, \u017e\u00e1daj\u00ed p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvek<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nicolasovi rodi\u010de se proto nyn\u00ed rozhodli prodat byt v panelov\u00e9m dom\u011b, kter\u00fd vlastn\u00ed, ale k bydlen\u00ed s autistick\u00fdm d\u00edt\u011btem je zcela nevhodn\u00fd (proto bydl\u00ed u otce; pozn. red.). Z\u00edskan\u00e9 finance cht\u011bj\u00ed investovat do po\u0159\u00edzen\u00ed rodinn\u00e9ho domku, kde by mohli synovi nab\u00eddnout bezpe\u010dn\u00e9 prost\u0159ed\u00ed. Sb\u00edrka jim pom\u016f\u017ee pokr\u00fdt \u010d\u00e1st n\u00e1klad\u016f, kterou nejsou schopni financovat prodejem bytu a \u00fasporami.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201eNa\u0161\u00edm snem je koupit rodinn\u00fd d\u016fm se zabezpe\u010denou zahradou, p\u0159izp\u016fsoben\u00fd pot\u0159eb\u00e1m na\u0161eho d\u00edt\u011bte. D\u016fm v klidn\u00e9 lokalit\u011b, kde m\u016f\u017ee Nicolas \u017e\u00edt v prost\u0159ed\u00ed, kter\u00e9 mu prosp\u00edv\u00e1. Kde cel\u00e1 rodina m\u016f\u017ee \u017e\u00edt relativn\u011b v klidu, bez strachu z konflikt\u016f a nepochopen\u00ed,\u201c vysv\u011btluje p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed cel\u00e9 rodiny David Ohera v z\u00e1v\u011bru sb\u00edrky.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kate\u0159ina Kofro\u0148ov\u00e1<\/p>\n\n\n\n Den\u00edk.cz<\/p>\n\n\n\n https:\/\/www.denik.cz<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Desetilet\u00fd Nicolas s t\u011b\u017ek\u00fdm autismem a dal\u0161\u00edmi diagn\u00f3zami pot\u0159ebuje nep\u0159etr\u017eit\u00fd dohled. Jeho rodi\u010de proto \u017eij\u00ed v neust\u00e1l\u00e9 ostra\u017eitosti. Pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed lep\u0161\u00ed bydlen\u00ed. 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