{"id":9295,"date":"2013-08-19T08:23:05","date_gmt":"2013-08-19T06:23:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=9295"},"modified":"2014-10-20T20:09:43","modified_gmt":"2014-10-20T18:09:43","slug":"pred-romskymi-detmi-bychom-se-meli-stydet-rika-zezulova","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/?p=9295","title":{"rendered":"„P\u0159ed romsk\u00fdmi d\u011btmi bychom se m\u011bli styd\u011bt,“ \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Zezulov\u00e1"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u0160anci na svoji rodinu by m\u011bly dostat v\u0161echny d\u011bti, \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 den\u00edku MfD svitavsk\u00e1 l\u00e9ka\u0159ka a p\u011bstounka d\u011bt\u00ed Dagmar Zezulov\u00e1. Z \u00fatok\u016f na romsk\u00e1 pater\u010data je j\u00ed \u0161patn\u011b. <\/strong>\/ilustra\u010dn\u00ed sn\u00edmek\/<\/p>\n

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Pot\u00e9, kdy si po\u0159\u00eddili d\u016fm i vlastn\u00ed potomky, rozhodli se Dagmar Zezulov\u00e1 spolu se sv\u00fdm man\u017eelem d\u00e1t domov d\u011btem, kter\u00e9 ho z n\u011bjak\u00e9ho d\u016fvodu nemaj\u00ed. P\u0159es mnoho po\u010d\u00e1te\u010dn\u00edch p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017eek nakonec dos\u00e1hli sv\u00e9ho a syn\u016fm Dominikovi a Danielovi po\u0159\u00eddili dal\u0161\u00ed sourozence.<\/p>\n

„Dva kluci se n\u00e1m narodili a \u010dty\u0159i d\u011bti jsme p\u0159ijali do dlouhodob\u00e9 p\u011bstounsk\u00e9 p\u00e9\u010de. Po\u0159\u00e1d je pova\u017eujeme za sv\u00e9 d\u011bti a se v\u0161emi m\u00e1me kr\u00e1sn\u00e9 vztahy. Nejmlad\u0161\u00ed m\u00e1 18 let, ostatn\u00ed jsou star\u0161\u00ed. V\u0161ichni u n\u00e1s vyr\u016fstali do zletilosti. Krom\u011b toho jsme m\u011bli kr\u00e1tkou dobu hol\u010di\u010dku, kter\u00e1 se vr\u00e1tila do \u0161ir\u0161\u00ed biologick\u00e9 rodiny. Ta n\u00e1m sv\u011b\u0159ena nebyla, ale st\u00e1le jsme v kontaktu. Ka\u017ed\u00e9 z p\u0159ijat\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed si s sebou p\u0159ineslo kufr pln\u00fd probl\u00e9m\u016f – uzav\u0159enost, citovou deprivaci, tedy n\u00e1sledky \u00fastavn\u00ed v\u00fdchovy a nedostatku l\u00e1skypln\u00fdch mate\u0159sk\u00fdch dotek\u016f, ale i kr\u00e1de\u017ee a l\u017ei. P\u0159esto na\u0161i rodinu svoj\u00ed p\u0159\u00edtomnost\u00ed obohatily, stmelily a podn\u00edtily jej\u00ed rozvoj,“ \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Dagmar Zezulov\u00e1.<\/p>\n

– P\u0159ib\u00fdv\u00e1, nebo ub\u00fdv\u00e1 z\u00e1jemc\u016f o p\u011bstounskou p\u00e9\u010di?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ur\u010dit\u011b p\u0159ib\u00fdv\u00e1 z\u00e1jemc\u016f o p\u011bstounskou p\u00e9\u010di na p\u0159echodnou dobu. Tahle profese tu d\u0159\u00edve nebyla a je pro mnoho rodin zaj\u00edmavou mo\u017enost\u00ed. Z\u00e1jemc\u016f o dlouhodobou p\u00e9\u010di ale sp\u00ed\u0161e ub\u00fdv\u00e1.<\/p>\n

– Existuje podle v\u00e1s p\u0159i v\u00fdb\u011bru d\u011bt\u00ed do p\u011bstounsk\u00e9 p\u00e9\u010de diskriminace?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ze strany \u017eadatel\u016f jednozna\u010dn\u011b. Ze strany st\u00e1tu by to m\u011blo b\u00fdt douf\u00e1m novelou z\u00e1kona eliminov\u00e1no. D\u0159\u00edve bylo ka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b v \u00fastavn\u00ed v\u00fdchov\u011b posuzov\u00e1no, zda je vhodn\u00e9 pro n\u00e1hradn\u00ed rodinn\u00e9 p\u00e9\u010de, nebo ne. To je rozhodn\u011b diskriminuj\u00edc\u00ed. Ale tento model by m\u011bl b\u00fdt opu\u0161t\u011bn, proto\u017ee \u0161anci na svoji rodinu by m\u011bly dostat v\u0161echny d\u011bti. Kdy\u017e ne vlastn\u00ed, tak alespo\u0148 p\u011bstounskou.<\/p>\n

– Maj\u00ed Romov\u00e9 handicap ve vztahu k p\u011bstounsk\u00e9 p\u00e9\u010di? Co se s t\u00edm d\u00e1 d\u011blat?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mnoho \u010desk\u00fdch \u017eadatel\u016f m\u00e1 jasno, \u017ee romsk\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b by vychov\u00e1vat necht\u011bli. Mysl\u00edm si, \u017ee pokud to takto c\u00edt\u00ed, je spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 se toho dr\u017eet. Vychov\u00e1vat d\u00edt\u011b s neust\u00e1l\u00fdmi obavami, kdy se projev\u00ed jeho „divok\u00e9 geny“, nen\u00ed dobr\u00e1 cesta. Moje vlastn\u00ed zku\u0161enost je ale takov\u00e1, \u017ee romsk\u00e9 d\u011bti maj\u00ed geny stejn\u00e9 jako my. Jsou ka\u017ed\u00e9 z nich stejn\u011b pestrou mozaikou dobr\u00fdch a \u0161patn\u00fdch vlastnost\u00ed jako kdokoliv jin\u00fd. \u010c\u00edm se li\u0161\u00ed, to je jejich vzhled a na to navazuj\u00edc\u00ed negativn\u00ed zku\u0161enosti. Mus\u00ed b\u00fdt mnohem siln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 \u010desk\u00e9 d\u011bti, pokud cht\u011bj\u00ed obst\u00e1t. Po pravd\u011b \u0159e\u010deno, n\u011bkdy si \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m, \u017ee bychom se p\u0159ed nimi m\u011bli styd\u011bt. Kdy\u017e \u010dtu rasistick\u00e9 diskuse a \u00fatoky na rodinu prvn\u00edch \u010desk\u00fdch pater\u010dat, je mi z toho \u00fapln\u011b \u0161patn\u011b – a to nechod\u00edm po sv\u011bt\u011b s tmavou k\u016f\u017e\u00ed.<\/p>\n

– Co se s t\u00edm d\u00e1 d\u011blat?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Za\u010d\u00edt bychom m\u011bli ka\u017ed\u00fd u sebe. Mo\u017en\u00e1 by \u00fapln\u011b sta\u010dilo neposuzovat \u010dlov\u011bka podle p\u0159\u00edslu\u0161nosti k etniku, ale podle n\u011bj samotn\u00e9ho. Zvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b nositel\u00e9 mor\u00e1lky – novin\u00e1\u0159i, m\u00e9dia, u\u010ditel\u00e9, zdravotn\u00edci, ve\u0159ejn\u011b \u010dinn\u00e9 osoby – v tomto maj\u00ed velk\u00fd dluh.<\/p>\n

– Ovlivnilo p\u011bstounstv\u00ed v\u00fdchovu va\u0161ich vlastn\u00edch d\u011bt\u00ed?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nepochybn\u011b. U\u017e p\u0159edt\u00edm, ne\u017e se narod\u00ed, p\u0159ipravujete se na p\u0159\u00edchod miminka, rodina se na n\u011bj t\u011b\u0161\u00ed, v\u0161e se pod\u0159\u00edd\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bti. V norm\u00e1ln\u011b funguj\u00edc\u00edch vztaz\u00edch si d\u00edt\u011b v\u00fdchovu \u0159\u00edd\u00ed samo – ono n\u011bjak\u00e9 je a vy na n\u011bj reagujete. Rodi\u010de to takto maj\u00ed nastaveno a z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na tom, jak se d\u00e1l budou chovat. D\u00e1vaj\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bti jistotu a bezpe\u010d\u00ed v cel\u00e9m prostoru. Av\u0161ak d\u011bti, kter\u00e9 do rodiny p\u0159ich\u00e1zej\u00ed, tohle nikdy neza\u017eily. Je nabouran\u00e1 jejich prim\u00e1rn\u00ed instinktivn\u00ed jistota bezpe\u010dn\u00e9ho prost\u0159ed\u00ed.<\/p>\n

– Jak jste to v\u0161echno zvl\u00e1dla? K tomu pr\u00e1ce l\u00e9ka\u0159ky, \u017eivobyt\u00ed\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n

My jsme v tomhle sm\u011bru m\u011bli velmi modern\u00ed rodinu, proto\u017ee doma z\u016fstal nejd\u0159\u00edv man\u017eel. Nav\u00edc je pedagog, l\u00e1kalo ho to, proto\u017ee p\u0159\u00edstup k d\u011btem nebyl jen o tom je milovat, byly po str\u00e1nce v\u00fdchovn\u00e9 neskute\u010dn\u011b zanedban\u00e9. To, co norm\u00e1ln\u011b d\u011bti v jejich v\u011bku um\u011bly -b\u00e1sni\u010dky a p\u00edsni\u010dky, n\u00e1zvy r\u016fzn\u00fdch v\u011bc\u00ed a jev\u016f nebo t\u0159eba \u010dinnosti, jako je j\u00edzda na t\u0159\u00edkolce nebo kolob\u011b\u017ece – tak neznaly. Kdy\u017e pak chodily v\u0161echny d\u011bti do \u0161koly, nastoupil man\u017eel do pr\u00e1ce a j\u00e1 jsem si zkr\u00e1tila \u00favazek. Je dob\u0159e, \u017ee v\u0161echny na\u0161e d\u011bti vid\u011bly, \u017ee to, \u017ee m\u00e1me na chleba, nepad\u00e1 samo z nebe. \u017de mus\u00edme chodit do pr\u00e1ce, \u017ee m\u00e1me n\u011bjak\u00e9 povinnosti. Co\u017e pova\u017euji za velmi d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9.<\/p>\n

—<\/p>\n

Dagmar Zezulov\u00e1<\/strong><\/p>\n

Narodila se v roce 1964. L\u00e9ka\u0159ka, prim\u00e1\u0159ka Odd\u011blen\u00ed zobrazovac\u00edch metod ve svitavsk\u00e9 nemocnici. Je vdan\u00e1, maminkou dvou syn\u016f a p\u011bstounkou \u010dty\u0159 p\u0159ijat\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed ve v\u011bku od 18 do 25 let. Nejmlad\u0161\u00ed dcera je vysoce funk\u010dn\u00ed autistka. Z\u00e1rove\u0148 je zakladatelkou ob\u010dansk\u00e9ho sdru\u017een\u00ed D\u011bti pat\u0159\u00ed dom\u016f, propag\u00e1torkou p\u011bstounsk\u00e9 p\u00e9\u010de a autorkou knih na toto t\u00e9ma – nap\u0159\u00edklad Domov je m\u00edsto, odkud t\u011b nevyhod\u00ed \u2026 ani, kdy\u017e vyroste\u0161 nebo P\u011bstounsk\u00e1 p\u00e9\u010de a adopce.<\/p>\n

Mlad\u00e1 fronta DNES<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u0160anci na svoji rodinu by m\u011bly dostat v\u0161echny d\u011bti, \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 den\u00edku MfD svitavsk\u00e1 l\u00e9ka\u0159ka a p\u011bstounka d\u011bt\u00ed Dagmar Zezulov\u00e1. Z \u00fatok\u016f na romsk\u00e1 pater\u010data je […]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4903,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12,9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9295","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-rozhovory","category-zpravy"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9295","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9295"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9295\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4903"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9295"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9295"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.invarena.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9295"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}